Lao Ding and Jiang Defu were old comrades-in-arms, old classmates, and later became his brother-in-law, and their revolutionary friendship was not ordinary.
He is the one who witnessed the whole process of Jiang Defu chasing An Jie, because he made ideas for his friends, and they were all bad ideas. After getting married, Jiang Defu told his wife that he won the title of "Dog-headed Military Division" in Anjie.
In life, we will also give advice for our friends' relationship problems, let's see how many pitfalls you have stepped on.
01
Jiang Defu wanted to go on a blind date with An Jie, and Lao Ding put two pens in his pocket to pretend to be an intellectual.
It was a good intention, but he didn't expect that the old man Jiang Defu would not use a pen at all.
When sending An Jie away, the two left each other's phone calls, he took the pen and shook and had, and the last words he wrote were ugly and typos, making a big joke.
Because of this, Jiang Defu practiced calligraphy frantically, and practiced a good hand.
This also made Jiang Defu realize that he should not use his shortcomings to fill his face, but give full play to his strengths and shining points.
He asked Secretary Yang to arrange a speech by the heroes of the Anti-Japanese War, and in this field he was good at, Jiang Defu was like a fish in water, and the charm he showed directly captured An Jie's heart.
Whether it is love or life, we must develop our strengths and avoid weaknesses, and what suits us is the most useful.
While listening to the advice of others, we maintain the ability to think independently and make adjustments according to our own actual situation.
02
Jiang Defu relied on his cleverness and wit to break into An Jie's house step by step, and the two also confirmed their relationship.
He wanted to confess his marriage history, but Lao Ding suggested that he should cook raw rice and cook mature rice, otherwise the marriage would be yellow.
Jiang Defu thought about it and finally decided to confess. was denounced by An Jie as a big liar, and the two broke up. Later, after some twists and turns, the two came together again.
Jiang Defu knows very well that Lao Ding's suggestion is indeed the simplest, but it will leave endless trouble.
There is no room for such deception and concealment in the relationship, and if there is no sense of trust between two people, life will not be happy.
03
Jiang Defu and An Jie's marriage application was returned, and if he insisted on getting married, he had only one choice, take off his military uniform and go back to his hometown to farm.
Because of Anjie's capitalist status, Lao Ding advised him to give up, and he could only choose one of his party membership and wife, but Jiang Defu was still determined to marry Anjie.
Jiang Defu went to the political commissar of the base for An Jie, gambled, and he won.
With the help of Principal Cong and the political commissar of the base, the marriage application was approved, and he retained his military status and married An Jie.
Many years later, Lao Ding wanted to marry Ge Meixia and encountered the same problem. Because of Ge Meixia's high composition, the marriage application was not approved, he did not fight for it, and chose reality.
There is nothing wrong with one of the two people choosing love and the other compromising with reality, they both got what they wanted most.
Everyone's personality is different, which determines that our life choices will be different.
When we come to the crossroads of life and don't know the direction, we might as well stop, think about it, listen to the advice given by others, think with our hearts, and make the most powerful choice.
What's right for you is the best.