I am Aunt Wang, 52 years old, I have been retired for two years, and my pension is now 2,200 yuan, which is barely enough for one person to maintain a living.
I divorced my ex-husband 20 years ago, because my ex-husband had an affair, my son was only seven years old at that time, and he lived with me.
I worked as a conductor at a long-distance bus station, and my salary was not high, and I was able to raise my son with one person's income, and my life was tight.
When I was 36 years old, I met a man I liked, he had a family, I couldn't help but get along with him, I liked him, and he was able to help me financially.
He was a middle-level cadre of our company, he was 52 years old at the time, he liked my young beauty, I liked his maturity and stability, he cared about me, I felt that he was my backer in life, so that I had a sense of security and dependence.
Since then, my life is no longer lonely, I no longer have low self-esteem, my life is no longer stretched, and my son's tuition fee has also been settled.
We had a relationship for eight years, until he retired and I decided not to associate with him anymore because he couldn't give me a marriage.
After I finished talking to him, he was very unhappy, thinking that I had taken advantage of him all these years, used his power to bring me convenience at work, and used his money to help me financially, and now that he is retired, he will not bring me any benefit, so he kicked him.
I don't deny that he has been good to me and my family all these years, but to say that I am completely for his rights and money, I don't recognize it, if I don't like him, I won't be with him for so many years.
No matter what he said or how he looked at what was going on between us, our relationship was over.
At this time, my son was already in college, my salary was much higher than before, and my family's economic conditions had greatly improved compared to before.
After that, I never had the idea of remarrying, I feel that it is good to live alone, my son is not at home, I am not hungry alone, I am unrestrained, and my life is very nourishing.
After graduating from university, my son and I applied for a job in a state-owned enterprise, and my son and I were very happy.
I used my savings over the years to make a down payment on my son's house, and my son and I repaid the loan together.
I retired at the age of 50, and my pension was only 2,200 yuan, which was too small and made me very anxious.
I often can't sleep, thinking about the more than 2,000 pensions, I have to share part of the mortgage for my son, and I have to marry my son's daughter-in-law, I am very anxious.
At this time, I had the idea of finding a wife, and then I told my girlfriend about this idea and asked her to help me with Zhang Luo.
In less than a year, I have seen no less than ten people, either I didn't like each other, or the other party didn't like me.
I focus on the man's income, and if the pension is high, other conditions can be lowered.
The reason why the man disagrees with me is basically because I have an unmarried son, and the financial burden is heavy, so I am discouraged.
Just when I lost confidence in remarriage, my best friend introduced me to an old man who retired from a public institution, saying that the old man's pension was more than 8,000, that is, he was older, I asked how old he was, she said 65 years old, I heard it, this age is also too big, 13 years older than me.
I was a little hesitant, I felt that the old man was too old, but after thinking about it, the old man's pension was more than 8,000, if he was young, why would people look for me, an old woman in her 50s, I told my best friend and promised to meet.
I met the old man, and I obviously felt that the old man was very satisfied with me, and it is not an exaggeration to say that although I am 52 years old, I am not like it at all, not only young, but also beautiful and temperamental.
I just hold it, lukewarm to him, and the more I do this, the more anxious he becomes.
After meeting a few times, he asked me to express my position to see if I could confirm the relationship, and if it was okay, let me move to his house, he said that his house was 140 square meters, spacious and bright.
I also made it clear, I moved to live in your house, how to share the living expenses?
He said that every month he gave me 2,000 yuan for living expenses, and gave me an additional 1,000 yuan for pocket money.
As soon as I heard it, this old man was too picky, with a pension of more than 8,000 yuan, he took out 3,000 yuan and saved more than 5,000 yuan, which is too good at settling accounts.
I said, you see if this will work, you give me the salary card, I keep an account of every expenditure, I am a very good person, you believe me......
Before I finished speaking, the old man got up from his seat and handed you the salary card, it is absolutely not okay, you look very good as a woman, but you are too greedy to look at yourself in the mirror......
When I heard it, I was also angry, you just want to do beautiful things, I want you to be old? I want you to lack a nanny? I also have 1,000 yuan of pocket money, what about the one who asks for food? Look in the mirror, I am also a beauty...... As a result, it was unpleasant.
I also figured it out, what kind of man can't be trusted, don't mention money or anything, just say goodbye to money, I've survived the most difficult period, I'm only 52 years old, and I can work for a few more years, work to earn money to help my son, and when I reach the age of 60, I can enjoy my old age, and it's wrong to find an old man to partner with.