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I believe that most friends have heard of such a sentence - "I would rather cry in a BMW than laugh on a bicycle".
Ten years ago, this phrase could be described as a popular phrase in society, and even resonated with many women.
And the inventor of this sentence, Ma Nuo, the female guest of "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb", is indeed like she said, "sitting in a BMW and crying".
It turned out that after marrying a rich husband, Mano was not happy in her married life, and even suffered seven consecutive domestic violence from the other party in just half a year.
Unbearable, she decided to sue for divorce, and what happened to her also caused a lot of embarrassment.
1. The blind date female guest's "money worship remarks" caused controversy
In 1988, Ma Nuo was born in an ordinary family in Beijing.
Her parents were small fruit sellers in the wet market and barely managed to make ends meet.
The low income simply could not make a comfortable life for a family of three in the big city of Beijing, so in Mano's memory, his childhood was embarrassing.
The parents' income was not high, but they also tried their best to send their children to primary schools in the main city, and at that time, little Mano did not understand what "comparison" was.
All she knew was that her classmates joked that she couldn't afford to wear designer shoes, and that she could only wear dirty and old rag shoes.
Over time, Mano grew into a slim girl.
Although he has been living in a noisy and chaotic suburban vegetable market since he was a child, there is no shadow of the "fruit vendor" daughter on Mano's body.
She has a hibiscus and a good temperament, and many elders praised her when she saw it.
What makes the parents feel a headache is that although Mano is outstanding, he has always hovered in the middle and lower reaches of the class in terms of academic performance, which makes Manuo's parents, who have been looking forward to their daughter's admission to university, worried.
Mano herself knew that only by being admitted to university could she take the first step to change her family of origin, and at this moment, the words of her music teacher pointed out the direction for her.
It turned out that when the music teacher was teaching the students on a regular basis, he found that this female student named Mano was very talented in music.
Not only is the breath steady and intonate when singing, but also instruments like piano, violin, and pipa.
While other students may only be able to learn a little bit of the skin, Mano can accurately grasp the teacher's instructions and quickly play the whole song.
So the teacher found Ma Nuo and suggested that she take the road of art examination and be admitted to the Conservatory of Music to continue her studies.
After listening to the teacher's words, Ma Nuo seemed to open the second pulse of Ren Du, she went to the Internet café to find a computer, and spent an afternoon learning about the process and requirements of the art examination in detail.
When she found that the cultural course score requirements of art candidates were lower than those of pure college entrance examination candidates, she signed up without hesitation.
However, things are not as simple as Mano imagined, and after signing up, the time for the exam is only a few months away.
She needs to be exposed to music theory knowledge that she has never studied systematically, and she also has to take care of cultural lessons at the same time, and if she were an ordinary person, she might start to retreat.
Unexpectedly, Ma Nuo changed his previous casual temperament and began to go to school for self-study in the morning and late home.
Her parents also gave her money to sign up for an art examination training institution, maybe once a person starts to have a goal for action, she will be particularly motivated to do anything.
During that time, Ma Nuo's eyes were always shining, and in the end, she was successfully admitted to the Beijing Modern Music Academy.
After entering the university campus, although Mano fulfilled one of her wishes, she soon ushered in her own troubles.
That is, the classmates around him are full of famous brands, and he is a "dirt bun" in comparison.
And the cost of the music school is not low, which is a large expense for Mano's family.
It wasn't until later that Ma Nuo accidentally learned that a TV station called "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb" was looking for male and female guests when he was earning money part-time.
Mano feels that this opportunity is very suitable for him, firstly, he can earn an appearance fee as pocket money, and secondly, if he can really find a rich boyfriend through this show, his current problems can be solved.
In this way, in 2010, Ma Nuo and 29 other female guests participated in the blind date program "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb" was officially launched.
Among them, Ma Nuo, who is in his early twenties, also has a great presence in front of the audience with his outstanding figure and appearance, which has caused some topics to be discussed.
When a male guest on the stage talked about how he is currently a "three-no-person" with no house, no car and no deposit, Mano said half-jokingly and half-seriously:
"I don't think you're suitable for me, I'd rather cry in a BMW than laugh on a bike."
Back then, "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb" was a popular variety show that could compete on the same stage as Hunan Satellite TV's "Happy Camp", with a large audience base.
And Ma Nuo's "famous saying" also became popular all over the country in an instant, and countless girls rushed to declare that they would "rather cry in a BMW than laugh in the back of a bicycle", which seems to indirectly affect the mate selection criteria of some people.
