#头条首发挑战赛#
Text: Kapok
Three months ago, 67-year-old Aunt Ma sent off her old wife.
Aunt Ma's wife was a cadre of a state-owned enterprise before her death, and she had a lot of funeral expenses after her death, plus Aunt Ma and her wife saved money for most of their lives, and there was a lot of savings, not to mention that Aunt Ma also had 2 sons and 1 daughter, Aunt Ma was not worried about her own pension problems.
After the funeral of her wife, Aunt Ma first called her eldest son to her side and said to her eldest son: "Your father just left, I'm a little scared, you can move over and take care of me for a few days!"
But the eldest son said: "Mom, my unit has been busy recently, and your house is far away from my unit, so it's inconvenient for me to commute to and from work!"
Aunt Ma wanted her youngest son to be with her for a few days, but the youngest son immediately refused: "Mom, I still have two children to raise at home, and my daughter-in-law can't take care of two children by herself." ”
Aunt Ma asked her daughter again, and her daughter immediately refused: "Mom, my home can't leave me at all, I'm not at home, my two children can't even eat, my man, you know, can't be relied on at all!"
Aunt Ma didn't want to embarrass her three children, so she began to call the housekeeping company to find a live-in nanny, and the final negotiated salary was 4,500 yuan per month.
Upon hearing that a nanny would cost her a monthly salary of 4,500 yuan, Aunt Ma's three children all said that there was no need for Aunt Ma to hire a nanny, they could take turns to take care of Aunt Ma, and Aunt Ma could pay the 4,500 yuan to take care of her children.
Aunt Ma thought to herself that her children would always be 10,000 times more relieved than the nanny, so she agreed to let her children take turns to take care of herself, but who knew that the days of being taken care of by her three children were the beginning of her nightmare.
01, the greedy eldest son's family.
The first to take care of Aunt Ma was her eldest son.
The eldest son is 45 years old, a few years ago, he left his iron job bowl and started his own business, the benefits are not ideal, and his wife has no job all year round, and a son and a daughter are still in college, so there are some financial difficulties.
The eldest son moved over to live with Aunt Ma, and at the beginning he took care of Aunt Ma was still very dedicated, got up early and got up early, steamed egg custard for Aunt Ma, and pushed off all entertainment at night to make dinner for Aunt Ma, and then poured foot washing water for Aunt Ma to soak her feet, and the eldest son did these things that Aunt Ma was very moved.
On the night of the 7th day when the eldest son moved in, the eldest son came back very late, drank some wine, and when he came back, he was half drunk and half awake to talk to Aunt Ma about the difficulties of starting his own business, and expressed his hope that Aunt Ma could support her with 100,000 yuan to solve the current economic difficulties.
Aunt Ma was a little embarrassed, because 100,000 yuan was not a small amount for her, but thinking of her eldest son's care for herself, Aunt Ma still gave 50,000 yuan to her eldest son.
But the eldest son was obviously a little unhappy, and from then on, he either said that there was entertainment outside, or that he had something at home, and he would not come back to accompany Aunt Ma at night.
In this way, about 10 days later, the eldest son and eldest daughter-in-law came to Aunt Ma's house for dinner, and also made Aunt Ma's favorite fennel seedling stuffed dumplings, which made Aunt Ma very happy.
After dinner, the eldest daughter-in-law said to Aunt Ma: "Mom, your eldest grandson is about to graduate from college, and he has a girlfriend who has been talking for 3 years, and he is about to talk about marriage, but the marriage house has not been bought yet, you are a grandmother, make up the down payment for the child!"
Aunt Ma was taken aback, but it was not easy to refuse, so she asked her eldest daughter-in-law, "How much have you made up?"
The eldest daughter-in-law said with a smile: "It's still 180,000 yuan away!"
Aunt Ma was taken aback again, and said embarrassedly: "I don't have that much, but I am finally a grandmother, I will pay 30,000 yuan, just as I give the child's wedding gift money, you don't need to pay it back!"
