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Recently, Ms. Liu from Huaibin County, Henan Province has become popular on the Internet, because she is showing off on the Internet that she has become a mother-in-law at the age of 37 and will soon become a grandmother.
The crowd exclaimed, how early did Ms. Liu get married? Could it be that her son has not reached the legal age of marriage? Soon the official responded to this matter.
The incident instantly sparked heated discussions on the Internet. When netizens questioned Ms. Liu's low education and her children continued to go to school, she said angrily: "What's the use of having a high education?"
Ms. Liu got married and had children at the age of 18
In remote rural areas in the 80s, women would marry and have children early if they did not continue their education. Ms. Liu was born in 1987 in a rural area of Henan Province, and when she went to junior high school, her academic performance was not outstanding, so her parents at home were in charge, and she went home after junior high school.
When she is not at school, Ms. Liu also helps with farm work for the family, and she probably knows that she will not be at home for long. Because many local girls of the same age as her got married early, Ms. Liu already knew that her next task was to get married and have children.
In 2005, when Ms. Liu was 18 years old, she was introduced to marry a junior high school classmate, and her husband's surname was Huang.
At this time, neither of them had reached the legal age of marriage and had not received a marriage certificate. At that time, many couples in rural areas had a wedding first, and finally found a time to get a marriage certificate.
Ms. Liu and her husband's family didn't care too much about the legal marriage, but they only felt that the two children had reached the wedding age in their place, so they held their wedding early.
Ms. Liu's identity was added to another level, she became a wife, and gave birth to her eldest son the following year. Ms. Liu was only 19 years old this year, and her mentality was still a child, but as a first-time mother, she could only choose to take care of the family.
In other areas, a 19-year-old girl is supposed to be preparing for college, and Ms. Liu can only worry about the family's firewood, rice, oil and salt. But Ms. Liu never felt that there was anything wrong with her, but she cherished this life very much.
Then Ms. Liu's second son was also born, considering the livelihood of the whole family, there are still 2 sons to support in the future, Ms. Liu and her husband left home to work in the county, but the two graduated from junior high school, no diploma, can only choose labor to make money.
After working outside for many years, Ms. Liu's concern for her children is only for a short time after returning home, without much care, and is taken care of by the elders in the family.
Like her parents, she did not force her children to go to school. So the two children stopped studying early.
What Ms. Liu didn't expect was that after many years, her two sons would follow their old path!
Ms. Liu, 37, likes to be a grandmother
This year, Ms. Liu is 37 years old, and her eldest son is also 18 years old!
While Ms. Liu was working, her son contacted her and said that he had a girlfriend and was going to get married this year. Ms. Liu was also shocked at first, but when she thought that she was also married at the age of 18, and that after her son got married, she could be more relaxed, and immediately felt that this was also a good thing.
Ms. Liu and her husband hurriedly returned to their hometown, began to buy all kinds of wedding supplies, helped their son come to the door to propose marriage, and notified the relatives, and soon handled the son's marriage.
The happiest thing for Ms. Liu this year is that her son is about to get married this year, and her own grandson is about to be born in the Year of the Dragon, so she may be the youngest grandmother.
On the day of her son's wedding, Ms. Liu wore a red coat with a happy expression on her face, and organized the wedding for her son in her hometown. In the eyes of everyone, she is indeed a little young, and she still has a baby face, and no one would think that she is the mother of the groom.
A 37-year-old mother-in-law is not common, and Ms. Liu got married early at that time because people got married early in those days. But today, many young people keep their own ideas, and they are less likely to choose to get married and have children at the age of 18!
After her son got married, Ms. Liu uploaded the photos and videos of her son's wedding to the Internet, showing off to everyone that she was 37 years old and was already going to be a grandmother.
The result directly aroused questions from netizens, and they asked in the comment area: Is this Ms. Liu's biological son?
Ms. Liu's video went viral, causing heated discussions
Ms. Liu originally wanted netizens to praise herself and show off her grandson, but netizens pointed out whether Ms. Liu broke the law?
The Civil Code stipulates that a man must be 22 years old and a woman must be 20 years old before a marriage can be registered. As a result, none of the families complied with the relevant regulations.
After Ms. Liu's video went viral, a reporter called the Gucheng Township Government in Huaibin County to inquire about Ms. Liu's family.
The township government said that Ms. Liu's family did hold a banquet, and her son was born in 2005, but he did not receive a marriage certificate before he reached the legal age, but there are many such banquets in the local area without a license, so this matter is voluntary between the two parties, but it will also be reminded and publicized.
Some of them laughed and said that they had not found a marriage partner at the age of 37, and others had already become grandmothers. There are also some people who say that they are also 37 years old, but their children are still in elementary school, and Ms. Liu is indeed a lot ahead of others.
In addition, Ms. Liu was also questioned that a family of four could not get a high school diploma, and it was suspected that Ms. Liu's family did not have a high level of education, and netizens felt that Ms. Liu should let her children continue to go to school.
In response to these comments, Ms. Liu also replied strongly: "What's the use of having a high degree of education?"
Ms. Liu has now gradually adapted to her new identity, and the marriage of her son is a happy event for her, and when her daughter-in-law gives birth, she is ready to take care of her grandson as a grandmother.
However, there are still people who support Ms. Liu, feeling that everyone should go their own way, although the family gets married early, as long as they are happy, they don't have to care about other people's eyes.
Ms. Liu got married and had children at the age of 18, for her, she lived a very happy life in this family, although she did not have such a high education, but her life was plain, so when her son got married, she would express on the Internet that she was going to be a grandmother at the age of 37, and she didn't expect this incident to cause an uproar!
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