How pathetic is it for children who are spoiled by ordinary families? They have always demanded that they do not know how to be grateful, and some have threatened their parents with their own lives, and their purpose is to control their parents and satisfy their constant needs! Some are so selfish that they gnaw at old age all their lives, and when they are not satisfied, they make a big fuss!
A seventy-year-old man works as a cleaner and goes out early and returns late to feed his drunkard son!
Recently, a netizen posted a video on social platforms, saying that there is an elderly man in his 70s who earns more than 1,000 yuan a month by cleaning others, and he has to support her 40-year-old alcoholic son who goes out early and returns late, and asks rhetorically: What is this life for?
In the video, the man in his forties looks like he is drunk after drinking, and he keeps rubbing against the old man, and even raises his fist to hammer the old man, constantly pushing and shouting at the old man, and the old man raises the chopsticks in his hand many times, but he can't bear to hit the man, pity the parents of the world!
The man wearing glasses next to him suspected that the old man's eldest son had been trying to dissuade him, but he couldn't persuade the two of them! Maybe it was because he was used to this kind of situation, or maybe he was numb to the old man's doting on the other son, and he never got up and pushed the beating man out.
The poor man must have something to hate, the old man is over 70 years old, how long can he earn money to take care of his son? Since he was a child, he has been doting on the man in his 40s and has nothing to do, and he has to reach out and ask his old mother in his 70s for money, and he drinks and drinks every day, which woman is willing to follow him?
A 70-year-old mother who dotes on her children and is a lazy 40-year-old alcoholic son, this sentence is ridiculous! This mother is a failure, he raised a good-for-nothing son, but in a sense she is successful, because only in this way can his child never escape from the palm of her hand!
All discipline must be completed around the age of 6, and the so-called three-year-old looks young, and six-year-old looks old. When I was young, I couldn't control it at all when I grew up, but discipline is not to control the child, but to tell him how to do things and encourage the child to create by himself! There is nothing wrong with pampering the child, there is nothing unspoiled by his own child, but everything has a degree, once it is excessive, all the good will move in a bad direction, so take back those excessive favors in time, and don't train the child to become a ruthless gnawing old machine, which will only make the child and himself regret!