The marriage system is about to collapse, and both men and women feel that they are the losers!
Some people say that there must be more women who do not want to get married, and there are more parties who do not want to get married, which means that there are many victims.
Men feel that there were many women who didn't want to get married before, but 2020 was a turning point. After the pandemic, unemployment has increased, household income has decreased, divorce rates have increased, and marriage rates have decreased. Let men suddenly see the essence of women, which is material. After 2023, the number of men who don't want to get married is on the rise!
Judging from the marriage agencies in 2023, there are more men or more women, and it is obvious that there are more women, which will crowd the marriage agencies! Therefore, when men begin to wake up, the marriage system is facing disintegration and collapse.
I watched a video visit to a leftover man in Shanghai before. This Shanghai man is 40 years old, and when he was in his 30s, he already had millions of dollars by starting a business. At that time, I had a good girlfriend who was getting married.
After the epidemic, the entrepreneurial losses were serious, the assets shrank, and the girlfriend proposed to break up, unwilling to enter the marriage hall.
In 2023, I found another girlfriend, and finally broke up. The reporter asked, why did they all break up in the end. He said he was hurt by two relationships. The reporter asked, do you have a new girlfriend now? He said, yes, it all depends on money, that is, money, money, money. So he saw through it and won't get married in the future.
The bigger the city, the more self-conscious people are. This Shanghai man is just a microcosm, and it also reflects the attitude of men towards marriage now.
The year 2020 is the dividing line, there was love before, and there will only be money in the future!
Besides, the current marriage system is actually not friendly to both men and women!
The provisions on the inheritance of illegitimate children have a greater impact on the original spouse. Of course, women also have counterattacks, that is, there are more and more women who are juniors.
Because people are profit-oriented, which one is beneficial, she will do which, the junior is more advantageous than the original, she will give up morality, give up three from four virtues.
Now this trend, with the rise of women's status, is to put it bluntly, moving closer to the West. Not necessarily a good thing!
The moral bottom line of men and women is getting lower and lower!
If the marriage system is not changed, the marriage rate will not be high.
There is no so-called equality in the whole world, there is no equality between men, there can be no equality between classes, and now it is a joke to demand equality between men and women!
It can be relatively equal, but one must be superior to the other.
The bottom line of morality has been lowered again and again, and now they are laughing at the poor and not at prostitutes; isn't this kind of thinking a manifestation of the supremacy of money and moral corruption? Filial piety is almost gone!
I believe that when the Chinese reach a certain stage, they will self-reflect!
It is necessary for the Marriage Law to regulate morality and responsibility, but now there are many provisions in the Marriage Law that are problematic.
Marriage in China is going in the wrong direction. Blindly following the West, China has entered the era of marriage capital.
However, China's greatness and 5,000-year-old inheritance depend precisely on the fact that in every era and every moment of crisis, there are one or two, groups and groups of selfless dedication people, united to defend it. This is the reason why our country has been able to exist forever, from four or five repeated troughs, and then to the top again.
Everyone should have a spirit of dedication, not for the sake of profit, and no one is willing to suffer!
I often see people say that there is nothing wrong with reality, but that reality is wrong. Everyone is realistic, what will be the result?
Isn't it self-interest to think that those who are losing money when they get married are still fighting among themselves? Some people are going to die happily, and we are still fighting among ourselves!
Who spoiled it all!
Call for a return to the essence, trust each other, and not be held hostage by money!
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