The blue of the sky, falling in love with the turquoise of the earth, the breeze between them sighed: "Ahhh
Everyone knows that Xu Zhimo loves Lin Huiyin, but as the object of his affection, there are different opinions on whether Lin Huiyin has also loved him.
1. Lin Huiyin's breakup letter to Xu Zhimo
In 1920, Lin Huiyin's father, Lin Changmin, was sent overseas for investigation, and he brought his favorite daughter Lin Huiyin with him. At this time, Xu Zhimo was attracted by the British philosopher Russell and flew from the United States to London, England, but Russell was no longer in London. In desperation, Xu Zhimo had no choice but to stay at the London School of Economics to study.
In London, Xu Zhimo and Lin Changmin met by chance, and they chatted and were quite speculative. Xu Zhimo often came to Lin Changmin's apartment as a guest, and over time, Lin Huiyin and Xu Zhimo also became familiar with each other. Scholars and beauties, talented and beautiful, has been a good story since ancient times. Xu Zhimo was attracted by Lin Huiyin, so he began to pursue it enthusiastically.
At this time, Xu Zhimo was already married, and the original partner Zhang Youyi was also pregnant, but Xu Zhimo still filed for divorce from his wife Zhang Youyi.
In October 1921, Lin Changmin took Lin Huiyin back to China, and Lin Huiyin sent a breakup letter to Xu Zhimo. After returning to China, Lin Huiyin met, knew and fell in love with Liang Sicheng under the mediation of his father.
Six years later, on March 21, 1928, Liang Sicheng and Lin Huiyin got married and had children. Since then, Lin Huiyin and Liang Sicheng have made great contributions to the protection and field survey of ancient buildings in the mainland.
2. Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman married Liang Sicheng and Lin Huiyin, and Liang Qichao testified strangely
After Xu Zhimo and Lin Huiyin broke up, they did not die of old age, and Xu Zhimo did not stop falling in love. Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman got married before Liang Sicheng and Lin Huiyin.
In 1926, Lu Xiaoman married Xu Zhimo. Although Xu Zhimo's father reluctantly agreed to the marriage between Lu Xiaoman and Xu Zhimo, he put forward three conditions: first, the marriage expenses should be borne by himself, and the family would not bear it; second, the wedding must be introduced by Hu Shi, and Liang Qichao must witness the marriage, otherwise it will not be recognized; third, after marriage, he must return to the south and live in peace. Xu Zhimo agreed to all three.
Liang Qichao's "most honest", "most straightforward" and "most alternative" testimony in the history of Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman's wedding:
I came to say a few words that I don't like, so that the society knows that such a bad example is not enough to take the law, and it is not worth encouraging——— Xu Zhimo, you have an impetuous temperament, so that you can't learn, you can't do learning, and you are a failure, and your divorce and remarriage are proof of your inattentiveness!
Lu Xiaoman, you and Xu Zhimo are both from the past, I hope that from now on you can abide by women's morals, review your personality and behavior, divorce and remarriage are caused by the mistakes of your character, I hope you don't make mistakes again and again.
Don't take selfishness as the criterion of action, don't take absurdity and pleasure as the goal of life pursuit, don't treat marriage as child's play, think that you can get married if you are happy, divorce if you are unhappy, make your parents ashamed, make friends disdainful, and let society see jokes!
In short, I hope this is the last time the two of you will get married in this life! This is my congratulations to you——— I'm done!"
On November 19, 1931, Xu Zhimo held a lecture on "Chinese Architectural Art" for foreign envoys in the small hall of Peking Concord in order to participate in Lin Huiyin. I took a plane from Shanghai, but unfortunately, the plane crashed, and the young generation of talented people died.
On the day of Xu Zhimo's death in 1935, Lin Huiyin wrote the article "Commemorating the Fourth Anniversary of Shima's Death" to express her condolences.
3. Regarding whether Lin Huiyin loves Xu Zhimo, the opinion of friends.
Her good friend Fei Weimei said: "Lin Huiyin treats Xu Zhimo more like a literary mentor."
Lin Huiyin's daughter Liang Zaibing recalled: "My mother respects his (Xu Zhimo's) knowledge, not love."
When he was young, Lin Huiyin must have liked Xu Zhimo, but a girl's Mu Qiang for a romantic talent is a girl's envy of a romantic talent, but the back is more of an appreciation and respect for Xu Zhimo's literature, as for Xu Zhimo, an amorous person, he has liked many people, but which one he likes the most, I really don't know.