There is a saying in "The Story of Wanghu Pavilion": "People rely on clothes and horses to rely on saddles, and Buddhas rely on gold and trees rely on bark." ”
Food, clothing, shelter and behavior are related to all aspects of a person's life, and the clothes we wear are the most important part of them.
Dressing appropriately can not only bring out your temperament and show your charm, but also make a great first impression.
In today's world of personal image, dressing should not be casual, in addition to considering one's own preferences, but also taking into account the time, occasion and other people's feelings.
Picking the wrong clothes and choosing the wrong clothes will not only make you feel uncomfortable, but also bring trouble to yourself and others.
As the saying goes: "People wear four clothes, and everything is not appropriate." ”
Don't wear these 4 kinds of clothes, there is no benefit, throw them away, don't be reluctant.
01
Sloppy dirty clothes
Many people often wear clothes that have not been washed for days, even if they are covered with dirt and filth.
They don't seem to care about their self-image at all, and when someone kindly reminds them, they will retort with words.
It is true that a person's true beauty lies on the inside, not just on the surface, but that does not mean that dirty mess is equated with inner beauty.
There is a saying in the Yuan Dynasty miscellaneous drama "Uncle Fan": "Respect Luo Yi first and then people, first respect the skin and then the soul." ”
The most intuitive first impression a person gives to others is his appearance, and if his appearance is not up to par, then the evaluation is naturally not high.
After all, no one is obligated to look beyond your sloppy appearance to discover what you call good.
When you show off your sloppy and dirty clothes, most people will avoid you, and even be like a rat crossing the street, everyone shouts and beats you.
In this day and age, as long as you are not poor to a certain extent, it is not difficult to clean up and tidy yourself.
On the contrary, if it is unkempt and unkempt all day long, it can only mean that the person is either too lazy or has no one in his sights.
Most of these people don't have much connotative character, and they have no other use than to arouse the disgust and disgust of others.
Moreover, tattered clothes may also affect personal health, frequent change and washing, and maintain a clean appearance, is the respect for yourself and others.
02
Expensive clothes
Nowadays, when the material conditions are extremely abundant, the types and designs of clothes have been fully developed and improved compared with before.
Silk silk is no longer the exclusive property of the wealthy, and ordinary people can also afford to buy comfortable and durable good-looking clothes.
But there are always some people who like to wear expensive and gorgeous clothes to set off their uniqueness in order to show off their special status.
If it really has such capital and conditions, such a show-off is understandable, after all, it is someone else's ability and ability.
But if you don't have such abundant financial resources, it is a kind of stupidity to be overflowing with vanity, slap your swollen face and become fat, and buy some luxurious clothes that do not match your own conditions.
Even if you can get the envy of others for a short time, you can't change your status quo and make a class leap.
It's like Charlotte's Troubles in the movie Charlotte, who rented a very expensive coat in order to attend a classmate's wedding.
Just to be able to have more face in front of his classmates, but in a few words, his true nature was exposed, and it became even more embarrassing.
The external beauty can never cover the inner embarrassment, nor can it improve one's own level, but will only allow oneself to fall into a deeper trap.
True wealth is the breadth of knowledge and pattern, the abundance of the soul, not just the value of the garment draped over the body.
03
Strange costumes
The way people walk is always not much different, but the footprints they leave behind are very different.
People look similar at first glance, but differences in personality and preferences can lead to diametrically opposed choices, and the same is true for dressing.
Some people like to follow the trend of the masses, and some people like to be mavericks, which all belong to the category of freedom and are beyond reproach.
But there is also a group of people who always appear on inappropriate occasions in strange costumes, either for the sake of being funny and eye-catching, or for sensationalism.
For example, when you are supposed to wear formal attire, someone wearing pajamas or funny clothes will make others feel rude.
But if you go to a party or an anime exhibition, no one will feel rude even if you dress up in a strange way, but rather find it funny.
It's okay to wear what you like, and it's okay to stick to your individuality, but it's also important to take into account the feelings of others.
There is no conflict between the freedom to choose what kind of clothes to choose, and the freedom to allow others to judge oneself is also a freedom.
Confucius once said, "A gentleman does not stand under a dangerous wall." ”
If you don't want others to judge you and criticize you, then restrain yourself moderately, and don't leave others with a handle for gossip.
04
Other people's old clothes
In the past, when the material conditions were not very developed, in order to save the cost of living, many old things would be reused.
One of the most common is clothing, especially in families with many siblings, many of whom wear old clothes that have been replaced by their siblings.
In the past, this was undoubtedly the best interpretation of the virtue of frugality, but with the development of the times, thrift has also taken on new ideas.
If your own conditions are acceptable, you don't have to wear other people's leftover clothes, and don't covet these trivial gains.
Always wearing someone else's old clothes, whether from the external senses or from the inner feelings, is not a good thing.
The reason why people give away old clothes to others is simply because the clothes are too old, or because they think that the recipient is poor.
It's not to the point where you can't afford to buy clothes, and there's no need to accept handouts from others.
In today's society, as long as you are willing to put in the effort, although the wealth may be a little far away, there is no problem in achieving food and clothing.
You can't be arrogant, but you must be arrogant, and wearing other people's old clothes is undoubtedly a humiliation of image and confidence.
If you want to really change your current situation, you can't rely on the charity of others, but also fight for your own strength and support your family.
Never look down on yourself, but be full of hope for the future, so that you can make great progress in continuous progress.
Mark Twain once said, "The effort on the image will give you a stroke of God's knowledge, qualifications, and upbringing." ”
A good personal image is an amplifier of your personal ability.
Only by affirming your appearance can others discover the inner and the right to be hidden beneath your appearance.
A person's image is closely related to his destiny and complements each other, and a good appearance can both reflect strength and attract good luck.
People with a generous and confident appearance will naturally have good luck uninvited, like a shadow, and often accompany them.