As the saying goes, there are people outside the people, and there are mountains outside the mountains.
No matter how strong a person is, he will always meet someone stronger than himself.
Of course, this kind of strength does not necessarily refer to the disparity in social status or wealth, but from inner fear, inferiority, and insecurity.
Every time we meet such a person, we always feel cramped, and our fate seems to take a sharp turn, making people inadvertently make mistakes.
This is the demon of the heart, and we need to help ourselves.
To put it simply, dare to turn against them, and your fate will be changed.
01: Hurt your friend
Friendship must be based on mutual respect and understanding, and what is needed is sincerity and mutual assistance.
Whatever the reason, if he acts to hurt you, it means that at this moment, he will choose to put your friendship behind other things, in other words, the other person does not see your friendship as irreplaceable or unshakable.
Once like this, it will be like this in the future.
If he encounters something that challenges your friendship, he will not hesitate to abandon you.
It's normal for friends to have disputes and conflicts, and quarrels don't necessarily hurt each other, hurt often when you put your hopes in the other person, and he doesn't hesitate to give up on you.
This kind of behavior is called harm.
If you keep swallowing your anger, the other party will be unscrupulous, because people's actions and thoughts have inertia.
Of course, we don't have to retribution, after all, constant entanglement is equivalent to repeatedly tracing the past hurt in our minds, then we will never have peace.
Therefore, a complete turnaround with a friend who hurt you is the best way for you to stay away from harm.
02: Ignored your colleagues
It is a rooting process that everyone has to go through.
Most of us, when we were just starting out, would always meet colleagues who suppressed us, thinking that our views were too naïve, our ideas were too idealistic, etc., and then simply ignored our suggestions and did not consider them at all.
What's more, relying on his seniority, he is unceremonious to new colleagues, naming other people's ideas and achievements with his own name, and asking for credit in front of the leader.
Such people, we have no way to refute and confront them for the time being, but to a certain extent, they have become an inspiration for us to be invincible from now on.
However, when we have a small achievement, these people will suddenly appear again, showing their predecessors' true colors, congratulations and more "mention".
For such colleagues, we don't have to be polite at all, let alone think about improving the working atmosphere, we just need to do our own work, cultivate ourselves to be strong enough, and there is no emotion in the workplace.
03: Betrayed your loved ones
Family affection should be the most selfless and heartwarming emotion, and relatives should also help each other, at least to provide each other with emotional value, and never fall into the ground.
However, many people do not get along well with their relatives, and even enemies, and that is because they have done very excessive things to us and caused serious harm.
Loved ones, who should be our most solid backing and allies who will always stand together, but when we need support, this kind of lethality is huge, and even collapses our entire outlook on life.
This is even more terrible than the hurt between friends and the ignorance of colleagues, who are completely on the opposite side of us, wantonly attacking and paging us, completely abandoning family affection and us.
For such relatives, if we don't turn our faces, the other party will think that we are timid and afraid, and will continue to bully us.
In order to prevent them from treating their relatives so harshly, we must completely turn our faces with them and never get along with each other.
Whether life goes well or not is related to the people we meet and our decisions.
Dealing with people who have no morality will only hurt us, and without a complete distancing of lines with them, we cannot avoid the reality that we will continue to be hurt by them.
Let them fade out of our lives, and our lives will be more sunny, in a better mood, and more smoothly and happily!
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