Fifty unspoken rules of society that see through human nature
1. When the monthly income is less than 20,000 or 30,000 yuan, pragmatism is more important than cognition, that is, real things such as technology and skills. When the monthly income is more than 20,000 or 30,000 yuan, cognition is more important than pragmatism, that is, marketing and packaging.
2. How can I behave steadily and reliably? The most direct and effective appearance aspect: fitness. The most straightforward and effective aspect of conversation: shut up.
3. When your enemies taunt you all day long, it just means that you are doing well at the moment, don't give up easily.
4. Curiosity kills cats. Don't be curious about other people's experiences, even if you know it's not good for you, sometimes the more you know, it's not necessarily a good thing, and you may lose something you shouldn't have lost because of curiosity.
5. The more things are hated by one group of people, the more they are often liked by another group of people.
The more people who hate you, the more people love you.
A person who is not scolded by anyone, and a person who is not famous.
The purpose of your efforts is to make the people who love you love you more, and as for those who don't love you, they can't be sent away.
6. Get along with people from different walks of life, and the way must be different. When dealing with people at the bottom, don't be easy-going, the more easy-going you are, the easier it is to overturn, and in the end you can't control it. The bottom person is highly animalistic and suitable for the law of the jungle, if you talk well, he will bite you sooner or later, because he thinks that being kind and talking well means weak;
The strong will be high and will not give him a good face all the time. The rules must be set in advance, so that he knows that you are not easy to deal with.
With the middle and upper level of people, you can be soft and rigid, with higher emotional intelligence, appear shrewd and will pretend to be X; for high-level people, you must have the shining points of the three views, you must have real materials, and you are neither humble nor arrogant.
7. Small people, small investments, big people, big investments. Always look at the person who cooks, and always determine the amount of resources invested according to the size of the return. A bottle of mineral water sells you for 10,000 yuan, do you buy it? Only a fool buys it! Since you understand this truth, why do you waste your life on those garbage flows?
8. Reformat your cognition. After so many decades, I haven't mixed up with my personal dog, which means that the original routine will not work, and we have to emancipate our minds.
9. In the face of life and death, everything else is trivial. Don't let the day and night work crush your body, take care of yourself more than anything else
10. Since ancient times, affection has not been retained, and it has always been a routine to win people's hearts.
What is a routine? It is to conform to the human nature of the other party.
Going along with other people's humanity and doing it against one's own humanity is called a routine.
Design a game based on someone else's humanity and let them run after you with money.
11. The real stupid person does not need to deliberately express himself, he will give people a feeling of not knowing how to be powerful; the real fool always likes to pretend to be smart, and it is easy to expose the fact that he is really stupid. Therefore, always maintaining self-humility is the last word, when you are awesome, there are always people who are more awesome than you, but when you are not awesome, know that not pretending to be awesome is really awesome.
12. In society, people must not only talk about rules, but also not about rules. If you don't talk about the rules of everything, you will definitely fail, and if you talk about the rules of everything, it is difficult to achieve anything.
13. Read, think, promote, make money, dig deep into channels, optimize projects, repeatedly adjust, use limited resources to do the most valuable things, and everything is in an orderly manner.
14. Don't believe in all-round development. As an ordinary person, trying to do your best in a small field is enough to make your life very good. Well-rounded, wanting everything, leads to all-round mediocrity.
15. Human nature is two-sided, there is a good side and an evil side.
You want to maximize the good side of people who are about you. At the same time, you must use a severe punishment system to curb the evil side of human nature. That's where the law comes in.
16. What can be solved with money is solved with money, and what cannot be solved by money is considered to be solved with time.
17. The way to overcome fear is to take the initiative to do what you are afraid to resist. People sometimes need this kind of masochistic mentality, the more difficult things are, the more persistent they do.
18. Put the traffic in the first place when doing the project, what is the mixture if the traffic is not there? The traffic problem is solved, and then think about how to do a good job of content, how to make high-quality products, and learn the value of technology.
19. Many people do not have Jobs's life, but they are infected with Jobs's disease, and they are mavericks and pay attention to personality. The vast majority of people who climb high in the workplace are good at handling interpersonal relationships. Most of the bosses who mix well in the business field are good at handling interpersonal relationships. People want to pursue high-probability events.
20. The difference between people and people is that they spend their money in different places.
We invested all our money in our brains, so our brains became more and more powerful and we made more and more money.
Ordinary players like to use the money to eat, drink and have fun, and use it to buy cars and houses.
You spend all this money, and you will find that your ability to make money does not improve.
21. Liking to be a good person is a disease that must be cured. The good old man Ning Yuan sacrificed himself to please others, and as a result, he became a public trash can, and all the rotten and leftover ones were thrown to you.
22. It's normal to want to get something for nothing, want to make easy money, and want to do easy things. Because it's human nature to indulge in indulgence and hard work, but the more you follow human nature, the more you will find that you may end up with nothing.
