It was an ordinary Saturday morning, and Wang Xiaoming swiped the confession wall section of the school's BBS forum as usual to see if there were any new posts. Unexpectedly, a post made by an anonymous user jumped into my eyes, to the effect of "Confession wall mother, where are you, I miss you so much".
Just looking at this tone, it was full of ambiguity and provocativeness, which made Wang Xiaoming very surprised after reading it, this kind of post was obviously inconsistent with the original intention of the confession wall.
The confession wall is supposed to be a place for college students to vent their emotions, confess their love, find lost items, etc., and the content should be positive and healthy. But now that such a vulgar message has appeared, Wang Xiaoming only felt very shocked and embarrassed after reading it.
This kind of frivolous language does not take into account the feelings of others at all, and makes the atmosphere of the confession wall extremely bad. Wang Xiaoming thought bitterly, the confession wall was "dirty" by this anonymous user.
On the same day that Wang Xiaoming saw the message, an unbelievable thing happened in the school library. A girl named Li Xiaohong went to the cafeteria for lunch when she was studying in the library at noon. When I came back, I found that the test paper I left on the table had been completed by an unknown person.
Li Xiaohong was very shocked and angry, it was obvious that someone saw that she had done little on the topic, so he took advantage of her absence to take the lead and finished the topic.
This exposes the serious involution psychology of some college students, and even unscrupulous means just to get high scores. The test papers are closely related to her own learning results, and being touched at will, Li Xiaohong feels that her rights have been seriously violated. This behavior is reprehensible, and it is necessary for schools to take measures to curb this act of unfair competition.
Li Xiaohong also warned herself to protect her achievements and not to trust others too easily.
The frivolous messages on the confession wall and the robbery of the library exam papers quickly spread inside and outside the school. Many parents expressed strong dissatisfaction after learning about it, believing that the school was too lax in managing students, which could have been avoided. So the parents signed in groups, suggesting that the school directly close the section of the confession wall.
However, the majority of school students strongly disagree with this. They believe that the confession wall is a platform for college students to entertain, vent and interact, and plays an important role in creating an atmosphere of campus life. Turning it off is tantamount to depriving students of fun.
Some students even organized to negotiate with the school authorities, hoping to keep the confession wall in mind.
This reflects the difference in the perception of students and parents on this matter. Parents place more emphasis on law and order, while students emphasize individuality and fun. According to the analysis of a professor, this stems from the difference in the growth environment and living habits of the two generations, with students pursuing excitement and freshness, while parents pay more attention to norms.
If these differences are not resolved through good communication, they can easily create a generation gap.
After discussion, the school decided to standardize the management of the confession wall, rather than close it directly. They believe that the confessional wall reflects the rich and colorful thoughts and personalities of university students, and that it is unfair and inconsistent with the purpose of education to suppress it completely.
Therefore, the school has formulated a content review system for the confession wall to deal with content that violates school rules or social morality to ensure the health and progress of the section. They have also strengthened risk warnings to remind students to be mindful of their words and actions to avoid negative impacts.
At the same time, the school has organized a series of themed activities, such as a love story creation competition on the confession wall, a positive life experience sharing meeting, etc., to enrich campus life in a sunny and uplifting way.
These initiatives have received welcome support from the majority of students. They believe that the school strives to find a balance between the management of the white wall and the interests and hobbies of students, which not only gives full play to the creativity of college students, but also maintains the campus civilization, making the white wall a platform for gathering positive energy and cultivating physical and mental health.
This positive atmosphere is also much more reassuring for parents. The understanding and cooperation of the school, students and parents made this matter well resolved.
After this series of events, school experts conducted research and analysis. They found that the root of the difference in views between students and parents on these issues was the difference in their life experiences.
Today's college students have grown up in the information age, and they are exposed to a more open and rich online world, and their ideas are more personalized and diverse. The parents' generation, on the other hand, is more traditional and conservative and has received a more systematic ideological education, so it is difficult to be open and tolerant when it comes to new things.
Other experts point out that the rebellious behavior of some college students is also related to family education methods. Some parents are too authoritarian to understand their children, or are too open when teaching their children from an early age, which can affect their ability to develop healthy self-discipline.
Experts say that certain behaviors of students cannot be judged simply, but should be understood in the context of their lives. It may seem unreasonable on the surface, but it may have been accepted in their circles. The key is for parents to open their hearts, maintain good communication with their children, and understand their ideas, rather than force; Students also need to learn self-discipline and consideration for others.
Only when parents and students strive to step out of their own perspectives and think from each other's standpoints, can the generation gap be slowly bridged, and the environment in which students grow up will be more harmonious. This requires mutual understanding and tolerance on both sides.
The confession wall incident sounded the alarm bell for everyone. The school recognizes the need to strengthen the guidance and education of students, help them establish a sense of self-discipline, and actively filter out bad information to avoid negative influences.
Parents should also reflect on the previous way of education, not to be too restrictive to their children, but to give appropriate openness and tolerance. It is necessary to think from the perspective of students and understand their psychological needs for stimulation and personality expression.
At the same time, parents and schools need to strengthen communication and exchange their children's performance in school in a timely manner to avoid further widening the generation gap. Parents can also participate in campus activities and experience the learning life of university students first-hand.
Only when parents express trust and support for their children will students become more confident and self-disciplined. An open-minded and inclusive family environment and campus atmosphere will enable young students to grow up healthy and happy.
Some of the excesses on the confession wall are not entirely negative, but also reflect the creativity and personality of the students. We need to encourage this positive factor and guide them to a positive development.
It is believed that through the efforts of both sides, this generation gap will not hinder exchanges, but will promote the growth of students and make university life more colorful and sunny.
This started with the incident of the confession wall, which reflects the obvious generation gap between college students and their parents and even school management.
Students tend to express themselves freely and develop their individuality, while parents and schools are more concerned about rules. If these differences cannot be resolved through communication, they will only be further distant.
However, these generation gaps are not insurmountable, as long as both parties are aware of the existence of problems, and strive to understand from the other side's point of view, maintain good communication, and encourage students to grow self-disciplined, these problems are not problems.
Understanding and growth are two-way ways, and through this incident, everyone will be more united and work together to make university life more colorful and healthy.
This confession wall incident inspires us to look at college students with a more open and inclusive attitude in the new historical direction.
The confession wall only reflects the situation of some students, and does not represent the whole students, let alone simply label. We need to see their positive attitude towards self-expression and love of life behind the scenes.
For some excesses, we need to guide them to adhere to the mainstream values, but we must not use a ban and negative attitude, which will only backfire. Policies should appropriately provide them with legitimate channels for self-expression.
Parents and schools should stand on the same side, understand, trust and support college students, and build a bridge of spiritual communication with them, rather than a barrier. Only by allowing college students to grow up happily under the sun can there be more hope for the future.
Let us work together to continue to promote educational reform, so that the spirit of the university can be passed on from generation to generation and move towards a bright future in the magnificent waves of historical turns.