The truth of human nature: You can't be too easy-going when dealing with low-level people!
When you always feel that it is difficult to get it, it is the beginning of your becoming stronger, 90% of people are bullied, all because of this, that is, you are too good at talking, and if you look closely, you will find that both men and women, those who are very strong have a common character, that is, there is a feeling of "difficult to be handled".
Feature 1: It's hard to be tackled, not to say that it's messing around and deliberately making things difficult for others, but it makes people have a feeling that they can't figure it out, no matter what they see, what they hear, or what happens, they can be neither humble nor arrogant, so others don't know what you think in your heart.
Characteristic 2, is to compare the "self", this trait is especially obvious in the strong and even the so-called "bad people", do you know why the bad people live better than the good people? Because the bad people have no empathy, the bad people only take care of themselves, but the good people always take care of this, take care of that, and take into account the feelings of others too much, which means to tolerate and endure a lot, and there are more psychological constraints, can people be free of problems? Worrying too much about others, to a certain extent, means wronging yourself, resulting in internal friction, and people with a lot of internal friction cannot do their own things well, and it is impossible to become a strong person, because if you take into account the feelings of others too much, you will not be able to fight for your own interests.
Characteristic 3: People with hard hearts and soft minds can't do too much, and people with too soft hearts are easy to forgive others.
