In ancient times, the emphasis was on "the right door", referring to the family background of both parties, the growth environment, etc., all need to be "matched", if the door is not the right household, there may also be "resentment", and put it in modern society, the same is very applicable, if the two sides do not agree with each other, even if they are forcibly matched, it is just a "bamboo basket for water".
With the rapid development of the times, people's thoughts and concepts have also changed a lot, and they also have a clearer idea of marriage, no longer as in the past, "blind marriage and dumb marriage", but choose the other half that is more suitable for themselves, hoping to achieve better results.
Especially the other half who has come from the student days, the relationship between the two will be more pure, but when you enter the job, the mentality will change more or less, especially the "circle" is different, whether it can go to the end will also become an "unknown"!
"My girlfriend's education is too low and I want to break up", 985 master's complaint, revealing the hypocrisy of highly educated people!
At the college level, many students are eager to have a "sweet" relationship, but everyone's situation is different, the concept of mate selection is also different, and the other half they meet is also completely different.
A master's student asked a question on the Internet, he is a 985 bachelor's and master's degree, and his education and job are very good, but his girlfriend only has a college degree, should I marry her?
It stands to reason that 985 bachelor's and master's degree and college students, the academic qualifications of the two are not equal, and there is nothing to hesitate, but then look at the boy's statement, but find that things are not simple, the two have been in love for 7 years, the girl's appearance is about 8 points, and the boy is only about 6 points, the two have known and fallen in love since college, and the girl is a few years younger than the boy.
After graduating, the boys went to Shanghai, and the girls followed, and then went to Beijing and Shenzhen, and later the two chose to settle in Shenzhen, but compared to the stable jobs of boys, girls are mostly some more mobile jobs, such as sales, pastry chefs, luxury tellers, etc., and the salary is also unstable.
In addition, the girl has a younger brother, the boy has a younger sister, the family conditions of the two sides are similar, but the boy thinks that the girl has no "self-discipline", does not know how to improve his education, even if he urges, the other party can't persevere, although the girl provides herself with a high emotional value, but the boy can't help but complain, "The girlfriend's education is too low, I want to break up."
It's just that the complaint of the 985 master has exposed the hypocrisy of highly educated people! Netizens also bluntly said: In 7 years, what have you been thinking about, don't you know that the other party is a junior college when you are together? Don't take the low education as your own excuse!
Some netizens said: "Climbing high branches" is quite fresh and refined, but unfortunately no one is "stupid and sweet"! Indeed, the girl's appearance is not low, if she said something inappropriate a few years ago, it must be easy to find someone stronger than a boy, but it delayed people's youth, and licked her face and said "education does not match", it's not too outrageous!
What's more, girls don't suddenly become junior colleges, so don't make excuses for their "negative man" behavior! In fact, from the student stage to the work stage, a lot of time and youth are spent on the same person, and the result is either to get married and start a family, or to break up and say goodbye, which can also be said to be two extremes.
The author believes that a high degree of education is not equal to a "sense of superiority", and academic qualifications are not so important, when the other party can provide enough emotional value for themselves, and the three views are consistent and highly consistent, it is also a good thing to be together, and vice versa, and when the boy asks, he must have already concluded in his heart, but it is just a trick to deceive himself!
Academic qualifications are not a "gap", but the three views are the most important
As the old saying goes, "don't be hard to melt if the circle is different", even if you force it, it may be unsatisfactory, but knowing that the other half's education and ability are not as good as your own, and you still want to be together, you should also take into account the deeper gap behind your academic qualifications, rather than "three minutes of heat", which will also hurt both parties.
College students receiving a higher quality education should have the ability to distinguish between right and wrong, rather than dividing people into "three, six, nine and so on" according to their academic qualifications.
And college students also need to see the essence of the problem through the appearance, marriage is not "looking for a job", there are not so many rules and regulations, whether it is age or education, etc., it is just "additional conditions", if the other party meets the better, it doesn't matter if it doesn't meet, after all, it is not easy to find the "right eye".
"Interesting soul is one in a thousand", it is also a very simple truth, and there is no need for highly educated people to be pretentious there, after all, the so-called academic qualifications are just a little higher "gold content" of paper, if the appearance, height and three views do not match, then even if the education is high, it is of little significance.
Written at the end: "Men are afraid of entering the wrong line, women are afraid of marrying the wrong man", the truth is also very profound, college students can polish their eyes, so as not to "trust non-people", and college students also need to have a stronger sense of professionalism, self-reliance and self-reliance, reduce dependence on others, and naturally meet better people, rather than "do not hit the south wall and do not look back"!