Emotional bloggers say: Girls must be reserved.
This kind of constructive point of view, many girls do not understand what it means.
As a simple example, if a girl comes home with her boyfriend for the first time, remember not to share a room with him, so that the man's family will think that you have decided to marry them, and they will think that you are so good.
It's best to stay 1-2 nights before leaving, so that it is taken seriously. And some girls don't know how to protect themselves, and in the end they have to marry if they don't marry.
In Guizhou, a couple held a wedding at the groom's house, and the wedding was so shabby that even some of the guests couldn't stand it, but the locals were not surprised.
The "sense of ceremony" is dispensable, and for the boy to return to his in-law's family, this money can be saved.
It happened at a wedding scene in Guizhou, in the middle of the living room, the bride and groom were holding a wedding ceremony.
There is a quilt on the ground between them, and the bride and groom stand in front of the church to get married, according to the customs of the countryside, one worships heaven and earth and two worships the high hall, and it is best to worship husband and wife.
In this way, after the two held the wedding ceremony, the two parties were officially husband and wife.
Seeing such a wedding scene, the word that popped up in everyone's minds was "shabby". The bride and groom did not even wear a wedding dress, the bride wore a down jacket and black pants, and the groom wore jeans and a plain coat, all loungewear.
The bride and groom did not dress up, they were plain makeup, and they were married in this way. Moreover, the wedding scene is not furnished, and it does not seem to have any festive atmosphere.
"Is this still a wedding ceremony? It's more like a formality, and there's no romance at all." Netizens sighed.
I don't know if the bride will envy other girls, wearing a white wedding dress, she is the most beautiful person, and her own wedding is no different from usual.
Mother-in-law: The bride is pregnant, so don't spend this unjust money
The wedding scene should be decorated, and some relatives said it.
"Spend money on the blade, the bride is pregnant, and there will be more places to spend money in the future!" said the groom's family.
Everyone said so, and the relatives didn't want to say anything, so they nodded and said, too.
It can be seen that the bride's belly is bulging, she should be more than 5 months pregnant, and the reason why they are in a hurry to hold the wedding is actually to marry their son and have to do it.
The girl said that she didn't understand, did the bride's family agree to such a wedding?
In fact, in this case, there is actually no better way, as long as the girl is pregnant, the bride price, the wedding, the in-laws say yes, what can you do if you don't agree, make a big fuss, and lose face is your own daughter.
Happiness is not in the eyes of others, but in the feeling of the heart.
Romance is actually for others to see. Many people's weddings are grand and romantic, but in fact they are not happy after marriage.
This is why the master said, "Happiness has nothing to do with a sense of ritual, it has to do with whether two people love each other or not." ”
Of course, it is also related to the family environment, and only when you marry the right person and your family will you be happy.
Getting pregnant first is not necessarily bad for your own lifestyle. In life, the person you like, I have the right to make the first choice, and others and parents have no right to interfere.
The girl said, don't fool yourself.
The wedding is reluctant to decorate, the bride and groom are reluctant to put on makeup, dress themselves up beautifully, and expect the in-laws to be generous.
Girls still have to be realistic, materialistic, families that are not wealthy, they will definitely have to suffer a lot when they get married, there is nothing to discuss.
The bride may not have seen much of the world, but if she has worked in a big city for a few years, she will not feel that the wedding is not important.
If you get married once in your life, what would you think if your daughter had a wedding like this?