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It's winter vacation, and many parents have returned to their hometowns from other places to reunite with their children and prepare for the Chinese New Year. But what is extremely unpleasant is that this year's winter vacation is somehow, the child always has no time to communicate with them when he sees his parents, always seems to be preoccupied, sad face, every morning at 8:00 to get up to do homework, often to 8:00 at night, no rest time, busier than at school, more painful.
I looked at the child's winter vacation homework, Mom, in addition to the first grade teacher every day in the class WeChat group sent a lot of homework, but also bought a thick two, in addition to the Chinese teacher asked the child to write 5 words every day, each word with pinyin to write one, before the start of school to write the whole book of words; The math teacher is not far behind, and posts at least 50 addition and subtraction practice questions in the group every day.
My eldest child has just entered the first year of junior high school this year, and the school has ordered 7 winter vacation homework, each with at least 40 pages and more than 80 faces, and nearly 300 pages and more than 560 pages of written homework throughout the winter vacation, at least an average completion every day!
Not only that, the school arranges some public welfare activities in the WeChat group every day, such as "Youth Learning", such as reading and implementing the documents of the Education Bureau, one day is cold and frost proof, and one day is to participate in what activities of this and that educational institution, every task must be implemented on the same day, and screenshots must be uploaded to the group, full of tricks and endless.
Think about it: our children only have a total of 28 days of winter vacation, how much homework do they have to do in a day?
Teacher, it's winter vacation, so let the child have a relaxing and happy winter vacation. Today's children are tired enough at school, and they don't have any happiness, so why do you want them to be so tired and miserable during the winter vacation? I don't understand, when you were a student, did your teacher treat you like this?
I know your motives are good, and you want your child to consolidate what he has learned and not to forget. But our parents are by their side, we can arrange his studies and activities, please don't forget that this is a holiday.
What is a holiday? A holiday is a holiday, and normal educational and teaching activities are not carried out. Public servants do not engage in official work when they are on vacation, they should have a good rest, what they should eat, what they should do, and they are completely at their own disposal. Why do you have to let the teacher control everything for my child during the holidays, and are you violating the human rights of others in terms of human rights?
Teacher, you don't have to worry about the safety of my child's winter vacation, every parent attaches great importance to the safety of their children, we will be responsible for all the safety of their winter vacation, you don't have to assign us so many tasks about safety learning every day, even if the child has a safety accident during the winter vacation, we will not hold you responsible, because even if I really hold you responsible, you will shirk it, because you will definitely say that the child is at home during the holiday, and the responsibility lies with the supervisor is not me.
Teacher, a holiday is limited, I hope you have a happy holiday, and I hope you give your children a pleasant holiday. No one wants their children's holidays to be so hard and tired. You send so many tasks to the group every day, are you tired? Is it meaningful to do this?
Teacher, my child is not a genius, my child is very mediocre, I don't want him to be a genius, he is not that material, I just want him to become a real person, with a sound physique, a healthy mind, a comprehensive quality, and be able to survive with his own skills in the future society. And it is not that he wants to go to Tsinghua University and Peking University, if all the children in the country go to Tsinghua University and Peking University, then the popularity and quality of Tsinghua University and Peking University can be imagined, which is also unrealistic
I always think about such a question: our child is a very ordinary child, as long as he works hard, how good he learns, we want the child to have a happy childhood, never want him to recall his childhood when he is old, his memory is full of painful memories that the teacher added to them!