Happiness depends on perception, not to compare
Many people know to be themselves, but they can't help but compare themselves with others. Comparison is a sign of unconfidence and can make you anxious or helpless. No matter what the world is like, being yourself with peace of mind is a kind of practice.
Those who like to take advantage of small advantages, once rejected, will feel that others are stingy. To tell a little story, there was a person who gave 20 yuan to the beggar at the gate of the community every day, and later gave him 10 yuan because of the bad economic environment.
The lack of human heart is a kind of personality defect. For people who don't know how to be grateful, no matter how much you give them, they will not be satisfied. In fact, the more you are grateful, the more you have. Gratitude is a flow of energy, you give to the world, and the world will give back to you in another way.
The more independent the heart, the fewer important people there are. It's not that independent people will go to ruthlessness, but because independent people don't want to bother others. In life, there are some people that you can never understand, not because they are too far away, but because they are too close.
Everything in heaven and earth has its own way of working. Only by knowing the rules can you get it. If you are too eager to get something, you often can't get it. Because the heart will magnify what you want, and it will even magnify into a world that occupies your heart. At this time, you have to jump out in time to see the truth in order to find out the way.
Remember: happiness depends on perception, not comparison. Do things according to the rules and know how to be grateful, and you will get more.
Life should be casual, not careful
No matter when or where you are, you must know how to be grateful. Mood is the foundation of happiness. The soul is good, and your world is naturally beautiful. If you don't know how to be grateful, all good things will leave you.
Life is given to those who know how to be grateful, because gratitude is a kind of energy feedback. If you look at the world with a tolerant heart, you will see the world of love, and if you look at the world with a narrow heart, you will find yourself in an unhappy world. The world you can see comes from your inner perception and experience.
The clouds are light and the wind is light, and the honor and disgrace are not shocked, which is just a choice after seeing through the essence of the world. Life is as light as water, so that great love can be born. If you are always led by material desires, you will definitely become a slave to material things, and you will not only lose your self, but also lose your happiness in life.
The happiness of life lies in understanding. If you can feel love and warmth in your ordinary life, it is a kind of happiness. No matter how much wealth you have, you can't feel happiness if you are empty and helpless in your heart. Therefore, happiness is not proportional to material wealth.
The heaviness of life is the fullness after hard work. Many people know that they have to be themselves, and in the face of the cruelty of life, they can't do it. After all, as a member of society, a person has to bear various responsibilities. Only those who have wisdom can see life. In the complex life, find your own positioning and purpose.
Remember: life is casual, don't be careful. When you know how to be grateful for life, you can go to the best state of life.