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We all want our social circles to be clean, simple, and warm.
But the more you look forward to it, the easier it is to fall into disappointment.
Many people smile on the surface, but it makes people feel cold, and for some reason, they always feel that their thoughts are very deep and unpredictable.
After getting along for a long time, I have more and more confirmed my original ideas, and with the increase in contact, I feel that the other party is ruthless and a little unbearable.
Looking back on the past, I found that they often said the following 4 mantras, which are very accurate.
01: Forget it, don't talk about it
Many people take this as a mantra as if others are slow to respond or make a mistake without understanding it, and they are very impatient.
Such people usually do things neatly and neatly, and they are not willing to give others the opportunity to ask and explore.
They may not be on top, but they always maintain a sense of alienation, as if they are "different from anyone else".
Such a person, because he made a decision on the spot and acted decisively, is actually unwilling to explain more, so he chooses this perfunctory tone and attitude.
Of course, they have a duty when they should be responsible, but when it is not their own business, they will never overflow with sympathy and pity, giving people a sense of coldness.
02: You're thinking too much
In order to cover up and escape their true thoughts, people with good faces and ruthless faces usually refute when others say key issues, saying that the other party thinks too much.
They give the impression that they are eager to argue for themselves, but in fact it is precisely the others who have accidentally guessed it, and they need to try their best to cover it up.
Such people are not unwilling to listen to other people's opinions, but they understand all the truths, but they do not want others to continue to talk about it, because they do not want to change.
Beneath the smiling exterior lies a resolute and hard heart that is not easily changed by anyone, let alone anyone else.
03: What are you doing so seriously?
When a kind-faced person says this, he is often making fun of others.
When they bully the weak, they usually say this sentence lightly after hurting the self-esteem of others, and continue to trample on and trample on the dignity of the weak.
Such a person has never been to anyone, only concerned about his own interests and losses, and even only for his own pleasure.
They say things that make others feel easy, they do things that make others despair, they are cruel and ruthless, but they never have the heart to repent, but they will become more proud because of this, and continue to deepen their bullying of others.
04: For your good, do you understand
If you want to be good for others, you won't talk about "I'm for your good".
They will use practical actions to be kind to others, instead of PUA others all day long, in order to show their abilities.
And such a person usually says a rhetorical question like "do you understand" in the second half of the sentence, the purpose of which is to express his contempt and ridicule for the other party.
They take advantage of others, but they try to continue to control their minds and trample on their dignity.
But they are so clever that they act as if they don't do it and don't know what to do, forgetting that they themselves are in some ways salters.
Everyone has the right to choose how to live their lives, but as long as they do not do what they want, they will continue to be questioned and persecuted.
Many people say that it is very refreshing to do things with ruthless people, in fact, when you get along with them, you must always be vigilant not to be controlled by them, otherwise once you want to change, they will immediately use all their cruelty and ruthlessness on you.
Therefore, if you can't be more ruthless than them, you should quickly stay away from it, so as not to put yourself in a more difficult situation.
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