I usually like to listen to other people's stories, and after listening to other people's stories, I also like to write them down. The protagonist of today's article, an old man in his eighties, with a weathered face with sadness all the time, told me the story of him and his children.
I am 82 years old with 7 children, and I should have reached the age of enjoying my old age, but I did not expect to be reduced to the point of homelessness.
He gave birth to six daughters just to give birth to one son
I am the only son in the family, and the task of passing on the family is entrusted to me, but I didn't think that my wife gave birth to 5 daughters in a row, and I have not given birth to a son, I am already obsessed, and I have to let my wife give birth to a son for me.
Finally in the sixth child, we welcomed our son, and naturally the son is my baby, and the baby of the whole family.
I also felt that one son was not enough, and I wanted to have one more son, so I forced my wife to have another one, and the seventh child was still a daughter. So, I gave up on regeneration.
I have six daughters and one son.
All love was given to the son
Since I was a child, I have made all my daughters have to put their sons first. I have to let my son, so since I was a child, my son has developed a day when clothes come to reach out and food comes to open his mouth. Whoever is in charge of everything must be centered on him.
Our whole family gave all this love to this son, and his sisters and sisters all let him do everything and think about him.
The daughters grew up, they all got married, they all grew up, and they all got married
When the daughters grew up, they all got married, and all the bride price for the son's marriage was made up by the daughters.
Later, my daughter-in-law clamored to buy a house, and I asked my daughters to pay for it.
In fact, the daughters' family economic conditions are not very good, but I forced them to pay for it, and they had no choice but to borrow money for their sons.
I sold my old house to buy a house for my son, and I was homeless
My son didn't have the money to buy a house, and my son asked me to sell the old house, originally, I didn't want to, but my son and daughter-in-law said that the old house was sold, and I could live with them.
So, I sold my old house.
was kicked out of the house by his son and daughter-in-law
Unexpectedly, after living with my son and daughter-in-law for less than a year, they thought I was troublesome and kicked me out of the house.
I went to my six daughters, and they felt that I was too fond of my sons, and that they didn't care about them, and they didn't want to take me to live there.
So, at the age of nearly eighty, I was homeless.
I really regret that I doted on my son too much, making him feel that everyone should be centered on him, and I felt that I was sorry for my daughter, and I didn't dare to make excessive demands on them.
Now, I only ask my daughters to give me a little money every month, and I rent a small dilapidated house outside.
When I see others enjoying their old age, I really regret it, if I could do it all over again, I would definitely not be patriarchal anymore!