Jia Ling, she was scolded miserably!

1

It's kind of weird.

Before she lost weight and became beautiful, Jia Ling was loved by everyone.

After losing weight, I began to scold.

And these scoldings are all about her new appearance.

Someone attacks from the sense of age: old.

Someone emotionally questioned: unhappy.

Someone scolded directly: It was originally the material for playing a fat man, why did you do it like this.

Someone deconstructed the meaning of her change from the level of "money":

As long as you have money to take, losing weight is a fart.

Some people deny her current comedic expressiveness:

It's not funny.

And so on, everywhere.

Arido Rigo?

It can't be said that it's all crazy talk and nonsense.

But it's really a kind of prejudice.

At first glance, it seems reasonable, but it can't withstand scrutiny, and when it comes to scrutiny, it's all faults. When I think about it, it's all bugs.

2

First of all, from her charisma as a comedian.

What is the most important thing about a comedy?

幽默。

But does humor get by relying on short and ugly looks to poke people's senses, sprinkle people's blood, and scratch people's armpits?

Is it won by low self-esteem, self-deprecation, ridicule, and clowning?

Not really.

A truly good comedy comes from the observation of human nature, the artistic reprocessing of reality, and the flash of inspiration based on aesthetics, wisdom, and compassion.

That is, it is intellectual.

It's not a routine.

It's also spiritual.

It's not physical.

Stephen Chow is thin and handsome, creating an era of Hong Kong film comedy.

Huang Zihua is thin and chic, and founded a Hong Kong-style talk show.

Jim Carrey is thin and handsome, and he has become an international comedian with an absurd and deconstructed performance.

Why does a female comedian have to cling to a chubby image, belittle herself, and elevate others to win the audience's favor?

If we let go of the setting of comedians who are strange-looking abnormal human beings, and let go of the stereotype of female comedians who are ugly and fat, you will find that Jia Ling lost 100 pounds and did not interfere with her performance.

Opposite.

Her acting path is getting wider and wider.

For example, the discussion about her on the Internet has moved from the field of comedy to the sexually tense Ji circle.

Positional shift, do you know what it means?

It means that Jia Ling can show her strength.

She can act in realistic themes, suspense themes, love themes, and idol-themed film and television dramas.

The bigger performance market came to her.

A wider drama road is also paved under the feet.

So, why worry about saying goodbye to the comedy stage after she loses weight?

No, it won't.

As long as the talent and skills are there, the road of comedy not only does not disappear, but opens up N roads. The strip is a good village. All roads lead to Rome.

3

From the level of happiness, there is no need to worry.

Jia Ling is not hungry and thin.

It's lean.

Therefore, it is not a process of consumption, but a process of growth.

In the process of losing weight, her strength, self-confidence, and courage have not disappeared.

Instead, in an internalized form, into her life.

We can take a look at Jia Ling's current state. Smart. Assertive. Agile. Forceful.

If that doesn't prove she's happy, I don't know what talent is.

I remember that when Jia Ling was fat in the past, the world was not always kind.

The media will say that her jumping on the stage is tantamount to an eight-magnitude earthquake.

When she was on a variety show, she accidentally fell on stage, and the special effects made by the program team were stage cracks.

At the same time, it is equipped with special effects of volcanic eruptions.

On and off the stage, it was all laughter.

Acting in a sketch, she appeared as an insulted and dwarfed image.

There is a sketch called "The Goddess and the Female Man".

The other is the "goddess".

She is an inferior "female man".

She stands in the pit of discrimination in appearance, accepting the ridicule of the group, becoming a symbol of being trampled under her feet in exchange for laughter.

You could say it's a kind of comedy.

But if from a human point of view, do you want the audience to look at your talent, or do you want to consume your fat all the time? Do you want to be an actor, or a harlequin?

In the past, Jia Ling had no choice, so she had to do so.

But what if there was a choice?

- Now is the time for her to burst into options.

She can continue to follow the old path and become synonymous with fatness, or she can stand up and stop smiling and low self-esteem jokes to win recognition.

She can talk to the world with confidence.

Isn't that cooler than pleasing the world?!

4

In fact, it is very sad to see the logic behind laughing at Jia Ling for being fat and scolding Jia Ling for being thin.

Saddened to embarrassment.

You say, why did the person who scolded her like Jia Ling before?

In addition to talent.

The most important thing is that she is harmless.

In the word harmless, there is a very cruel psychological logic.

When you face a rich person, you don't feel harmless to the other person.

In the face of ugly, weak, poor, smiling people, you will feel this way.

In the face of a glamorous beauty, you will not feel harmless to the other party.

But in the face of a person with 0 sexual charm, he will let down his defense and accept her safely.

So her popularity, in addition to her works, also because of her clumsy and chubby appearance, aroused two mentalities:

One is a sense of security.

The second is a sense of superiority.

She can match any male star, and all fans are not jealous. Because fans feel that Jia Ling is not competitive in the gender market.

She can "eye-to-eye" with any idol, but she is not worried that she will take the idol's heart. Because her sexual attractiveness is extremely low.

Everyone stood on a psychological high ground and looked down at her from above.

Now.

She has lost weight, and she has lost the "fat" that makes people look down, and she can only look up to her achievements.

- China's highest-grossing female director, talented, energetic, extremely resourceful, single, beautiful, instantly felt that any male star could have anything with her.

The sense of superiority disappears.

Feeling the frustration.

Therefore, people with psychological imbalance use yin and yang weird "evaluation" and specious "care" to cover up this gap.

But Jia Ling doesn't need to.

The world of women, who have been trapped in the discrimination of appearance for a long time, does not need it.

There are always only two words that the world of women needs: understanding. Respect.

Understand the fate of others.

Respect the choices of others.

5

Back to the fat vs. skinny body selection.

Personally, I think that being thin or fat is not the standard.

What is a standard?

Liberty.

Everyone has the freedom to choose their own body shape.

If you think it's good to be thin, then lose weight.

If you think it's right to be fat, then you're fat and happy.

It doesn't hurt.

But we can't use the white and thin aesthetic as an excuse to belittle fat girls.

You can't press people into a fat state on the grounds that "losing weight is promoting body anxiety".

Whatever you want to be freer, you can go to what state you want.

Just like Jia Ling.

The public's desire for her to be fat or thin is actually a presupposition.

A kind of shackle.

She keeps throwing her fists, she just doesn't want to obey any setting.

All she wants is freedom.

- It is to love more wantonly, chase dreams more vigorously, make films more ambitiously, perform more diversely, and live this life more freely......

The closer one gets to this state, the more life stretches.

The more life is worth it.

Now, Jia Ling is slowly approaching that ideal realm.

I hope that more Jia Ling can follow up and reach this freedom of life.