Text/Bright Moon in a Cup of Water;Material/Yang Zhitao
Hi friends, hello everyone!
My name is Yang Zhitao, 33 years old, I look like a sinking fish and a goose, and I am shy of flowers in the closed moon......
My husband looked at me with a smile, "Wife, are you sure these adjectives are talking about you?"
I touched my nose embarrassedly, "Well, isn't that me? Well, I'm selling melons again—boasting about myself." ”
Let me introduce myself again - my name is Yang Zhitao, I look pretty good, I have a temper, I have a personality, and I am the only eldest lady in my family.
Her husband's name is Zhao Jianming, 35 years old, magnificent, handsome, brave and resourceful, courageous and knowledgeable, young, and has become the middle level of a state-owned enterprise!
Just look at his style, you can't see at all, his family is in a poor mountain village, and he is a phoenix man!
He is equivalent to my son-in-law, he lives in my house, drives my car, and his job is also my father's help to find it.
We had two sons, the eldest was 5 years old and the second was 3 years old.
Originally, my husband said, let the second child take my surname! However, my father-in-law did not agree! What happened to my family?
Before the Spring Festival, there was just a light snowfall.
The sky was gray, the earth was white, and the lanterns were red. Occasionally, festive firecrackers are heard!
On the twenty-sixth day of the lunar month, our family of four, going to celebrate my father's birthday!
The husband was holding a box of liquor and a big roast goose, and he wanted to drink a cup with his father-in-law.
I carry fruit in my left hand and cake in my right hand.
When the two sons go downstairs, they are like birds out of the cage, you chase after me, and they make trouble.
The boss said, "Mom, let me carry the cake, I want to give it to my grandfather in person!"
Not to be outdone, "Mom, I also want to carry the cake, I want to wish grandpa a happy birthday!"
I looked at the 12-inch, two-tiered cake and smiled and put it down the steps on the side of the road.
The old ambassador had the strength to breastfeed, his little face was red, and finally, he picked up the cake, and the second child was eager to try.
However, after just a few steps, he put it on the ground, "Mom, I can't carry it!"
I'm nunu and let the dick try it.
He "hey, hey" for a long time, wrinkled his little bun face, "Mom, I can't carry it either." ”
I smiled and said, "You are still young, eat well, sleep well, and when you grow taller, you can help your mother carry things!"
My husband squinted at me, "You! You're teasing your two sons again." ”
I said solemnly, "Where is it? When my two sons are older, one on the left and one on the right, help me carry things." How spirited, how spirited!"
The husband smiled dumbly, "Look at your stinky beauty!"
My family and my mother's family are in a community, in front of the building and behind the building, only a bowl of soup away.
We talked and laughed, and within a few steps of it, we went up to the 7th floor, and knocked on my parents' door.
My mom and dad happily opened the door, "Big Tiger, Little Tiger, my precious grandson is here." ”
This time, the two sons coincidentally threw themselves into my dad's arms, "Grandpa, happy birthday!"
My mom was next to me, watching happily.
My dad was so happy that his eyelashes were open and he kept saying, "Thank you my precious grandson!"
My mother prepared all the dishes, washed them, cut them, and waited for them to be fried.
The husband rolled up his sleeves, "Mom, go and rest, I'll do it." ”
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My mom had a smile on her face, "No, no, no Jianming, you go talk to your dad, I'll stir-fry." ”
I pulled my mom out of the kitchen, "Mom, let him stir-fry, he's the best chef in the house! ”
My mother nodded my forehead, "I've never seen a lazy girl like you, let Jianming do all the housework." ”
I grinned, "Oh, Mom, you can rest steadily, give him a chance to fulfill his filial piety!"
My mother shook her head helplessly, "If you marry Jianming, you will fall into a blessed nest!"
I said proudly, "Wow, where did I marry him?"
My mother glanced at her son-in-law weakly, and my father glared at me fiercely, "Little Peach, don't talk nonsense!"
I craned my neck and stuck my tongue out.
Okay! I'm getting carried away, men are more face-saving. Even if that's the case, I can't say that.
My husband's hometown is in a poor mountain village, and it is hard to imagine that in the 21st century, there will be such a poor and destitute place.
There, people are backward in concept and rely on the soil for food, and there is only a winding mountain road in the village, which stretches out of the mountain.
In recent years, there has been great progress, most of the young people have gone out to work, and only the old, weak, sick and disabled are left in the village, planting a few acres of thin fields.
The husband has an older brother and an older sister, and he is the only one who successfully flew out of the isolated mountain village and was admitted to the university.
My husband and I are in a pure campus relationship, he is my senior, sunny and handsome, dressed up, unchanged for ten thousand years!
With his flat head neatly tied, his white shirt clean, and his torn jeans washed white, I fell in love with him at first sight.
Later, I found out that he was poor because his family was poor! There were only two sets of identical clothes in total every season!
I launched an onslaught on him, and I stalked him and quickly took him down.
However, my parents were skeptical about our relationship, worried that our two families would not be in the right place, and the two of us would not be able to go together.
Why are they against it?
Although my family is not very wealthy, my father has successfully started his own business, has a company, has three factories, and my parents have some real estate in the provincial capital.
I am also a young lady, I was born with a silver spoon, I have not suffered a little, I have not suffered a little.
However, since that incident, my parents have broken their livers and sausages and acquiesced in our relationship.
In order to comfort my parents, after graduating from college, we returned to my city, got married, had children, and accompanied the elderly.
My family didn't ask for a penny bride price, the 147-square-meter wedding room was prepared by my family, and the wedding banquet was also paid by my parents, and my parents gave us a car worth 300,000 yuan.
Therefore, their family didn't spend a penny, and they picked up a big fat daughter-in-law for nothing, and their parents-in-law naturally had no opinion.
