Some netizens contributed to an emotional blogger: I was disgusted by my boyfriend's family because of having a cat, and his sister-in-law didn't let her go to his house after she became pregnant, thinking that she was sick DU, and she was afraid of affecting the fetus in her sister-in-law's womb, but on his mother's birthday, her boyfriend asked her to prepare a gift, she felt that since your family disliked me so much, why did you want me to prepare a gift, so she quarreled with her boyfriend, she wanted to ask netizens, is she too much, or her boyfriend's family is too much?
Here's the thing, the girl has been in a relationship with her boyfriend for two years and has already met her parents. After meeting her parents, her boyfriend's mother has always been very enthusiastic about her and often calls her to play at home. But since her boyfriend's sister-in-law was pregnant and moved back to live, her boyfriend's mother never called her to play at home, and even the girl took the initiative to say that she wanted to go to his house to meet his sister-in-law, and her boyfriend also excused herself that his mother was very tired from taking care of his sister-in-law and had no time to cook and entertain her, so she asked her to wait for his sister-in-law to give birth before going to his house.
At first, the girl didn't think much about it, but it wasn't until she peeked at her boyfriend's phone and saw the chat history between him and his mother that she finally understood why they didn't let her go to his house.
She first saw her boyfriend's mother let her boyfriend mention the cat to her, and her boyfriend replied that he couldn't be the master of this matter, and then his mother said that he hadn't seen her for a long time, and he didn't know if she would think that their family didn't welcome her, and the girl felt very wrong when she saw this, so she looked through the chat history earlier, and finally figured out the whole story.
The girl is very fond of cats and has a particularly cute cat, her boyfriend and family know about it, but they don't show anything until her boyfriend's sister-in-law gets pregnant. The boyfriend's eldest brother and sister-in-law have been married for more than seven years, and the two have been actively preparing for pregnancy, but there has been no news for several years, and the couple are very anxious and anxious. Luckily, she finally got pregnant this year, so you can imagine how important this child is to both of them.
Because her boyfriend's brother was very busy with work and had no time to take care of his pregnant wife, he sent his wife home to let his mother take care of him, and for the sake of this child, his boyfriend's sister-in-law directly quit her job and raised the baby at home.
My boyfriend's family believes that pregnant women should not have cats because there may be toxoplasma gondii in cats, and if pregnant women are in close contact with cats, they may be infected with toxoplasmosis, which will affect the fetus. Therefore, for the sake of insurance, the boyfriend's family decided not to let her come to their house to contact his sister-in-law until she gave birth.
The girl was very angry when she learned about this, and she remembered that her boyfriend had asked her if she could sell the cat or give it away, in her opinion, her boyfriend's family just disliked her for having a cat, and felt that she also had toxoplasma gondii on her, and was afraid that she would hurt their family's most precious first grandson.
So when the boyfriend's mother's birthday arrives, the girl doesn't want to pay more attention because she is angry, and she just plans to transfer a red envelope on her birthday. But her boyfriend felt that this was her first birthday for his mother, and she should take it very seriously and prepare a gift with her heart, while the girl mocked him angrily: Sick DU will not be transmitted through the screen!
When the boyfriend saw his girlfriend's attitude, he offered him to buy a gift for his mother, and said that she bought it and asked him to pass it on.
The girl ignored his stubble and said some weird words to him: "But I am sick, what should I do if I buy a gift to infect your sister-in-law?" This is your family's first baby, and your family's inheritance of incense is the world's most important thing, and it cannot be taken lightly. Sick DU will not be transmitted through the screen, I still send a red envelope, if there is any problem with the child born by your sister-in-law, it will be bad to blame me......"
Her boyfriend was also very annoyed by her at this time, and she had no good attitude, thinking that she was losing her temper and not being mature enough, and the girl said everything in her heart without reservation: "You don't welcome me, why do I still have to rush to please your mother, dislike me for being sick, and want to accept my gift......"
The boyfriend felt that his brother and sister-in-law had been married for so many years before they had a child, so what was wrong with being careful? If she became pregnant with a child in the future, her mother would treat her like her sister-in-law; the girl felt that her boyfriend's family valued the child in his sister-in-law's womb too much, and his mother served his sister-in-law every day and enjoyed it, just waiting to hold her eldest grandson to continue the incense, how could she care about her as an outsider......!
After seeing the girl's contribution and the chat record of the two, netizens left messages in the comment area to express their opinions:
Someone said, "I also have a cat, but I don't force everyone else to like cats as much as I do, and accept that I have a cat and contact with others." It is normal for the whole family to walk on thin ice after being married for several years before conceiving a child. I didn't think there was anything wrong with the man's family, but my boyfriend was ready to buy a gift for you, and he was very good at doing things. Having a pet is not a rude reason, you can just break up and find a family that loves pets to fall in love and get married. ”
"Yes, not everyone likes cats, most people like my parents think that cats have parasites on them and are not clean or something, although pets must be very hygienic now, but people mind, respect for others is not the most basic?"
Another person said: "I think that since my sister-in-law is pregnant, I have concerns, just accept it generously, and my boyfriend's mother is very considerate of your thoughts, cats really can't be compared with people." ”
"After reading the chat history, I felt that the woman's problem was that others were finally pregnant, and there was really no problem with being careful everywhere, and the boy also said that he was willing to buy it himself, but he just hoped that the girl would give it to his mother, so that the family would know the woman's mind, to put it bluntly, the girl was likable, and the girl was too yin and yang. ”
Some people also said: "I'm laughing to death, have you had any contact with your boyfriend, don't go home with your boyfriend, be careful of infecting your sister-in-law." ”
"Yes, the girlfriend is a close contact of the cat, and the boyfriend is also a close contact or a sub-close contact, how can the man go home?"
"There are so many cats on the street, and the doctor in the hospital may also have cats, so I suggested that his sister-in-law should be isolated alone. ”
In my opinion, my boyfriend's sister-in-law was pregnant for seven years before conceiving a child, how cautious the family is can understand, standing in the perspective of a girl, it may feel a little bit different, obviously I was so good to myself before, but as a result, my sister-in-law was pregnant, and she didn't even let herself go to the door, and it was normal to feel uncomfortable, but she was really too yin and yang to speak, which made people angry when they saw it, and it seemed very impolite。
In short, each has its own reason, except for some problems with the way girls speak and communicate, there is no absolute right or wrong between the two. Just look at the attitude of the girl and her boyfriend's family towards cats, I feel that they are not suitable to be a family, otherwise there will be conflicts because of cats in the future, such as really getting married, what about the girl being pregnant, what about the cat?