Keigo Higashino said in "Malice": "You never know how much malice those people who seem to be close to you in your life will be behind your back. ”
一个自以为聪明绝顶的女人，如果过于喜欢执念于某些人和事物时。
最后，亦会被其所伤，更不能持久下去。
In the rolling red dust, people's hearts often cannot withstand the impermanence and cruel reality.
In the ordinary and troubled days, the friends who used to drink happily and the lovers who were in love with each other.
最终都逃不过，某些现实原因的不同需求。
而慢慢成为，人走茶凉后的天涯路人。
In the complicated world, the only person who can be trusted is often himself.
Many times, any relationship between intimacy and estrangement changes with the change of interests.
The weakness and essence of human nature are actually to bully the weak.
There is a sentence in "Zuo Biography" that says: "I have no deceit, and I have no worries." ”
In the complicated world, many laypeople are dazzled by the lights and wine, and even their minds are disturbed because of this.
In the process of interacting with others, there are scheming and means of deception and use.
Therefore, it will also make some honest women who are consistent on the outside.
miscalculated people's hearts for the sake of love, and wasted youth and money.
A woman who lives a sufficiently sober and rational woman understands in her heart.
The world is impermanent, and people's hearts are unpredictable and changeable.
Whenever you get along with people, don't talk to people in the same circle with a person.
No matter how reliable you think he is, don't tell the wind the secrets in your heart.
Because, if you are not careful, the wind will blow all over the forest.
In the midst of people coming and going, a woman who likes to overestimate others when she hits a wall.
真正吃了生活的苦头之后，才明白人心险恶，也是俗世凡尘的人间常态。
In "Mencius", it is said: "If you can't do something, you should ask for yourself." ”
一个普通的女人，如果愚昧无知，且一厢情愿的付出，痴心妄想的期待着某些回报。
到头来，终究，会被无情地现实狠狠地教训了一顿。
even, slapping his face disappoints his sincerity.
一个女人的执念，最怕的是 ，自己既做不好自己，又高估了自己在别人心中的位置。
A woman who has gone through ups and downs knows it well.
The vicissitudes of the world, waiting for idle changes but the hearts of the people, but the people of the people are changeable.
Hate in the world for no reason is the greatest evil of human nature.
Many times, the real villains I meet are not as poisonous as fake good people.
What poison in the world can hurt you more than pseudo-girlfriends and pseudo-brothers who are under the banner of being good for you.
一个真正心静，而头脑清醒的女人，遇事从不着急。
She knows that everything has a beginning and an end, slowing down the pace of her life.
先看清人或事物的本质，合理判断，再谋略对策。
And in this process, it is also an opportunity to improve and change yourself.
Urgent and difficult results, slow things will be rounded.
无论遭遇什么样的挫折，给自己一点时间，想通理顺。
这风尘仆仆的人世间，只有心平气和的做好自己，静观人情的冷暖沉浮。
Calm and tenacious temper yourself, believe in yourself.
People's hearts are like faces, they are fickle, and there is no need to be too persistent.
在日出日落的路上，不要在别人莫测的想法中耗费心力。
于平平静静的日子里，要在自己可控的世界里，默默练就一身定力。
Be silent, unhurried, and be yourself.
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