In the final analysis, why did my father-in-law and mother-in-law readily agree?
Because, my parents said in advance that as long as we give them a pension, they will be satisfied, and they will not require our children to take my father's surname.
A hundred years after my parents, my family's huge family property is naturally inherited by me, that is, inherited by our children, and his son has taken a big advantage!
Such a big bargain is not taken advantage of......
My thoughts, drifting far away, were interrupted by my husband.
The husband was serving the food, "Come on, let's eat!"
I took a look, there was a big table full of dishes, meat and vegetarian matching, color, flavor and flavor!
We sat around as a family, and my husband respectfully poured a glass of white wine for my dad and a glass of red wine for my mom.
The husband asked, "Would you like some red wine?"
I pulled out a goblet and said, "On the big day, I have to drink some!"
The big tiger and the little tiger shouted noisily, "We want to drink too!"
I took out the almond juice and poured it for them, "You can't drink yet, you can drink drinks." ”
So, our family of six raised their glasses together!
I said, "Dad, today is your 60th birthday! I wish you happiness like the long flowing water of the East China Sea, and a longevity longer than the old pine of Nanshan." ”
The husband said, "Dad, may you be as lush as the pines and cypresses, evergreen, and like the longevity of Nanshan, endless." I wish you a long and healthy life, happiness and well-being!"
The two little ones were chattering, jumping and jumping, "Happy birthday, Grandpa!"
My dad's eyes were red and he was grinning, and my mom quietly wiped away tears.
The two children looked at the birthday cake greedily, "Grandpa, I want to eat the cake!"
My dad waved his hand and said, "Okay, big tiger and little tiger, you can cut the cake." ”
The two children cheered, "Oh yes, eat the cake!"
We put candles on the cake and told my dad to close his eyes, make a wish, and blow it out in one go!
The big tiger divided the cake and gave each of them a small plate, and the two sons ate the cream on their faces and made a mess.
My mother wiped her tears and said, "If Xiaojun was still alive, how good it would be......"
The air was somewhat stagnant and heavy.
My dad took my mom's hand and comforted her, "Xiaojun is in heaven, I definitely hope we can be happy." ”
My heart hurts like a pinprick, Xiaojun is my younger brother, 4 years younger than me, and his life is forever frozen at the age of 16.
also blames the parents for spoiling their younger brother too much, what their son wants, what they buy. Xiaojun asked for a high-end motorcycle, and raced wildly with a few friends every day.
That day, they were speeding on the national highway, and when they turned a corner, they suddenly encountered a big truck, and Xiaojun flew out and never returned......
At the time, I was in my sophomore year of college, and my heart ached!
My dad turned white overnight, and my mom cried and fainted several times.
Since then, my parents have completely seen it and have not hindered me from falling in love with my husband, and after we got married, they did not ask my son to have my last name.
Since the birth of the second child, my husband took the initiative to say to me, "Wife, let's let the second child take his mother's surname and let him be surnamed Yang!"
I am very grateful to my husband, and we took the initiative to mention it to my parents, and their eyes were moist.
However, my parents didn't think it was necessary, and they said, "You are all good children, and we have received your heart." Grandsons and grandsons, they are all grandsons, you don't have to do that thing of covering your ears and stealing the bell!"
As a result, when I returned to my husband's house that year and had a Chinese New Year's Eve dinner, my husband casually mentioned this matter.
The father-in-law's eyes widened, he put down his chopsticks and said, "No! The two grandsons must both be surnamed Zhao! Otherwise, the distribution of property in the future will be prone to contradictions." ”
Although the mother-in-law didn't speak, it seemed that she was very unhappy.
I'm going to hehe.
What kind of property does my husband's family have? It turned out that his family only had three crumbling small mud houses, but we paid for it and rebuilt the house and built a two-story small building.
If you really want to divide the property, I'm afraid it will also divide my family's property, right?
What's more, my husband has an older brother, the eldest brother's family already has a son and a daughter, plus my eldest son, my father-in-law has at least two grandchildren.
However, since my parents did not argue with this reason, the matter was put down, and the youngest son still took his father's surname.
My husband said to me apologetically, "The old man's brain is relatively dead, and he can't turn a corner for a while, so I will slowly persuade my father and mother!" I still think that it is better to let the second child have your surname, which is a comfort to my father-in-law and mother-in-law. ”
My dad celebrates his 60th birthday and the family is reunited, so I still have to think more about happy things.
My dad quickly adjusted his emotions and said to me, "Usually, you all accompany our old couple, and the New Year is coming soon, so you better go back to your hometown early and accompany your parents-in-law for the New Year!"
I looked at my father-in-law with snow-white hair, and felt a little sad, every year, my parents urged us to go back to my parents-in-law's house for the New Year.
They are lonely for the New Year, lonely or not?
I smiled and said, "Mom and Dad, can we accompany you for the New Year this year?
At this moment, my husband's phone rang, and he hid on the balcony, and I still heard it!
My father-in-law urged us to go back to our hometown for the Chinese New Year, and we had to call at least 8 times a day!
My mother smiled, pulled my sleeve and said, "Girl, 365 days a year, your family of four has been with us for more than 300 days, and it is time to accompany his grandparents!"
My dad also said, "Don't embarrass your son-in-law, tomorrow, you can pack up and go back to his hometown!
My mother warmly invited, "Girl, tell your in-laws and mother-in-law, if you want the two families to be lively together, you will pick them up in the city for the New Year next year!"
I really don't know what to say, my parents are so reasonable! They are the same parents, why are there so many differences between the two parents?
It's good to go back to his hometown, I want to have a good fight with my parents-in-law, fight for it, let the second child have my surname, no matter what, my parents will be happy!
Everyone said, in this case, is it too much for my second child to have my surname?
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