After the age of 40, I had an epiphany, once people retire, they must learn to give up, especially to learn to throw away 4 things, each of which is very important, but must be thrown away, what does it refer to?
1. Throw away "ineffective socialization"
After retirement, stay away from those who are not in the same channel, stay away from those who look down on you, stay away from those who are intrigued and hypocritical, and be with whoever is comfortable, with whom, regardless of relatives or friends, if you can talk together, you are a confidant, if you can play together, you are a brother, when you are old, stay away from those people and things that disturb your emotions.
2. Throw away the "bad mood"
After retirement, stay away from garbage people, don't get angry easily when you encounter problems, learn to tolerate and let go, don't worry about bad people, don't get entangled with bad things, don't be angry for unworthy people and things, anger is to punish yourself for other people's mistakes, only learn to let go, in order to live happily.
3. Throw away "inappropriate clothes"
After retirement, the figure is out of shape, don't wear tights, don't wear clothes that are not suitable for you, don't envy other people's brand-name clothes, what suits you is the best, clothes that are not suitable, no matter how cheap you are, don't wear them, because it is a waste of money and makes you uncomfortable.
4. Throw away "stubbornness"
After retirement, you should throw away stubbornness, don't carry everything by yourself, don't be too strong, don't expect others to do everything, listen to your children's opinions, communicate with your children more, don't close yourself off, learn to enjoy life, and live your own day.
After retirement, people should think openly, see lightly, forget age, forget illness, forget grievances, don't let yourself live too tired, don't embarrass yourself too much, some people and things, let go if you can let go, forget if you can forget, there is no need to embarrass yourself.
When you get old, throw away 4 things, and you will be happier and happier:
1. Throw away the "unnecessary drinking party"
2. Throw away "people who don't love you"
3. Throw away the "relatives who look down on you"
4. Throw away "hypocritical friends"
When people are old, they must leave a little dignity for themselves, learn to break away, live a simple life, and make their old age happier.
After retirement, cherish every day, live well, don't think so much, eat when you should eat, drink when you should drink, play when you should play, and have fun when you should have fun.
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Lectures on the Modern Translation of Ancient Chinese: General Interpretation of Classical Chinese, Common Uses of Ancient Chinese, Real Words and Fictional Grammar Books
