In social activities such as work, business, and making friends, it is inevitable that there will be different opinions and opinions of each other. How can you convince others to accept your point of view? Here are six ways to do it:
First, follow the law of good inducement. Persuators should have a kind attitude, understand them with reason, and move them with emotion, and gradually guide them to enhance their understanding, distinguish right from wrong, and overcome their shortcomings.
Second, the roundabout outflanking method. If you can't attack it head-on, you can outflank it from the side and back, talk about the past and the present, and start with the topics that the other party is interested in, and use facts and reasons to change their views and promote their transformation.
Third, the method of agitation. Using people's psychological compensatory function, when their self-esteem is self-suppressed, you deliberately use demeaning agitation to liberate their self-esteem and self-confidence from self-suppression.
Fourth, you want to capture the law. According to the characteristics of the persuaded object, the method of more praise, less criticism, and no exposure of shortcomings and less stimulation is adopted to affirm its mainstream, enhance its self-confidence, and eliminate its resistance.
Fifth, take retreat as the way to advance. When the progress of ideological education is blocked, temporarily back down to show respect for the other party, so as to win the favor of the other party and prompt the other party to agree with your opinion.
Sixth, the bottom of the kettle draw method. When there is an argument, a quarrel, and a rage, do not touch this "explosive bag" for the time being, but be silent for a while, and adopt the method of "cold treatment" to pave the way for the subsequent persuasion work.