When you come home for the Spring Festival, you find that there are more unmarried women than married? Isn't that normal? Don't say you've only found out now! First of all, the tradition of marrying this dregs has been extinguished, it is all treasures, no one wants to be a door-to-door daughter-in-law, and after marriage, you should start a household. When men are still married here, there are more and more women around them who will never marry for life. If you don't touch a man, if you don't touch a man, you will live a very stable and happy lifeI know one thing, there is no one left in the excellent one, how can there be left in the suitor of the excellent woman, Wuyang Wuyang?
A three-married woman in Henan, the bride price is as high as 400,000 yuan, and the man is unmarried and young. This information has been widely circulated in the self-media, and there has been no authoritative media coverage. However, I believe that there is such a thing. As for the bride price, it has remained high in many places, especially in rural areas.
As for the fact that a third-married woman asks for such a high bride price, in a place where there are a surplus of older or school-age men and fewer unmarried or unremarried women, I believe in the logic and authenticity of such a thing. The change of customs that has been advocated for decades must continue to be advocated. At the same time, it is necessary to establish a healthy concept of love, let marriage return to rationality, and let love return to the main body of marriage. Of course, it is necessary to crack down the use of customs or the loopholes in the Marriage Law and the Civil Code to defraud money.
When you go home for the Spring Festival, you find that there are more unmarried women of school age than married?
Late marriage has long been a trend, and now many of them are financially and personally independent women, and they are also busy with work, so they are not in a hurry! When they go home during the Spring Festival, there are more unmarried women of appropriate age than those who are married. With the development of society, more and more women choose to marry later or even not to marry, and this has become a social phenomenon that cannot be ignored. On the one hand, the increase in the number of unmarried women is due to the fact that modern women pay more attention to self-realization and career development, and are more willing to spend more time and energy on personal growth and career development.
On the other hand, the traditional concept of marriage is also gradually changing, and many women no longer think that marriage is a necessary task in life. Of course, this is also related to some problems and challenges in the current society, such as high housing prices, work pressure, etc. All of these factors may lead some women to choose to marry later or not at all. Marriage is not the path that everyone has to take, everyone has their own choices. We shouldn't define them by the label of leftover women. Let's respect everyone's choices and work together to create a more inclusive and equal society.
When I went home during the Spring Festival, I found that there were more unmarried women of school age than those who were married, and they were all in the blind date market. Before returning home for the Spring Festival, my friend shared with me an interesting story about his family. My friend is from a rural area in Anhui Province, and I have a 28-year-old sister at home. My sister is currently working as a programmer in the city and is unmarried. Although my sister herself is not in a hurry, her marriage is now the most concerned thing for her mother. For this reason, my friend's mother began to patronize blind date websites and marriage agencies, trying to solve her daughter's marriage by "helping her daughter go on a blind date". While running, my friend's mother exclaimed: "In the past, I only heard that men couldn't find a partner in my hometown, why are women left at this time?"
What does this have to do with gender, men are also a bunch of unmarried people of appropriate age, I don't understand why the word "female" must be brought, and it is not women who are in a hurry to get married in this era [not simple]. I've heard that there are surprisingly many single men in our village, and most of the girls are married... The reality is that older unmarried men in rural areas can't marry their daughters-in-law, and older young women in cities don't want to marry. However, just because there are more unmarried women than married doesn't mean they're all your thing. Maybe they are all waiting for Prince Charming, cultivate themselves well, and strive to become the prince who can make their hearts move!
There are 30 million more men than women in all ages, and this includes children and the elderly. The number of unmarried young people of school-age is as high as 150 million. You tell me about abortion? I tell you, the bride price is still too low. Twenty years later, whoever marries less than 800,000 yuan, I will scold her for "discriminating against women" and "the blessing of abortion". I don't want to get married. I'll be unemployed for as long as I've been married. Everyone said that they couldn't be in a different place after marriage, so I quit my job and moved to the city where my husband worked, and I was married and had no children looking for a job. Later, when I have children, my in-laws have their own jobs and have not yet reached retirement age, so I can only bring my children by myself. And the locals I know over there always say: Why don't you out-of-town women stop going to work as soon as you get married and have a baby, it's so lazy!
