#天南北地大拜年#
I'm a man who belongs to Madahar, I have a big heart and a fat body, and I don't care about these details. Including my son saying where they had Chinese New Year's Eve, I really didn't care much.
However, when my son said yesterday that they were going to have a Chinese New Year's Eve dinner at his mother-in-law's house this year, and only came to my house on the first day of the new year, I saw that the old man's face immediately darkened.
The old man is still quite traditional, he thinks that his son's family should eat with his parents when they eat Chinese New Year's Eve, how can they go to his mother-in-law's house to eat? But I'm okay, I don't care much.
This is the case in our family, where all three of us live in a small area, close to each other, and all in the same building.
Usually, the small house of the son and daughter-in-law does not fire, they eat at the unit at noon and at their in-laws' house at night.
In the past, when I was working in other places, my two of us came back for the New Year to have Chinese New Year's Eve dinner with my in-laws at our son's house.
At that time, my son had just gotten married, and I came back once a year, and I met my in-laws a few times.
Therefore, they don't have any common language with each other, and they have nothing to say for the New Year together, which is quite embarrassing.
But there was no way, at that time, my house was just renovated, there were no pots and pans, and I wanted to come back to see my son during the Chinese New Year, so I had to spend two New Years together.
Later, after I came back from the south, I always went back to my second brother's house for the Chinese New Year. It's just that this year, the old man doesn't want to go back to his second brother for the New Year.
On the one hand, it is because the second brother's house in the rural northeast is too cold, and the other is that my second brother and sister-in-law are in their 70s, and the old man feels that it is too troublesome to go to other people's homes.
But as soon as I went back, my second sister-in-law was very kind to me, and she served me with three plates and five dishes every meal, so the old man said that he would not go back this year, so that his second sister-in-law would not be tired anymore.
My original plan was that since I didn't go back to my second brother's house for the New Year, the three of them would order a Chinese New Year's Eve dinner in a restaurant.
However, I later heard from my son that his mother-in-law was preparing the menu for the Chinese New Year's Eve dinner early.
As soon as I saw this posture, I wasn't going to go with us for the New Year, so in that case, forget it, it's not bad to go our separate ways.
In this way, yesterday my son came to my house and said that this year, the three of them will go to his mother-in-law's house for dinner on the evening of the Chinese New Year's Eve, and then come to my house at noon on the first day of the new year to greet us.
I didn't think it mattered, anyway, everyone has to live so close, don't you just have a meal? Where to eat, it's not okay, the first day of the new year is the first day of the new year.
However, as soon as my son finished speaking, I saw that the old man's face immediately darkened, because in the old man's concept, the son had to go back to his parents' house during the Chinese New Year, and should not go to his mother-in-law's house.
I know that this is definitely not my son's idea, so since my son has made up his mind, it is useless for you to say that the old man is on fire.
I can only comfort him with kind words, I said what we should do, Chinese New Year's Eve, let's also make 4 dishes and 5 dishes, also have a good Chinese New Year's Eve dinner, wait until the first day of the new year my son's family comes and add a few more dishes, since the son has decided, we should be happy and happy in the New Year, don't make trouble with each other because of this matter, then I don't think it's worth it. Besides, we're all this age, so why bother with all this?
I remember when my mother was alive, she told me more than once, that is, the New Year's Day was good, just a day or two passed, and the usual days were sad, I think this makes sense.
Let's not care about these details, if you really care, then you will probably be angry endlessly.
I am already in my sixties, so I should comfort and comfort myself, let myself pass this psychological hurdle, don't worry about these, maybe I can get a little sicker, and live a few more years better than anything else.
In addition to comforting the old man verbally, yesterday I hurriedly accompanied him to the mall, bought him two pairs of shoes, and coaxed him well, I don't want this stubborn old man to affect the old man's mood for the New Year because of this decision of my son's family.
Today I accompanied him to the street again, but I didn't buy the clothes he liked, and when I came back, I picked up the Internet and bought him two more clothes, and then accompanied him to the vegetable market to buy pork ribs, pig's trotters, and meat.
That's it, every family has difficulty singing, there is no way, you can only find a way to solve something.
Anyway, I just feel that no matter what happens, it can't affect my mood every day, I earn every day I live, I am happy every day, why should I add to myself for these trivial things, I won't be so stupid.
Do you think that my son's family does not eat this Chinese New Year's Eve dinner at his parents' house, but at his mother-in-law's house?