Why do many people advise poor people not to have children?
Some people think that poor people just want to pass on their ancestors and raise children to prevent old age. If you don't mix well, you want to rely on your children to turn over, even if you can't turn over, you can rely on your children to support the elderly.
Especially some patriarchal families, since childhood, they feel that their daughters are losing money. Raise your daughter as a pig, raise it, and fatten it up and sell it for a good price.
In many rural areas, the patriarchal person is the mother. Mothers are more patriarchal than fathers. When the daughter grows up, she gets married, and if she is better off than her son, the mother will be jealous and indignant.
I saw all of the above on the Internet, and in Shanghai, in the countryside of the seventies and eighties, I had never heard of these things.
How do you define the poor?
It has been said that the greatest wealth of the rich is the poor.
There are more and more extreme remarks on the Internet, and they even say that the parents of the poor are worthless! They also teach their children to cut off their relatives and stay away from their poor parents!
The idea that the poor are not advised to have children?
Because the common people feel that the children born in poverty are still poor, and knowledge cannot change their fate.
Because the common people feel that there are too many children born in poverty, who have died in vain, and they cannot redress their grievances.
Studying, buying a house, working, getting married, and paying for medical care all cost money, and the poor cannot afford it.
These are the reasons for not having children, and they are also the experiences of people who advocate not having children on the Internet.
To put it simply, I feel that society is unfair.
However, the real poor will not think so much about having children. The real poor don't have a lot of money to raise their children. The real poor have children for the sake of inheritance. The real poor are not so utilitarian. The people who say these things now are not the poor.
Whether to have children or not cannot be decided by whether you are poor or not!
If there is a patriarchal family, a family that beats and scolds children from an early age, it is not recommended to have children.
If there is a serious genetic disease, such as seeing the parents on the Internet as birdmen, this kind of birth should not be born.
Other reasons are not recommended to have children, or too pessimistic about society!
Some people choose not to have children to fight against social injustice, and some people choose to have more children to change social injustice.
Whether to have children or not, everyone chooses according to their own conditions, don't blindly follow the trend!
Thirty years in the east of the river, thirty years in the west of the river. The phenomenon of not having children may be a point in the long river of history!
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