We can't expect children to suddenly become adults as soon as they enter society.
Therefore, while accompanying children to grow up, it is more necessary to shape their unique personality and values.
The greatest protection that parents can give their children is to create their own "pre-requisites before leaving society", so that they will not be caught off guard by the colorful environment, complex human nature, and diverse challenges.
This is the "Pre-Life Class for Children".
Give children the right outlook on life and values
For children's diet, saffron focuses on cooking a variety of healthy foods for children and telling them all kinds of details about diet.
For example, the origin, shelf life, ingredients, etc. of packaged food, rather than blindly fighting against the junk food provided by the in-laws to the children, nor staying in this problem without solving it.
For popular science education, saffron gives children a different concept and vision, she allows her two daughters to deeply understand and contact various animals, consult a variety of popular science books, which is the basic level of children's future knowledge structure, is the opening of children's broad thinking and vision.
For children to clean toilets in school, saffron believes that this is a kind of "toilet cleaning power".
Children who can clean the toilet can also do other things well, and children who can clean the toilet seriously will also take life seriously.
Regarding friendship and warmth, and about hospitality etiquette, saffron gives children a correct outlook on life, values, and a strong heart, and encourages children to love the weak and dare to resist the inappropriate words and deeds of most classmates.
Give children the real ability to enjoy life
Saffron's concept of parenting is unique, and it aims to solve the same problems as most parents:
"Train first, then be happy, give your children the real ability to enjoy life! Don't talk to you when you grow up, now, you will become a bridge between children and society!"
It is true that bitterness is not necessarily sweetness first, but if you are unprepared before leaving society, children will inevitably face a colorful environment, complex human nature, and diverse challenges in the future.
Therefore, saffron advocates that love should be loved, but at the same time it should be rigorous.
Because parenting is very slow bit by bit, only the mother herself becomes a hard-working and nourishing woman first, can she nourish her children and give them the necessary for a happy life.
The greatest protection that parents can give their children is to create their own "pre-requisites before going out of society".
She believes that it is easy to love children from the heart, and the greatest protection that parents can give their children is to create their own "pre-requisites before entering society", so that they will not be caught off guard by the challenges of a colorful environment, complex human nature, and diversity.
She also believes that parents cannot give everything for their children.
Only when parents are good, can children be good.
Because when you always keep the best for your children, but don't keep some for yourself, your body or mind will inevitably gradually wear out and wither, lack the nourishment of good things, and people will not be wonderful.
Pay attention to the management of the relationship between husband and wife
In the first few years of family life, Saffron and her husband were busy with work and the daughters who were born in two years, young and vigorous, and in the process of the two fighting, they were confused, confused, and blamed, and they had all kinds of negative emotions.
But she did not neglect her husband's attention because of the birth of the child.
On the contrary, she puts more emphasis on the management of the relationship between husband and wife. Because although the child is his future, the husband is the one who accompanies him through his life.
What's more, creating a harmonious relationship between husband and wife will help to set a good example for children.
Children love pets, but can you let your child have a pet casually, and how to let your child have a pet correctly?
Saffron believes that if a child can spend more than ten years to personally approach and take care of an animal such as a cat or dog, let the child watch the animal every day from young, to youth, to maturity and strength, to aging, and even to decay and death.
This is a very indelible experience of life observation, and the sense of responsibility and perseverance cultivated in this process is not comparable to spending a lot of money to participate in panda summer camps abroad.
Write at the end
Children's absorption and energy are beyond imagination, and in the process of growing and thriving with children, we also become better adults.
Such a beautiful parenting journey is also worth sharing.