Recently, young writer Jiang Fangzhou released a video, saying that "women should not be silent", which caused heated discussions among netizens. In the video, Jiang Fangzhou used the book "To the Lighthouse" to tell his views.
She said that when all kinds of media or videos show the life of husband and wife, it is always women chattering and husbands bowing their heads and being silent. And according to her observations and investigations, in reality, the opposite is true, most of the women are silent, and the men are gushing.
In addition, she said that in some classrooms that train successful women, women are often taught to "learn to shut up". She believes that although women are silent most of the time, these unspoken words will not disappear, and there will be a flash of consciousness in women's minds, and modern women should use their consciousness to light the "lighthouse" and should not be silent anymore.
Regarding Jiang Fangzhou's views, netizens expressed their positions one after another, and some netizens did not agree with her remarks, because her so-called views were too one-sided, and she was suspected of agitation and instigation.
Some netizens also think that Jiang Fangzhou is reasonable, and women should be respected.
However, more netizens are still more interested in Jiang Fangzhou's position, because the position issue will lead to whether personal views are biased and other purposes.
In fact, in married life, it is not certain who is silent and who is dominant between husband and wife, it is related to the character of both parties, the husband and wife complement each other's personalities, there is always a party who likes to be silent, some are wives, and some are husbands.
But this does not mean that the silent party must be wronged, every family situation is different, and it is inappropriate to blindly encourage women to stop being silent.