The heat is unbearable, and the trip is physically demanding
In the sweltering heat of Saudi Arabia at noon, a group of tired Chinese tourists are mechanically moving in front of an ancient castle. They are like dried wheat stalks, crumbling under the scorching sun.
This is already the tenth attraction of this morning. Since they set off from the hotel at 5 o'clock in the morning, except for a hasty meal at noon, they have been in a state of running, and their footsteps have never stopped.
At this time, the sun was hanging above their heads, and the heat wave swept in, making people smoke.
"It's so hot... Why did the sun suddenly jump overhead?" A middle-aged woman, about 50 meters away, sits wearily on a stone bench, wiping the beads of sweat with a handkerchief.
Her name is Qin Hailu, and she is an elderly member of the tour. The long journey had consumed most of her physical strength. At this moment, she only felt that she didn't even bother to move a finger.
"Sister, take a break, I see you're so hot that your face is red. A few young group members next to him persuaded with concern. Indeed, Qin Hailu's face was flushed at this time, and even her ears seemed to be about to burst into heat.
The others were already standing or sitting, exhausted, and looked like they were going to collapse in the next second. This is all due to the fact that the itinerary arranged by their tour guide Wang Anyu is too intensive.
Running from morning to night, the speed of physical exertion greatly exceeds the replenishment.
Qin Hailu was angry, and the tour guide blamed himself
"I'm so fed up! It's so irresponsible!" On the bus back to the hotel, Qin Hailu finally couldn't bear it anymore, she stood up suddenly, and scolded the tour guide Wang Anyu with cold eyebrows.
Hearing this sudden burst of reproach, Wang Anyu only felt that his body was agitated. He knew that his schedule for the day was indeed too full, and he did not take into account the feelings of his teammates at all.
At this moment, when Qin Hailu said this, a strong sense of shame and self-blame suddenly rose in his heart.
"I'm sorry... I... I didn't know it would be ... He stammered in response, his face embarrassed and overwhelmed.
"Don't you know? So this is the first time you've been a tour guide? Can't you see how tired we are?" Qin Hailu didn't intend to spare him, and his tone was full of resentment.
She worked so hard today, and she was arranged by the tour guide to work hard like an animal, which was really difficult to settle.
Wang Anyu was already unstable on his feet under her repeated reprimands, and just wanted to find a hole to get into. The already tired body was crying out for pain in every bone and muscle at the moment, and he only felt that everything was burning inside.
This mental and physical torture undoubtedly magnified his fatigue exponentially, and made him breathless under great pressure.
Di Lieba is empathetic and inspiring
"Sister, I understand your feelings, we are indeed very tired. Just as Qin Hailu was angrily scolding the tour guide, a young woman in a light blue dress put her hand on her shoulder.
Her expression was full of understanding and comfort, and there was a little helplessness in that warmth. Her name is Di Lieba, and she is one of the few young members of the tour.
"These children also have good intentions, so don't embarrass them. Di Lieba said softly. She understood Qin Hailu's mood at this time, because she herself was also tired.
But she did not join the ranks of blaming the tour guides, but took the initiative to step forward to guide and successfully resolved the "bus crisis".
In the next few days, Hu Xianxu suddenly felt unwell and had a high fever. Seeing that her companion was sick, Di Lieba once again showed her true character as a heroine. She gets up early every day to buy hot coffee and freshly baked breakfast for everyone, and then goes to the pharmacy to buy all kinds of cold and fever medicines, and takes care of Hu Xianxu carefully.
She inquired about her condition all the time, listened patiently, and solved problems for the uncomfortable Hu Xianxu.
Di Lieba's series of warm and considerate actions made the other members of the group all look at her with admiration and admiration. When she was younger, she could have rested for herself, but she selflessly cared about the needs of others; She could have blamed the guide for being inconsiderate, but she endured all the grievances.
In the difficulties of the journey, she not only did not increase anyone's burden, but became the anchor of the team.
Educating wives should emulate the emotional value of Di Lieba
Through this contact with Di Lieba and Qin Hailu, I deeply realized the important impact of women's unique emotional values on others and the whole family. This value is actually a woman's innate innate acuity in communicating emotionally and observing the mental state of others.
In my outlook on life, whether a family can be happy or not depends largely on the personality and way of doing things of the hostess. If the wife has a bad temper and is angry at every turn, the husband and children will definitely be more nervous and exhausted.
In the long run, the accumulation of negative emotions can turn family life into a painful burden.
On the contrary, if the wife can always care about the emotions of her family like Di Lieba, and take the initiative to understand and take care of them, then the husband and children will feel the warmth and motivation from the depths of their hearts.
This kind of well-being, which is considered and understood, can never be replaced by material conditions.
Therefore, I think that every nurturing wife who wants to live a happy life should learn from women like Di Lieba. Incorporate her warm, considerate and empathetic emotional values into your words and deeds, and practice them consistently in your life.
As long as all wives can look up to her, when this kind of warm current spreads to thousands of households, I believe that our society will become warmer and every family will be more sunny.
This emotional power of caring for family and empathy for others is the unique charm of women. It is also a virtue that every nurturing wife should carry forward. I sincerely hope that my future partner can be as considerate and gentle as Di Lieba.