I'm Hongyu Tianmu!
I received a private message from a netizen today, saying that I really don't want to be a man in my next life, because it's too difficult to be a man...... If she had to choose, she would never marry her current husband......
She is married far away, when she just fell in love, she was confused by the man's sweet words, and the parents at home disagreed, because there was only this one daughter, and she wanted her to be closer to her parents, and she could also take care of each other, but she didn't want to, so she fell in love with this man, and her parents were very stiff at the time, and her parents cried and begged her, and told her all kinds of distant marriages, she couldn't listen, and she wanted to marry the man, how could the parents fight for their children, and finally the parents compromised, and the parents' eyes were red from crying on the day of marriage......
Married life is not something that can be lived with sweet words, but also firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea...... If you need to live, you need the husband and wife to work together to live a good life, but the man is not working, working here for a few days, working there for a few days, there is no longevity, and his temper is still big! Today she asked the man to help her mother-in-law cook, and when she walked over, she symbolically patted his man with his hand, and his man shouted at her if he didn't want to go: "Don't you see me sleeping? Don't you have long eyes?" She said a few words, and the man threw the basin and bowl at her......
The child was crying on the side, and her man had no intention of stopping, but also scared the child, noisy the child, and made the child shut up! She sat on the edge of the bed and hugged the child and cried, if it weren't for the child, she would have separated from him a long time ago, and another reason was that she didn't dare to tell her parents, because it was her own choice, and she didn't want her parents to look down on her......
When I saw her message, I could only tell her: "No matter how wrong you are, no matter how serious your mistakes are, it doesn't matter, your parents love you, and the door of your parents will always be open for you......" "Life is only once, don't live for others, not to mention that your departure is not necessarily a bad thing, it may be a turning ......" "Of course, I respect your choice, any decision you make...... Because that's your own life......"
What I also want to say is: how many people are struggling in the family for their children, and how many people will not choose their current husband in the next life...... Why can't we live for ourselves? How many of us can't help ourselves? How many of us live for ourselves? How many of us have the courage to live for ourselves?