Dictated/Aunt Cui
Ever since my wife passed away, I've been living alone in our old house. Although the house is more than 20 years old, the school district house, the location is good, the surrounding infrastructure is also good, and my little grandson's primary school is on my side. Now that my grandson has returned to my son and daughter-in-law in junior high school, it is finally time for me to live alone, but my daughter-in-law said that I should vacate the house, and his brother's family will come to live, which makes me speechless.
Actually, I don't know that kind of unreasonable old lady, my daughter-in-law's younger brother, is also a relative of my family. If he doesn't have a place to live, I can accept it if he comes to live with me for a while, after all, I have a two-room house.
However, what my daughter-in-law meant was that his brother's child was about to go to elementary school, and asked me to transfer the house to her brother so that the child's household registration could be registered in my house. This is not a trivial matter, as soon as the house is transferred, it will legally belong to her brother, and I definitely don't want to.
My daughter-in-law said good things to persuade me: "Mom, don't worry, that's my own brother, and he won't cheat us." As soon as his son started elementary school, the house was returned to us. ”
I said, "You can't have the heart to harm others, and you can't have the heart to guard against people." When you got married, your parents also said that they would keep it for you first, and then give it to you when you decorate the wedding room. As a result, didn't it be used for your brother to marry a daughter-in-law? It's been more than ten years now, and I haven't paid you back, right?"
When my daughter-in-law heard this, I exposed her shortcomings again, and I was a little unhappy. Actually, I don't want to keep mentioning this matter, because there are too many similar things, just like my son bought a car, and she also said that she would hang her brother's name so that she could get a license plate. As a result, the car became her brother's, and the family of three drove it every day.
If I listen to my daughter-in-law's words this time and transfer the house to her brother, maybe the house will not be able to come back at that time, and it will become her brother's house.
It's not that I can't trust my daughter-in-law, but her mother's family really does everything, and she is a soft-eared "brother demon". I really don't dare to joke with half of my life's hard work, after all, this is also my retirement home in the future.
So, I decisively refused, but my daughter-in-law turned her face to me and said: "Mom, don't be too unkind, if you don't vacate the house and don't help me with this, then don't count on me to support your old age in the future." ”
When I heard my daughter-in-law's words, I was so angry that I almost fainted, and she actually threatened me to transfer the house to her brother in order to give me a pension. I was angry, but I didn't eat her.
I said, "If you don't provide for the elderly, you won't provide for the elderly, I have a son, and I don't expect my daughter-in-law to provide for the elderly." As long as my son provides for me, don't stop me. If you really think that I am dragging down my son and dragging you down, then I will live in a nursing home when I am old!"
After hearing my words, my daughter-in-law left in a huff.
After that, my son called me again, and also helped my daughter-in-law mobilize me to move and transfer the house to his brother-in-law. As soon as I heard it, my son was blown by his daughter-in-law, and he couldn't rely on it.
In order not to embarrass my son and to provide for my future pension, I immediately contacted the intermediary and put the house on the Internet for sale.
Although the price is lower than in previous years, it is enough for me to support my old age. I think so, instead of the house being empty by my daughter-in-law's younger brother and the white wolf, it is better to lose hundreds of thousands of yuan now and put it in my hands for real money.
After that, my daughter-in-law called me again, and as soon as she got through, she yelled at me: "Mom, are you old and confused? Are you selling a house on a fake basis? Are you renting it to this family and deliberately not letting my brother live with them?"
I said, "Of course not, I really sold the house, and you threatened not to give me a pension, and I didn't sell the house for pension money?"
When my daughter-in-law heard this, she was so angry that she scolded me on the other side of the phone, saying that I was ruthless, had no conscience, and had no human feelings, so I hung up the phone after listening to a few words.
After this incident, I am even more convinced that there is nothing wrong with my decisive decision to sell the house. Because my daughter-in-law doesn't have much affection for me, let alone filial piety. Even if I transfer this house to her brother, her brother will not be able to say anything in the future. Even if it is returned, it will be returned to my daughter-in-law, and I will not be able to get anything by then.
Rather than having no money and no house at that time, and maybe living in the house of his son and daughter-in-law, it is better to sell the house now. Do you think I'm right?
Write at the end
Aunt Cui decisively sold the house and did not transfer the house to her daughter-in-law's younger brother, which can be said to be very assertive. Although it is said that relatives should help each other, this matter of transferring the house is not a trivial matter. What's more, her daughter-in-law's younger brother still has a "criminal record" of taking other people's things as her own, and she doesn't dare to risk transferring the house to her daughter-in-law's younger brother.
Moreover, her daughter-in-law also threatened her not to provide for her for this matter, which shows that she does not have much filial piety to her mother-in-law. Therefore, she was right to sell the house decisively and hold the money in her own hands.
Of course, if she doesn't want her son and daughter-in-law to have conflicts in the future, she can take out some money to appease her daughter-in-law, and she can also leave a gesture of goodwill in front of her son. What do you think?
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