The poor must have the helplessness of the poor, there are objective reasons, for example, they have not received a good education, they cannot reach the upper circles, they lack the means to make money, and so on, but the objective reasons are basically excuses, which must be solvable, and the most terrible thing is the subjective reasons, for example, the lack of "heart and eye" in life. Generally speaking, those who are really poor often lack the following seven kinds of "eyes of the heart" in life, and it is no wonder that they become poorer and poorer and achieve nothing; it is not terrible for the poor to lack money, but what is terrible is the lack of these seven "eyes of the heart"! The lack of one is also a bad thing.
1. Don't know how to protect yourself
The real poor often lack the "heart" to protect themselves and do not know how to safeguard their own interests. If the poor want to become rich, they must defend their interests with a firm attitude, and they must have a few more "hearts" in their daily life and work. The poor must be kind, but they must not be weak and deceitful, do not provide opportunities for others to attack and hurt themselves, and must have a strong heart, soft but not "weak", good but not "excessive", especially when their interests are violated, they must not hesitate to stand up and defend.
Second, it is easy to be taken advantage of
The poor are easy to be taken advantage of, generally because they are greedy and have intentions, so that they are blinded by the "eyes of the heart". In addition, the real rich people have extremely rich life experience, which can be described as insightful in the world, skilled in human feelings, and have a pair of "fiery eyes", so their wealth can last forever. Although it is difficult for the poor to achieve the level of the rich, they must at least have the "heart" of not being greedy and not taking advantage of small advantages, so that they will not be easily taken advantage of.
3. Die for the love of face and suffer for sin
Although the poor are shy in their pockets, they are no less than others in terms of good face. Because they are afraid of being looked down upon by others, the poor try their best to protect their face even at any cost, and it is in this process of maintaining unnecessary face that they lose more valuable things, which is naturally a manifestation of a lack of "heart and eye".
Fourth, mistaking sophistication for maturity
Many poor people actually know the truth of being a human being in advance, and they are eager to mature themselves in life, but they often can't distinguish the boundary between maturity and sophistication, and they are easy to fall into the mud pit of sophistication. The poor do not understand what the real "eyes of the heart" are, so they mistakenly regard "sophistication" as the "eyes of the heart" and regard it as a sign of maturity. This is actually a wrong view, sophistication can only be regarded as a rotten "heart eye" at best, or even a bad heart eye, and maturity is the manifestation of a real person with a "heart eye". Therefore, the poor must learn to mature and not be sophisticated.
Fifth, I like to be careful about everything
Such poor people not only do not get the hearts of the people, but also lose friends, lose the interest of life, and even their own careers will be unlucky, it is difficult to make a lot of money, and it is difficult to become rich. The pattern determines the upper limit of wealth, so the poor should have a tolerant heart, abandon the excess baggage, and do not worry about everything, so as to travel lightly.
Sixth, the shrewdness is too much
Being shrewd is undoubtedly a manifestation of having a "heart eye", but being too shrewd is lacking a "heart eye". Therefore, the poor should be as shrewd as possible in safeguarding and fighting for their interests, but they should not be too shrewd. The so-called "too clever organs" will only lead to the end of being clever and being mistaken by being smart. In addition, the shrewdness of the poor should be concentrated on things that can really benefit themselves, such as making money, rather than on things that harm others and themselves.
Seventh, being a man is not round enough
People often say that you should do things squarely and be round. This "circle" does not refer to the sleek and sophisticated, let alone mediocre and incompetent, this kind of circle is round, generous, and compatible, is wise and foolish, and is kind to others, is a high degree of sound and mature mind after discerning everything, and is a very high realm of being a person to have a "heart eye". Specifically, we must not leave room for insight into the weaknesses of others, do not be domineering because we are better than others, do not feel oppressed and afraid at any time because of our insistence on our own personality and ideas, do not follow the trend in any situation, and subtly win the approval of others instead of imposing them on others.