23, the boss in "Crazy Boy" is busy fighting and killing, and the boss in "The Godfather" is busy dealing with various relationships. What are rivers and lakes? Rivers and lakes are human feelings and sophistication, and the longer you live, the more you understand this truth.
24. I play cards, I smoke, and I drink, not because I like it, but because others like it. Only do what you like, you can only, and only by doing what others like, can you play with others.
25. What is cognition? It is the sharp eye that sees through the essence of things.
Sun Wukong has fiery eyes, so he won't be deceived by monsters.
If a person does not have a sharp eye, it is very easy for others to cut leeks.
When you buy a house, you are actually cut a leek by the developer.
26. All anxiety comes from not dreaming and not acting, there are thousands of ideas in the head, and even the plan is very good, that is, it will always exist in the mind, and if you don't act, instead of planning one path after another in your mind, it is better to take a new step now.
27. Spend less time on meaningless things, and spend time on really meaningful things, those things can make money, those things can be realized, and those things can improve yourself, just do those things.
28. What determines your promotion and salary increase is not that your colleagues are dissatisfied, but that your leaders are dissatisfied. Many Sand coins don't know this, and they still shout all day long that Maxima is common, but Bole is not often.
29. The smarter the person, the more he needs to work hard, only the stupid person needs to take a shortcut; if a smart person also chooses to take a shortcut, he will definitely be punished by God!
30. All happiness is contrasted, and all tribulations are also contrasted.
You were shot by an arrow on your way, and you said it hurts.
It's not that this arrow hurts you, it's that you have too few arrows.
I've already experienced ten thousand arrows piercing my heart, and another arrow will shoot me, and I don't feel understood?
31. The more talented people are, the more they need to go deep into the masses, and the more they can't be arrogant.
32. The more affection you give to a person, the more infatuated you will be.
33. If you are strong, you will choose the person you love, and if you are not strong enough, then choose the person who loves you. Otherwise, you'll pay a bigger price.
34. Whoever forbids you to be excellent is a bad person, stay away from them, they have not tasted the taste of a good life, and you are not allowed to taste it.
35. Money can amplify a person's desires.
As soon as many men have money, they go out to support women, which is the desire amplified by money.
What else is driving a luxury car, these are all amplifying the desire for comparison and jealousy in human nature.
The so-called cultivation is to constantly improve one's ability to make money and reduce one's desire to consume.
36. What some people vomit after drinking is not necessarily the truth, but it must be what they want you to hear the most.
If a person usually doesn't dare to say anything, and only talks a lot when he is drinking, then nine times out of ten this person says what he wants to hear.
37. Never be too honest, absolute honesty with others is absolute harm to yourself.
38. If a friend invites you to dinner, if you are asked to pick a place or order food, you must let him decide. Otherwise, you don't know what the other party's budget is, and he wanted to treat you to a steamed bun, but as soon as you opened your mouth, you wanted to eat Western food.
39. Adults don't have to convince anyone, just have their own opinions and say their own words. I am in charge of my territory, and you are in charge of your territory.
40. Knowledge is not good or bad, what suits you is the best, everyone's stage is different, and what they learn is not the same.
For example, Konosuke Matsushita, the god of management in Japan, studied Buddhism, and people have hundreds of billions of dollars to study Buddhism, and you only have a few dollars in your pocket to study Buddhism.
It's just that it's a mess, it's not that the Dharma is bad, but it's not necessarily effective for you.
I never learn good content, I only learn what I use.
41. Adults don't need anyone to convince anyone, just have their own opinions and say their own words. I am in charge of my territory, and you are in charge of your territory.
42. If you are a character, there will be people everywhere you go, and if you are a waste, there will be people everywhere you go.
43. There are no eternal friends, and there are no eternal enemies. When interests are discussed, everything is easy to discuss.
44. It is unexpected to be understood, but it is expected not to be understood. Never expect others to understand you, and even if they do, they won't solve your problems.
45. Those who remain silent in the crowd are generally people with real skills. Although they seem to be out of place, they actually know better what they want by reading, studying, and pursuing self-improvement.
46. If you want others to agree with your point of view, it's not really about saying as much as you can, it's about listening.
Believe it or not, if you look at those who interrupt others a lot, a few of them are popular, and even if they are knowledgeable, no one will identify with them.
47. Good friends are not earned through hard work, but met while running on their respective paths.
48. For most people, working hard is just to be alive, don't crown it with such a high-sounding reason to work hard for success.
49. People change for two reasons: either they understand a lot and want to change, or they are too hurt and must change.
50. There are a lot of takers in this world, do you have any around you?
Takers all have a common trait, that is, they are "cheeky" from the heart and in their bones
If you have this kind of person around you, don't get used to it!
Because a bowl of rice feeds a benefactor, and a bucket of rice feeds an enemy, if you give too much, they will take it for granted.