In 2014, Zhejiang Satellite TV launched a blind date program, there was a female student Zhou Lanjun to go on a blind date, she claimed to be a woman with an independent personality, and the program said wildly: The matchmaker said that I can marry a man with 20 million assets, my goal is to marry a person with 50 million assets, is she saying this for the effect of the show? Or is it really a money worshipper, did she get her wish later?
1. In the blind date show, he said wildly: If you are not 50 million, the second generation will not marry
Zhou Lanjun was born in 1992 in Xiamen, Fujian Province, an ordinary migrant family, is the only daughter in the family, the family conditions are not too good, and there is a lack of money, her parents give her a lot of hope, hoping that she can get ahead in the future and become the pride of her parents.
Therefore, her parents gave her a strict education, only allowed her to excel in her studies, did not allow her to make friends of the opposite sex, and if her grades were not good and she could not satisfy her parents, she would be punished.
She also faced a lot of pressure when she went to school, but fortunately, she was very diligent, and she studied very hard, and her academic performance in the class has been good.
She has a special hobby for money, because she was ridiculed and looked down upon by others when she was a child, her ideal for the future is to marry a very rich person, she looks down on ordinary men, and feels that she is not worthy of herself, she should marry a particularly rich person, in the eyes of her classmates, she is an alternative.
Even in college, male classmates did not dare to pursue her, so she went to a blind date website and paid the staff of the website to evaluate her charm.
In line with the psychology of pleasing her and making her happy, the website said that she had the hope of marrying a rich second generation of 20 million, she was very happy to hear it, and felt that she was more than 20 million, and she even felt that marrying a rich second generation of 50 million was her ideal.
In fact, her appearance is not as beautiful as a flower, and whether she can be worthy of the rich second generation of 50 million is still a question, which has not affected her money worship.
In 2014, a blind date program in Zhejiang was launched, and she decisively signed up to participate, feeling that this was an opportunity to show herself, and she could also tell her thoughts to the potential rich second generation through the TV screen on a larger scale to realize her wishes.
At that time, she was still a college student, and she publicly declared on the show that she was a woman with an independent personality and hoped to marry a rich second generation of 50 million.
A mediocre-looking female college student spoke wildly, and even said such a thing, and the audience also talked about it, which directly increased the ratings.
Some viewers called and asked if the program team had designed a plot in advance to attract attention? The program team hurriedly denied that it was Zhou Lanjun's own thoughts, which had nothing to do with the program team, and was not said for the sake of the effect of the program.
2. People have criticized her for being a money worshipper and has failed many blind dates
Zhou Lanjun's remarks were also controversial by people, people said that she was a money worshipper, and she was also ridiculed and criticized by people.
Zhou Lanjun was not convinced, she claimed: With my conditions, I will definitely be able to marry a rich second generation worth 50 million, and the standards I set are very in line with my conditions.
The staff was helpless and reminded her: The shoes you ordered don't fit well, but she didn't think so, full of confidence: I am a woman with an independent personality, she thinks that there must be someone who agrees with her ideas, and she can also find her ideal partner, and proposes to let the program team arrange a blind date for her.
Despite this, the staff of the program team kindly persuaded her, the conditions were too strange and difficult to achieve, she did not change her mind, and the program team had to satisfy her.
really arranged a blind date for her, and a blind date with a rich second generation, although there is no 50 million, it is also a potential stock, Zhou Lanjun is very happy.
The two parties agreed to meet in a hotel, Zhou Lanjun dressed up carefully, put on the dress she thought was the most beautiful, and couldn't wait to come to the blind date scene in advance.
Sitting down at the table, the rich second generation had not yet appeared, she saw a beautiful fruit platter on the table, and ate it unceremoniously, not caring about other people's eyes.
Although the staff advised her to pay attention to her image, she disagreed, which also exposed her quality, and the staff also sweated for her.
After a while, the rich second generation appeared at the scene, and the two sides politely introduced themselves, and at first the two parties were very polite, and she pretended to be very elegant and polite.
When the two sides had a substantive conversation, Zhou Lanjun unceremoniously put forward his own requirements: I hope that the future parents-in-law can tolerate herself, don't care too much, be reasonable, have good morality, be able to respect her independent personality, and he can restrain the excessive behavior of her parents-in-law.
Her bizarre remarks made the rich second generation drop their jaws, and they immediately lost the desire to talk about it again, and the two sides broke up unhappily.
She is a woman who overestimates herself and has a domineering independent personality, no man will like it, she doesn't think it's her fault, but thinks that the two sides have different views.
She couldn't wait to ask the program team to arrange another blind date for her, the program team was for the ratings, and second, she also wanted to see if her idea could be realized.
arranged another blind date for her, a rich second generation with a lot of potential, and she also accepted the lesson and did not make excessive demands.
However, when it comes to the two's plans for the future, she still reveals her true thoughts.
She was ashamed to say that she was not inferior to those popular stars in terms of wisdom and diligence, and she wanted to develop on this road.
The rich second generation expressed admiration for her idea and said that she could let her enter this circle through her connections and connections.
Zhou Lanjun not only didn't buy it, but ridiculed the other party for pretending to be a ×, a fake rich second generation, looking for the other party's faults, saying that the other party seemed to be a gangster, and finally angered the other party, and the second blind date failed again.
Later, I went on a blind date a few times, but it still ended in failure, she is not a beautiful woman, nor is she an elegant woman, she doesn't know anything about piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, which rich second generation can take a fancy to her?
3. Learn from the pain, succeed in his career, and are still single
She didn't realize her naivety and naivety, but thought that even if the program team couldn't help her find the ideal person, she could find it herself.
As a result, her remarks were criticized and ridiculed by netizens, and even the TV station was scolded by netizens, saying that it was a program deliberately made in this way in order to attract traffic and attract audiences.
The program team felt very wronged, it was all her own thoughts, no one asked her to say so, and Zhou Lanjun also became the target of criticism and ridicule from netizens.
Through the broadcast of the show, she also became "popular", this kind of popularity is not what she wants, classmates point fingers at her, teachers criticize her, and make her embarrassed and lonely.
She has also become a label of a money worshipper, after graduation, she was rejected to apply for a company, after hitting a wall many times, she also realized her mistake and apologized to netizens, her idea of marrying a rich second generation can only be a loft in the air and cannot be realized.
After learning from the pain, she also recognized the reality, tried to improve her quality, learned a variety of interests and hobbies, and managed to succeed in her career.
She is indeed very capable of internships, and has also learned a lot of hobbies, often sharing her painting, archery, cooking tea art and so on social networks.
Now, she is also in her 30s, she is still alone, and she did not marry the rich second generation as she wished.
She also had to compromise with reality, and never said the idea of marrying a rich second generation with a net worth of 50 million, and the reality also made her recognize herself, no matter what, she gradually returned to normal, which is not a good thing.
Summary:
There is a big gap between the ideal and the reality, no matter what, people must do what they can do, worship money too much, want to live a happy life without paying the price, and want to live a happy life without hard work.
Fortunately, Zhou Lanjun can recognize the reality, she is also smart enough, turned around in time, and succeeded in her career, although she did not marry the rich second generation, but with her own ability, she lived a much better life than ordinary women, which is also admirable. (The materials and pictures are from the Internet infringement, please contact to delete)