Night call annoys the teacher
Director Li of a university in Xuzhou, Jiangsu Province, was asleep when he was suddenly woken up by a late-night phone call from a parent. On the other end of the phone was a parent of a student in the class, saying that he wanted to remind Teacher Li to tell the students to remember to wash their faces before going to bed. It turned out that it was because the girl's makeup and sleeping were not good for the skin.
Teacher Li immediately became angry, feeling that the college student was already an adult, and such a trivial matter should not bother the teacher. What's more, as a class teacher, she undertook many courses and student counseling tasks, and she was woken up in the middle of the night, and she was naturally extremely angry.
Teacher Li hurriedly hung up the phone after a few short sentences, but she was upset and insomnia until dawn, and the fire in her heart could not be quelled.
The teacher reprimanded the student for no reason
Because he had not slept all night, Mr. Li came to the student dormitory in a rage the next morning. She pushed open the door of the dormitory and saw that the students who had just woken up were still sleepy on their faces, and her appearance immediately changed, her hands clenched into fists, and her brows were tightly locked.
Teacher Li's eyes were extremely sharp, and she loudly reprimanded the students who woke up for not washing up in the morning and irregular work and rest, completely ignoring the students' blank and embarrassed faces. Teacher Li's voice became louder and louder, and his tone became heavier and heavier, accusing the students of being absent-minded in class and sloppy in their homework on weekdays.
The students looked at each other, wondering how Mr. Li, who was usually kind, could suddenly scold themselves so excitedly. Teacher Li kept talking loudly for more than ten minutes, and the students could only endure the humiliation and listen to the training, their faces full of grievances and incomprehension. All of this was videotaped by the students and quickly went viral.
The field of public opinion is polarized
After the video of Mr. Li reprimanding the students was spread on the Internet, it quickly spread among the student group and sparked heated discussions. Netizens actively discussed this and had different opinions. Some netizens think that Teacher Li is too irritable, and her demeanor in the video is very excited, regardless of the feelings of the students, such a public and unreasonable scolding of the students will seriously affect the relationship between teachers and students, and may also hurt the psychology of students.
Teachers should control their emotions and not hurt innocent students. Other netizens understood Mr. Li and thought that this could teach the excessive parent a lesson and make him understand that he should not disturb the teacher's rest for some trivial things.
But in any case, teachers should not vent their frustration by hurting students.
From the student's point of view, Mr. Li's sudden angry rebuke really makes people feel inexplicable and aggrieved. The students couldn't understand why the usually gentle teacher Li suddenly became so excited about herself. The students could only endure humiliation in front of the teacher, but their hearts were full of confusion and incomprehension.
Teacher Li should be aware that she has no connection with her parents in the minds of her students, which will only make students have a negative impression of the teacher.
The whole story is revealed to the world
After the video of Mr. Li denouncing the students for no reason was widely spread on the Internet, an insider finally revealed the reason for the incident. According to insiders, Teacher Li is the homeroom teacher of this group of students, and she usually needs to deal with various requests from parents, and she feels extremely busy.
Since many parents treat adult college students as children, they always need teachers to help take care of various details of life. For example, urging students to eat on time, urging students to go to bed early and get up early, reminding students to dress and keep warm, etc., Ms. Li needs to spend a lot of time responding to the requests of these parents, and she has already felt overwhelmed.
Late that night, the parent called just to remind the student to wash his face and go to bed, which was undoubtedly worse for the teacher. College students are already adults, and it is impossible and unnecessary for teachers to care about the details of each student's daily life.
This kind of excessive demand is tantamount to the last straw that breaks the camel's back, and finally makes Mr. Li lose control of his emotions. According to other university teachers, they also often have to deal with such unreasonable requests, and need to take the time to respond to all kinds of trivial questions from parents.
They all feel that college students are adults and should learn to take care of their own lives, and they don't need parents or teachers to worry about these trivial things. Mr. Li's final gaffe can also be understood as the result of long-term pressure accumulation.
Compulsory education is different from higher education
Through this incident, we can deeply understand that there is an important difference between primary and secondary education and higher education in the compulsory education stage. In primary and secondary education, students are minors, and teachers shoulder the responsibility of caring for the growth of students.
Primary and secondary school teachers need to pay attention to and help students in all aspects of learning, life, physical and mental health, and become life coaches for students when necessary. Therefore, primary and secondary school teachers need to be ready to respond to parents' questions at all times, which is also part of the teacher's job.
And for college students, they are adults and have the ability to handle daily life independently. University education is not compulsory, and parents pay high tuition fees just to give their children the opportunity to receive education. Universities do not have the responsibility of taking care of students' daily lives like primary and secondary schools.
Therefore, the main work of university teachers is focused on teaching and scientific research, and they do not need or have the right to intervene in the personal life of university students. However, many parents are not aware of this characteristic of university education, and still regard college students as children, and make all kinds of unreasonable demands on teachers, which increases the teachers' work troubles.
This incident has made us realize that there are different roles for teachers at different stages of education. College students should learn to take care of themselves, and parents should also change their mindset and understand the job responsibilities of university teachers. It is hoped that all parties can learn from this incident and make correct value judgments.
Summary of events and revelations
To sum up, we feel very sorry for this incident of a university teacher reprimanding a student in a student dormitory for no reason. It is unprofessional and irresponsible for a teacher to be angry with a student, which not only hurts the student, but also damages the teacher's credibility.
At the same time, it also reflects some problems in the relationship between teachers and students and the relationship between home and school in current university education.
First of all, teachers need to learn to regulate their emotions at work and prevent negative emotions from affecting their work. Teachers are role models of intellectuals and should restrain their words and deeds. Secondly, parents need to be aware that college students are already adults, and they should be given enough autonomy and should not be completely equated with adult children as children.
The main work of university teachers is teaching and scientific research, and they should not interfere too much in the daily life of college students. Finally, the school also needs to explain the job responsibilities and norms for teachers, so as to avoid teachers taking on too much tutoring affairs and ensure that teachers can concentrate on teaching and scientific research.
We hope that through this event, university teachers, parents and students can gain some inspiration and adjust their behavior and concepts. Only rational communication and correct treatment of the relationship between university teachers and students can ensure the harmony and stability of the campus and promote the healthy development of university education.
You see how it is
In response to this incident, we, as a third party, can also put forward some opinions. First of all, Mr. Li's way of criticizing students excessively is indeed inappropriate. Teachers must learn to control their emotions and not vent their inner dissatisfaction on innocent students.
At the same time, we also need to understand the pressure that teachers are under at work. As a university homeroom teacher, Ms. Li has to deal with all kinds of trivial parental requests, and the long-term work pressure may cause her to lose control of her emotions. Therefore, schools should reduce the workload of teachers, so that teachers can concentrate on teaching and research.
On the other hand, parents also need to change their mindset and realize that college students are adults and should learn to live independently and solve problems, and give them enough space for autonomy. Parents should not interfere too much in the daily life of college students, nor should they constantly disturb teachers for trivial matters that do not matter.
University is not compulsory education, and there should be a degree of concern and attention from parents.
Finally, as the student concerned, you should also take the initiative to communicate with your parents so that they realize that they have grown up and can live independently. At the same time, it is also necessary to understand the pressure of the teacher, and the parents should reduce the unnecessary trouble for the teacher.
Students also need to reflect on whether they have misbehaved in the past that led to misunderstandings by teachers.
We hope that through this event, university teachers, parents and students can reflect on it, and the school can also improve its teacher policy and promote harmony on campus. Communication and understanding between all parties is the key to solving problems.