#天南北地大拜年#
Now you have found that it is all us who are serious about the New Year, those of us who are born in the 50s and 60s, not that these old people are not afraid of being tired, but there are other reasons:
Parents and children in their eighties and nineties have to come back to spend the New Year with their parents
These people in their fifties and sixties, if their parents are still alive, are all eighty or ninety years old.
At this time, the elderly who live with their in-laws, then the other brothers and sisters will come back to accompany their parents for the New Year and live for a few days.
In this case, the elderly in their fifties and sixties have to take on the responsibility of cooking this large family's meal.
I just saw a person on the headline, and she said that her family was coming back for the Spring Festival, and there were 18 people, large and small, and she prepared a lot of ingredients.
And she said that other people don't do anything when they come back, they can't count on it, this big family, they all point to her cooking alone, do you think she can not be tired?
I want to say that it's not that she's not tired, but that she has no choice, because she lives with her parents-in-law, so the other brothers and sisters have to come back to accompany her parents-in-law for the New Year, as for her, she has no reason not to agree, so no matter how tired she is, she has to bear it silently.
This is one of the reasons.
There are feelings for the New Year
Another reason is that these old people in the fifties and sixties have the feelings of celebrating the New Year.
I feel that only by making a table of delicious food and drink by myself can I have the atmosphere of the New Year.
In fact, the living conditions are so good now, all things can be bought outside, including fried twist flowers, fried oil fruits, fried buckles, fried sweet potato balls, etc., which are made on the spot outside.
However, these old people would rather do it at home than buy it outside, and they always feel that only by making these things can it be like a New Year.
Including my husband is the same, on the twenty-eighth day of the lunar month, they steamed a pot of cakes today.
Then tomorrow he will prepare the roasted meat, braised pig's trotters, braised pork ribs, etc., he will prepare these ingredients in advance, I watched him busy, and I felt that it was indeed quite a New Year's atmosphere.
Let the children who work outside the home come home and eat the taste of their mother, tired and happy
These old people in the 50s and 60s all feel that they can let the children who work outside the home and eat the taste of their mothers when they come home, so they are tired and happy.
Although these children don't like to eat these things at all, maybe the dishes that our old people have worked so hard to prepare, people will eat a few bites on the table and then get off the table, and then the old people will eat leftovers after a hot meal and a steamed meal.
But despite this, even if the children only take one bite, the old people are happy to see it.
Now the Chinese New Year is all in the 50s and 60s, these old people are seriously celebrating the New Year, and they have to prepare a few dishes and list the menu in advance, how many things to buy, and they are busy preparing these days.
Isn't the Chinese New Year just a popular one? The children are back and feel like a New Year.
If the children don't go home for the New Year, then there will be only the old couple left, and there will be no atmosphere for the New Year's festival at all. Who are you going to cook a big table of dishes for whom to eat? The old couple may have one or two dishes.
Therefore, although they are very tired, the old people are tired and happy, because their children and grandchildren have come back for the New Year, and they are naturally very happy.
In general, now the New Year's Festival is really tired of the elderly, and the children come back to eat ready-made.
I have never seen a child go to the kitchen to help their parents, not the elderly are busy in the kitchen, the children are playing with their mobile phones, playing games, scrolling Tik Tok, and watching videos in the living room......
When it's time for dinner, the old people have packed up their meals, and sometimes they can't call it? This is the current situation of the Chinese New Year.
I'm thinking that maybe in another 10 or 20 years, when we old people reach the age of eighty or ninety and can't do it at all, there will be no New Year's flavor.
Maybe everyone has come to the New Year as if it were a normal day. Because you are counting on these young people now, at our age, to be able to take the New Year seriously like us, how do I feel that it is unlikely.
Because, they can't do anything at all? Do you think that's reasonable? Is it possible?