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People have never been rich and poor in the absolute sense, only rich and poor in a relative sense, in fact, whether it is urban or rural people, the reasons why they don't like poor relatives to visit the house are almost the same.
First, the pace of life is accelerating
The pace of life in the city is as fast as it is, and it is necessary to squeeze out extra time to entertain poor relatives, often taking care of one or the other, and the life schedule will either be disrupted, or the plan will be changed temporarily, the tighter the time, the easier it is to be inconsiderate, for fear that the poor relatives will think too much.
Netizen message: I have one or two poor relatives who often come from afar, and will attack suddenly, I can't cry or laugh at this, but I have no choice but to entertain again and again, and now I am miserable.
Comments: Hospitality is based on sufficient time, whether it is rich relatives, or poor relatives, you need to make an appointment in advance, so as to be able to be orderly, there is no time, when there is time or the length of time can be negotiated in advance, the way of hospitality is still pre-planned, not pre-planned.
Second, I am afraid that I will be unable to help
Poor relatives will not come to the door easily, but where they come to the door is very likely to need emergency or help the poor, but some poor relatives are not poor, but lazy, the reputation of being lazy has long been famous, whether it is the poor relatives need to help when they are in need, or the poor relatives need to save the poor when they stand by, will break the peaceful life.
Netizen message: I will treat poor relatives in two, and I will help more or less when I need to save poor relatives, but I will do whatever it takes to treat poor relatives who need me to save them, even if I need to save poor relatives who say that I am an iron rooster, I will not hesitate.
Comments: Although it is a poor relative, but a relative, there is still a cost to refuse, at least it will feel embarrassing to meet again, and the negative effect is that it is rumored to recognize money, not recognize people or drill money in the eyes, since you can't control the mouth of poor relatives, it is also unpreventable and uncontrollable.
3. Relatives are in name only
If you don't move around often with poor relatives, you will find it awkward to get along with you when you walk around occasionally, and if your outlook on life, values and worldview are too different, there will be not only speculation, but also different aspirations and incompatible situations.
Netizen message: At first, I was happy to entertain poor relatives, but later I found that not only I would feel cramped, but also poor relatives would feel constrained, chatting could not be let go, and after two or three sentences of greetings, they met each other and looked at each other, the atmosphere was tense and dignified, which could be described as living like a year.
Comments: Since the circles are different, don't be strong, whether relatives can go together is not to distinguish between rich and poor, but to measure whether they can cooperate with like-minded people.
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