Second, as an anchor, he and the big brother on the list both cheated and got married
After Ma Nuo and her "famous quotes" became popular, some entertainment companies took a fancy to her topicality and her status as a student of the Beijing Modern Music Academy and wanted to sign her to make her debut.
But helplessly, after the gossip spread, it immediately aroused the opposition of some people.
Because many people were saying that Mano was a "money worshipper" at that time, major forums and post bars were overwhelmingly abused against this "gold worshipping ancestor".
Seeing these remarks, some small companies have dismissed the idea of signing a contract with Mano for fear of bringing unnecessary negative news to their own companies.
In this way, Ma Nuo, who thought he could enter the entertainment industry as a big star, lost this opportunity in the midst of a lot of scolding.
In the following years, this "wise saying" spread more and more widely, but Mano gradually withdrew from the public's field of vision.
It wasn't until the beginning of last year that Mano announced the news of his marriage on his personal social account, and people remembered that this was the girl who "didn't want to sit on a bicycle and laugh" back then.
It's just that I don't know if the thirty-five-year-old really found the rich boyfriend who drove a "BMW".
Therefore, many people went to leave a message under Ma Nuo's comment area, asking her to tell her about her experience over the years.
Based on Mano's own account and the disclosure of people familiar with the matter, we can roughly draw this information.
In the past few years, Mano has seized the opportunity of online live broadcasting, and has started live broadcasts almost every night.
With exquisite makeup and a sweet voice, she has been liked by many netizens.
Even some people will spend a lot of money to give her gifts, and Mano can make a lot of money after a live broadcast.
Ma Nuo and her husband Mr. Liu met through the live broadcast, and Mr. Liu at that time gave her a lot of gifts in several live broadcasts, and once became Ma Nuo's "big brother".
The two quickly switched from online to offline dating, and Ma Nuo was attracted by Mr. Liu's wealth, and Mr. Liu also took a fancy to Ma Nuo's beauty, and the two hit it off.
But at that time, Ma Nuo had a boyfriend, and Mr. Liu was also married and had a family.
However, within two days, they didn't care about any morality at all, and after they broke up with their other half, the two got married in a flash.
3. "Crying in the BMW" is a proverb
Just when Mano was immersed in the dream of being a wealthy wife, her husband told Mano that he had a lot of foreign debts before and now needed to repay.
Manuo, who couldn't accept it for a while, had no other choice, and gave all the money she had saved in the past few years to her husband to pay off her foreign debts.
In her opinion, owing some money is nothing, after all, she now lives in a big house and drives a luxury car, and her husband can earn the money back soon if he has the ability.
But the subsequent married life was far from Mano's expectations.
After she became pregnant, her husband stayed away from home all day and night, and even beat himself once, resulting in the miscarriage of the fetus in her womb, for which Mano suffered a lot of crimes in the hospital.
The husband is even more unscrupulous in the face of Mano after the miscarriage, and cold violence and cheating are commonplace.
Whenever Mano questioned or moved the idea of divorce, he was greeted by her husband's fist.
In just half a year, he suffered a total of seven times of domestic violence, and the bruises and bruises all over his body all indicate Ma Nuo's failed married life.
In the summer of 2023, a short video creator met Ma Nuo who was shopping during a random interview on the street, and interviewed whether Ma Nuo's work and life over the years have really done what he said back then.
At first, Mano didn't react, but under the prompting of the other party, she realized that she was talking about what she said back then, "I'd rather cry in a BMW than laugh on a bicycle".
She embarrassedly said that this sentence was not her original intention, but the character arranged for herself by the director team at that time was a gold worshipper, but she didn't expect this casual sentence to have such an impact.
Now, Mano really managed to sit in the luxury car and cry "as he wished".
At the beginning of 2024, Ma Nuo announced on social platforms that he had decided to end his marriage life that lasted only one year, showing evidence of domestic violence to the outside world, which caused a sigh.
And Mr. Liu has also been posting a refutation to Ma Nuo, and the marriage war between the two continues.
epilogue
We don't know if Mano really regretted his choice, but for a woman who grew up in a difficult life and longed for money to gain security, any accusations and abuse seemed to pale in comparison.
We can't stand on the moral high ground to evaluate her, but we can find something to be alert from her.
Life is ordinary, maybe you can't experience a luxurious life without a lot of money, but a bowl of fragrant wontons for six yuan a bowl and a string of sugar gourds for two yuan in the streets and alleys can also bring us happiness.