#27岁了, it is necessary to take the civil service examination#
Although when it comes to dedication, it is often used to praise a person with persistence. Sometimes, however, untimely attachments tend to kill a person. For example, what I want to talk about in today's article is a typical example.
1. Ms. Li's mentality
Ms. Li is 30 years old. After graduating from a private bachelor's degree, she had no plan for life during her study period, so she was also in a situation where she hit a wall everywhere for the development of society after graduation: Ms. Li did not handle the relationship with her colleagues during her part-time job, so she would definitely be forced to run away with a bucket every time she worked for less than a month. That's it. In the two or three years since graduating from her bachelor's degree, Ms. Li has not had a serious job.
Ms. Li has her own reflection on the wall in the workplace: that is, she has not encountered a job suitable for mixed life. Therefore, if you want to solve this problem, you must have a unit that is suitable for messing around. So Ms. Li began to take the public examination - according to Ms. Li's concept, the system is the most suitable for messing around, and entering the system is equivalent to entering the "upper class", and you can find a person worth hundreds of millions of dollars as a husband - note that Ms. Li's family conditions are very ordinary.
Therefore, based on this mentality, Ms. Li started the road of taking the public examination and bet everything on the examination - although during this period, some people introduced a boyfriend to Ms. Li, but Ms. Li generally refused: either disgusted that the man's family did not have millions of savings, or disgusted that the man did not have a decent job in the system. In short, Ms. Li has not fallen behind any of the problems that older leftover women should have.
2. It's so lofty that there is no point of return
Every year, Ms. Li has to invest 50,000 or 60,000 yuan in this regard, and the source of funding is the subsidy of her parents - his parents are ordinary workers, working on the assembly line, and are willing to support their daughter for the sake of her daughter's future. After all, they also feel that as long as their daughter is admitted to the public office, everything will be fine.
However, Ms. Li's road to the public examination is undoubtedly very difficult. Ms. Li complained that it was due to bad luck, but in fact this is not the case, because due to the problems of education in contemporary society, a person's actual education level and academic qualifications are two different concepts.
For example, although Ms. Li graduated from a private undergraduate, she has not digested many knowledge points in junior high school and high school - for example, Ms. Li finds it difficult to understand many problems that can be solved with high school math problem solving ideas; many idioms and cultural common sense should be known in junior high school, but Ms. Li does not know. Therefore, it is conceivable that Ms. Li's public examination, even if she does not talk about luck, how many chances can she have?
However, Ms. Li did not feel that there was a problem in the slightest, and she did not think that it was a problem. Therefore, in a blink of an eye, Ms. Li is already thirty years old, and success in the public examination is still a distant thing.
In fact, Ms. Li was still a little panicked in her bones. So Ms. Li had a chicken thief idea: that is, to find a boy who does not have too high conditions as a boyfriend, to provide her with the funds for the public examination in the past few years, if the public examination is not successful at the age of 35, then consider getting married, if the public examination is successful, you can choose to change the marriage partner, after all, the public examination himself is a master.
But in other words, these days, how many boys are so stupid that they can't see through Ms. Li's conspiracy? Therefore, Ms. Li's plan still fails.
In fact, many discerning people can see that it is basically impossible for Ms. Li to achieve the possibility of going ashore before the age of 35, so it is so ambitious that Ms. Li's life has been ruined.