The eldest daughter-in-law's face was immediately unhappy, but it didn't attack immediately, because 30,000 yuan is better than nothing.
After that, the eldest son took care of Aunt Ma, and he couldn't even guarantee that the bowl of egg custard in the morning would be made for Aunt Ma, and Aunt Ma was allowed to drink the overnight leftover rice porridge in the morning for three days.
Just when the eldest son took care of Aunt Ma for 30 days, the eldest son's daughter came to Aunt Ma's house and said coquettishly: "Grandma, I want to buy a laptop, my dad doesn't agree, can you buy me one?"
Aunt Ma asked, "How much is one?"
The granddaughter replied, "About 9,000 yuan!"
Aunt Ma sighed and replied: "I'm old, how can I have so much money, I'll only give you 5,000 yuan, and you can figure out the rest yourself!"
The granddaughter immediately replied at this time: "You give me 5,000 yuan, my dad takes care of you, and the monthly salary is 4,500 yuan, which is exactly 9,500 yuan, which is enough!"
In this way, Aunt Ma gave her granddaughter 9,500 yuan.
Aunt Ma regretted it, it was enough to hire a nanny for 4,500 yuan a month, but now she is taken care of by her eldest son for a month, spending 89,500 yuan.
02, the youngest son's family who is lazy and lazy!
As soon as the eldest son's days of taking care of Aunt Ma ended, the younger son moved into Aunt Ma's house.
The youngest son moved his desktop computer to Aunt Ma's house on the first night, played games at night until 2:00 a.m. the next day, and didn't get up until 11:00 a.m. the next day, and the first thing he said when he got up was: "Mom, if there is anything to eat at home, you can make me some!"
The youngest son had eaten, played a game for two hours in the afternoon, slept for another two hours, got up and said to Aunt Ma: "Mom, I want to eat pork ribs at night, you can go to the vegetable market to buy some later!"
On the third day of the youngest son's move-in, the little daughter-in-law and her two children (8-year-old daughter and 2-year-old son) also moved in with Aunt Ma, and before going to bed at night, the youngest son said that he wanted to drink millet porridge the next morning, the little daughter-in-law said that he wanted to drink milk, and the granddaughter said that she wanted to eat egg cakes, so that Aunt Ma must prepare breakfast the next morning.
The next day, Aunt Ma got up at 5:30 in the morning and began to prepare breakfast, the youngest son and daughter-in-law got up at 7:00, and after washing up and eating breakfast in a hurry, the little daughter-in-law told Aunt Ma to take her 2-year-old grandson to send her 8-year-old granddaughter to school, and went to work after speaking.
In the evening, the 8-year-old granddaughter had homework and asked Aunt Ma, and Aunt Ma said apologetically: "I'm dazzled, I can't see clearly, go ask your mother!"
At this time, the daughter-in-law was chasing the drama, put down her mobile phone and asked Aunt Ma: "Mom, you are so biased, why don't you let your granddaughter ask your son?"
Aunt Ma saw that her youngest son was playing a game, and she had no choice but to ask her granddaughter not to do that question for the time being, and to ask the teacher at school tomorrow.
After that, Aunt Ma went to take a bath, just put on shampoo and foamed out, she heard her 2-year-old grandson crying outside the door, she didn't care about continuing to wash her hair, wrapped in a bath towel and came out, and found that her little grandson fell off the sofa and broke the corner of his mouth.
Aunt Ma was furious, and shouted at her daughter-in-law and son's room: "How did you become a father and a mother?"
The little daughter-in-law did not suffer a loss, and fought back: "You know how to discipline me, can you let your son stop playing games, can you?
Aunt Ma didn't argue with her daughter-in-law, picked up her grandson and coaxed her, and from then on, her grandson slept with Aunt Ma every night.