I've heard that there are surprisingly many single men in our village, and most of the girls are married... The reality is that older unmarried men in rural areas can't marry their daughters-in-law, and older young women in urban areas don't want to marry, how can they break it? I don't know how to say this, it's true, I can only say that if you see too much marriage, you don't want to live in the future. The Chinese population has a clear trend of postponing the first marriage, and the latest research: the role of higher education on women's lifelong non-marriage has gradually emerged, and the lifelong non-marriage rate of low-educated men in rural areas may continue to rise. When you were a child, you avoided x education, you can't fall in love during adolescence, you are a little freer in college, but you are urged to take the exam every day, and as soon as you graduate from college and have a job, I hope you have a partner to get married as soon as possible......
In the past two days, I happened to go home and chat with a few neighbor aunts who were young. My aunt told me that there are about 40 unmarried young men between the ages of 27 and 32 in the village, and there are more than a dozen unmarried young women. But basically all unmarried young men don't feel panicked, they are all "holding a mobile phone all day long, mahjong, poker, fighting landlords, video games, and small videos all the time." Their parents and relatives are just a little panicked, but the single man himself is happy, spending 3,000 a month to earn 3,000, and 5,000 to earn 5,000, one person is fed, and the whole family is not hungry. This amount of money is enough for them to be very happy alone. And to find a wife, this amount of money is a drop in the bucket.
If you think about it, the proportion of single women "now" has increased dramatically, while in urban areas there are a large number of women who are not married or do not want to get married. Now that many girls are financially independent, and they can take care of themselves without worrying about food and clothing, it is indeed a very correct choice not to get married. is still the same sentence, the complete implementation of the eight-hour working system with two days off, equal pay for equal work, equal maternity leave and inheritance rights, really gives people time to fall in love and organize a family.
The people around me are not very happy in their marriages, so I'd better wade into this troubled water later. Let's talk about rural men first, let's talk about urban women, whether to get married or not is a personal choice, and several hot searches every day are these annoying? If you are single, you will be guarded! Pressure, temptation, and urging marriage...... When we are single, we always encounter these troubles, in fact, when we face various difficulties, there is a civil code to protect us!
Because we are financially independent, ideologically independent, we can exercise without marriage or love, we can travel, we can study, we can improve ourselves, and after we get married, we have to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, maybe we have to deal with the junior, we have to have children, and we have to educate children. In 50 years, personalized nursing homes will be a scarce resource. Many unmarried men and women are no longer suitable for living alone at that age, and living in a personalized nursing home is an option!
It's really funny, married people are all celebrating the New Year with their own families! Who still goes home for the New Year? Take the results as a phenomenon! What do you want to guide everyone to say? How many are unmarried? What's wrong? Why don't I have this kind of home situation around me, it's all married and surrounding me. It's a really bad feeling. Eight days of happy marriage! Jiashen, Yixi, Ding Hai, Jimao, Gengwu, Xin Ji, Guichou, and Guiwei have had a happy marriage, deep love between husband and wife, and a husband and wife are noble. But Bingzi, Wuyin, and Renxu, the three days are the wrong days, emotional discord, and aura conflicts
After interviewing my Uncle Dink during the Chinese New Year, I wonder if this new marriage model will have fewer Dinks, so that more people can get married and find their own happiness! What do you think? (1) The man does not pay the bride price, and the woman does not pay the dowry; (2) Only obtain a certificate and do not hold a marriage ceremony; (3) Half of the money for buying a house and a car, both men and women; (4) Giving birth to two children, one with the father's surname and the other with the mother's surname; (5) AA system for various living expenses; (6) each supporting his or her parents; (7) Do not live with either parent; (8) Go home during the New Year's holidays and see your parents. If you want to get married, why do you care about others? Can't you enjoy being single and like being single? Don't worry about eating and drinking, having a good career, and living a very nourishing life alone, you have to get married? If you don't violate public order and good customs, you don't get in the way of others, what's wrong with not wanting to get married? What's wrong with being unmarried at the right age than being married?