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If you don't dare to help, and then you call people "unwilling to save", do you have to completely extinguish people's good thoughts?

author:The years go by, and you can look back

The social phenomenon of the elderly falling down and "not daring to help" has been going on for many years. If "seeing death or not saving" becomes the most rational choice for people, it is the rhythm of completely extinguishing the good thoughts in people's hearts.

I'm not just talking about it, but real cases of saving people are in front of me, guiding people's moral trade-offs.

If you don't dare to help, and then you call people "unwilling to save", do you have to completely extinguish people's good thoughts?

1. A story of sacrificing oneself to save others

This morning, I saw a video. It's about a young man named Qu Yan, who works as a security guard at the Fourth Hospital of Jilin University. One day, Qu Yan, who was on patrol, heard the news over the walkie-talkie that a girl on the fourth floor of the outpatient clinic was about to jump off the building. He heard the wind and quickly rushed to the scene. I saw that the police and firefighters were already deploying rescue work and were preparing to lay a cushion cushion downstairs. Unexpectedly, the cushion air cushion was still laid, and the girl who was bent on death jumped down from the upstairs, and the people at the scene let out a burst of exclamations.

At this critical juncture, I saw Qu Yan rushing up quickly, trying to catch the girl. As a result, the girl's body slammed into Qu Yan's body. In this way, the girl was cushioned and her body was fine. However, Qu Yan suffered multiple fractures in his body, especially his spine was seriously injured, and he could only collapse on the bed and rely on people to take care of him. It is still unknown whether he will be able to be cured by surgery.

The story is very simple, it is a feat of righteousness and courage to save people from danger. However, the follow-up questions make people's hearts cold.

1. Beneficiaries That is, the girl's parents didn't appreciate it at all, and they didn't even go to see Qu Yan. even said wildly: If there is any problem with the girl's body, Qu Yan will be held responsible for the rest of his life. This standard of revenge is indeed chilling.

2. Hospitals. It is the Fourth Hospital of Jilin University. When the reporter contacted the hospital, the hospital replied that Qu Yan was not their official employee, but a member of a third-party security company, and the hospital could not take any responsibility for him.

3. Security company. The reporter contacted the security company and got a reply that Qu Yan had been absent from work for many days, and the company had fired him.

Originally, he was brave and sacrificed his life to save others, but in the end, he ended up lying on a hospital bed, and no one was responsible for his injuries. Qu Yan has always felt that he has a job and is serving the hospital, but in the end, he turned out to be a social outcast that no one loves and no one loves!

In the face of huge medical expenses, Qu Yan's parents were honest ordinary people, and there was no way to solve it. Fortunately, there were many well-wishers who voluntarily donated some money to Qu Yan, and Qu Yan's treatment was carried out. Otherwise, I really don't know what to do.

If you don't dare to help, and then you call people "unwilling to save", do you have to completely extinguish people's good thoughts?

Second, it is the true nature of his life to save people at the expense of himself

In this story, the spiritual realm of the 28-year-old young man Qu Yan is indeed something that should be respected and respected. So many police and firefighters were at the scene, and as a security guard, he didn't necessarily have to rush up to catch the girl at the moment she jumped off the building. According to the minds of ordinary people, he only needs to be like others and exclaim. He didn't even need to exclaim, he just silently let the girl fall, fall to her death, or fall to her death, or fall to her injury, he just expressed sympathy and regret.

If that were the case, it would be impossible for anyone to accuse him, and not to make irresponsible remarks about him. Because he didn't do anything wrong, he didn't do anything immoral. However, he rushed up, desperately.

Please don't think that Qu Yan doesn't know how much impact the girl's whereabouts will be, and I don't know what serious consequences will occur if he picks it up, I don't think he will be so ignorant. As far as he usually hears and sees, he also knows the destructiveness of the impact of falling objects, and he can't bear it at all.

I deduced that at that critical juncture, Qu Yan didn't think about anything, just out of the instinct to save people, out of the subconscious of not wanting the girl to fall to her death, and rushed forward desperately. This is determined by his inner qualities, by the good nature of his heart. This is the nature of his life.

Some people say that saving people also requires a trade-off of one's own abilities. It's a pity that Qu Yan is not such a calculating person. If, considering his own abilities and consequences, Qu Yan would not have acted so desperately. And this kind of reckless righteousness and courage to sacrifice oneself to save others is too valuable.

It's a pity that people nowadays don't know how to protect this quality.

If you don't dare to help, and then you call people "unwilling to save", do you have to completely extinguish people's good thoughts?

(3) Who will protect the rights and interests of those who sacrifice themselves to save others

Qu Yan sacrificed himself to save others and did not receive the gratitude and compensation of the families of the rescued.

I'm not too angry about that. In today's society, there are more and more shameless villains who are selfish and unethical. The world is declining, morality is declining, and it is normal for such family members to appear.

However, as a security guard, a security guard serving the Fourth Hospital of Jilin University, a security guard who was seriously injured and hospitalized in the hospital to save people, the hospital will not be willing to take responsibility for him on the grounds that he is a member of a third-party security company, I always feel a little cold-blooded. Qu Yan was sent by a security company, but after all, it is for your hospital. Something happened, and the hospital pushed 625, which really felt unkind.

The even more incredible attitude of the security company, ignoring the fact that Qu Yan was seriously injured and hospitalized because he sacrificed himself to save others, and the simple sentence "He has been absent from work for many days and has been fired" is even more arrogant, unreasonable, rude and barbaric.

Qu Yan was hospitalized for saving people, even if he was absent from work, he had to be fired? Is this security company run by people? It is so absurd and inhumane!

Did Qu Yan's act of sacrificing himself to save others occur during working hours? He only arrived at the scene of the rescue after receiving a call from the walkie-talkie, is this considered an act of duty? Does an act of duty that causes serious bodily injury be regarded as a work-related injury? Can he be dismissed from office if he is acting bravely or as a security guard?

As of today, I haven't seen how Quyan's problem is solved, but I think that Quyan's problem feels that someone should be responsible for his serious injuries caused by saving people, and Quyan's legitimate rights and interests must be protected.

If you don't dare to help, and then you call people "unwilling to save", do you have to completely extinguish people's good thoughts?

(4) Consciously saving people must not be allowed to become a dangerous path

Any society must cherish kindness and let the legitimate rights and interests of those who do good be protected. If we do not cherish kindness, let the legitimate rights and interests of those who do good not be protected, let ingratitude become a normal manifestation of the peace of mind of the recipients, and let sacrificing oneself to save others become a fool's behavior of the good-hearted people to bring disaster to themselves, this is obviously to completely extinguish the scattered good thoughts in people's hearts.

Another Peng Yu case made the old man who fell to the ground dare not be helped; another Quyan case made people no longer want to act bravely and sacrifice themselves to save others. Think of how terrible this situation is!

The problem of moral decay in our society is already very serious, and we can no longer let people be afraid to do good deeds because of the bad practice of good deeds. If all the good thoughts in people's hearts are extinguished, who can you count on to help people when they are in danger?

If you don't dare to help, and then you call people "unwilling to save", do you have to completely extinguish people's good thoughts?