In this way, during the 30 days that the youngest son took care of Aunt Ma, Aunt Ma helped their family of 4 cook three meals a day, pick up a child to and from school and attend interest classes, and also paid money to sign up for an interest class for her granddaughter for 15,000 yuan a year, bought 3 large boxes of diapers for her grandson, 3 months of milk powder, and paid her youngest son a salary of 4,500 yuan a month.
In the end, as soon as Aunt Ma settled the account, her youngest son came to take care of her for a month, and she not only became a free nanny for her youngest son's family of four, but also posted 35,000 yuan.
03, a daughter who has no patience!
After the youngest son moved out, Aunt Ma's daughter moved over and continued to take care of Aunt Ma.
Aunt Ma knew that her daughter was grumpy and came to take care of Aunt Ma for the 4,500 yuan salary.
Therefore, Aunt Ma doesn't have too many requirements for her daughter, as long as her daughter cooks three meals a day for her, washes and washes, she will not treat her daughter badly.
On the first day of her daughter's visit, the steamed rice made for lunch, fried beans, and the meal was served, and Aunt Ma tasted it, the rice was hard, and the beans could not be chewed, so she could only swallow it raw, so Aunt Ma poured some hot water into the rice, and reluctantly drank it as porridge, and did not eat vegetables again.
For dinner, my daughter steamed sticky nest head and fried shredded potatoes, and Aunt Ma only drank a bowl of polenta.
On the third day, Aunt Ma was constipated, and her daughter angrily reprimanded her: "Mom, who is to blame for this? You are a willful picky eater, don't eat vegetables, and now you want to trouble me!"
On the seventh day of her daughter's arrival, she helped Aunt Ma tidy up the refrigerator, and when her daughter saw that the refrigerator was full of leftovers and meat that she didn't know when it was saved, she was furious and threw the bottles and cans and meat in Aunt Ma's refrigerator into the garbage bag.
Aunt Ma was very distressed and asked her daughter to leave the two fish, but the daughter said viciously: "When did this fish come about? Can you remember? If you eat diarrhea, you clean it up yourself? You don't want to trouble me!" After the daughter finished speaking, she snatched the two fish from Aunt Ma and threw them into the trash can downstairs.
On the 10th day of my daughter's visit, I went to the supermarket with Aunt Ma, and in just 3 hours, my daughter reprimanded Aunt Ma to cry 3 times.
The first time was when Aunt Ma picked a few cucumbers in the supermarket clearance area, and her daughter reprimanded: "In order to save a few dollars, don't die?"
The second time was when Aunt Ma pulled a few plastic bags of food in the supermarket, and her daughter said angrily: "Can you always think about taking advantage of a small advantage!"
The third time was when buying toilet paper, Aunt Ma chose to buy no brand, the price is affordable, and her daughter insisted on buying a big brand, after two sentences, her daughter threw down a sentence: "You are old, what do you know, take care of some things!"
What made Aunt Ma feel even more ashamed was that on the 23rd day that her daughter took care of her, her daughter said that the weather was hot at night, and she didn't need to heat up the milk, so she let Aunt Ma drink a bag of room temperature milk.
But her daughter still smelled the stench and stomped her feet in anger, and Aunt Ma was so frightened that she trembled.
Finally, after 30 days, my daughter took 4,500 yuan and went home.
04. Write at the end
As soon as her daughter went out, Aunt Ma immediately contacted the housekeeping company to find a live-in nanny, and called her 3 children, so that she no longer had to take care of her children.
After listening to Aunt Ma's story, it was really emotional.
As the old saying goes, "raising children to prevent old age", but the cruel reality is "raising children to prevent children", and the three children do not have any filial piety at all, which is really sad!
May the protagonists of life read this article and reflect and wake up!
May the above words be encouraged by my readers!
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Today's Discussion Topics:
Do you think Aunt Ma in the article should continue to let her children take care of her children or choose to use a nanny?