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Concentration is a child's most valuable resource, and a child without concentration will find that his learning ability, social communication ability, and emotional ability will be insufficient.
The latest scientific research has shown that there is not much difference in the intelligence level of most people's brains, and the ability to determine a certain aspect of a child's academic performance depends largely on the child's concentration!
When babies are born, they all have their own concentration, but the longer they grow, the gap in concentration will slowly widen.
Especially after the age of one or two, many babies can't even sustain their attention for two minutes. If this is the case for the baby, it is recommended that you must start paying attention, because a baby with poor concentration is a potential poor child.
Be sure to pay attention to these 5 behaviors that disrupt your baby's concentration!
First: When the baby plays with toys, "shh
"Thirsty or not, good baby"
"Give, freshly washed strawberries, eat one and then play"
"Tell me when you're hungry, I'll make something for you"
"Let me see if it's time to change diapers"
Children enter the state, seriously playing with toys, some parents will ask if they are thirsty, and they will ask if they are hungry, anyway, they have to talk to their children, you think you are caring about your children, in fact, you are disturbing your children.
Correct approach: When the child is playing with toys alone, unless he invites you to join, don't disturb him, let alone "shh
Second: baby toys "stall"
Toys are the same as stalls, how many are placed, shop everywhere, want to let the baby play casually, parents save trouble, don't have to keep taking toys, but I don't know which child does not know which to play, the child will touch the toy, gnaw the toy, directly distract the baby's concentration!
Correct approach: only give the baby a toy at a time, let the baby concentrate on his own research, prepare a storage basket, if the baby does not want to play, guide him to put the toys in the basket, clean up by himself, and cultivate the child's storage consciousness from an early age!
Third: "scrape the mouth and feed water" when the baby eats
When the baby eats, the corners of the face and mouth are rice, scrape his mouth with a spoon, wipe his mouth at once, and are afraid that the baby will choke or be thirsty, and then let the baby drink saliva while while holding the bottle, so that the baby will not eat for a while, and the parents will chase and feed. Not only is the focus not on eating, but it can also be dangerous.
Correct approach: Let the baby sit on his dining chair, feed while letting him study his own utensils, and slowly let him learn to eat independently!
Fourth: Babies "point fingers" when playing with toys
"Baby, look at what this is, it's so fun"
"You're not right, come, look at me!"
"Come and see if I'm high, look at it!"
When the baby is playing with toys, adults are pointing fingers and interfering with her thoughts, making her doubt herself, lose confidence, and finally give up.
Correct approach: When the baby is playing alone, don't disturb her, control her mouth and hands, and shouldn't force her to guide her, whether she is playing right or not, she should be allowed to use her imagination!
Fifth: "people are absent-minded" when playing with children
If you don't pay attention when playing, and swipe your phone while playing, your baby is very sensitive, and she will drop her toys to find you.
Correct approach: put down the mobile phone and turn off the TV, accompany the child with high quality, teach the baby to draw, accompany the baby to read picture books, cultivate the baby's reading habits, and promote the parent-child relationship!
Many children can't concentrate on listening to lectures after school, have many small movements, and always do homework, and can't focus, in fact, children have no problems, often parents do one thing wrong, and children are naturally focused.
Don't underestimate your child's concentration when playing with toys, toy time is the key to developing concentration. If a child never focused on playing with toys when he was young, he will not be able to learn in the future.
You ask him to focus, and he does. This process is the process of learning, and it is also the process of concentration formation!
There are two main points to protect your child's concentration:
First: Be less intrusive
When there are too many external distractions and too many requirements, it is easy for children to do nothing well. Children's learning efficiency, concentration, initiative, and deep thinking ability are also harmed.
Second: Concentrate on companionship
When children want to rely on us and interact with us, all we have to do is play with them. It doesn't matter if it's just some games that seem boring and useless, because concentration is concentration, and there is no distinction between useful and useless!
Concentration, you must start from a young age!
Be sure to do it, less interruption, more company!
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