I'm not a mom boy, but why can't I find a daughter-in-law who both my parents like?
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Murong Junyan, 30 years old, graduated from a prestigious university with a master's degree, and worked as a software engineer in a large factory with an annual salary of 48W.
The family background is ordinary, the parents are people who work hard, support the elderly, raise children, there is no great wealth, but the value is family harmony, just like every happy family.
After his son graduated and worked, because of the nature of his work, he came into contact with fewer girls, so Murong's parents asked their relatives and friends to introduce their son to someone.
The requirements are simple, girls should have three views, have a college degree, have a job, and have no violations of discipline and law or moral turpitude in family members.
In fact, Murong Junyan's own conditions are very good, his job is good, his salary is good, and his future development prospects are also very good, so his relatives and friends are also willing to introduce him to excellent girls.
Murong Junyan is not disgusted with the blind date model, when he reaches the age when he should start a family, since he can't meet by chance, he will create opportunities to meet more, and maybe he will be able to meet the person he is destined to meet.
The girl who recently went on a blind date, named Wang Liang, is 25 years old, very beautiful, graduated from university, and works as an English teacher in an elementary school.
The family members are also simple, the parents used to be factory workers, and after being laid off, they set up a dumpling restaurant, and the business is enough to feed the family.
It's just that because her parents want a son, Wang Liang has a younger brother who is 15 years younger than her and is in the fourth grade of primary school.
Murong Junyan and Wang Liang, after getting along for half a year, both of them felt that they could start talking about marriage, and they each took them home to meet their parents.
Wang Liang's parents are a hundred satisfied with Murong Junyan, but Murong Junyan's parents have a little reservations about Wang Liang.
Wang Liang has been to Murong Junyan's house several times, and every time she goes, although Junyan's parents are very enthusiastic, Wang Liang's attitude is always light, and when she talks to her, she can answer in one word without three words, and she always shows impatience.
Murong Junyan began to think that Wang Liang was embarrassed, too nervous, and didn't know how to answer. But every time it's like this, Jun Yan also feels very strange.
"Wang Liang, do you have any problems with my parents?" Jun Yan asked.
Wang Liang said, "I'm in love with you, your parents always ask questions, always ask me what our family is doing?"
"They're also afraid that you won't feel comfortable, so they just want to find a topic to talk about. Get to know each other, and it will be easier to get along with each other in the future. Jun Yan explained.
"I won't live with the old man in the future, the old man is too troublesome, he should not be in charge, and he has to intervene in everything. Let's say in advance, if you get married and live alone, your parents can't go to our house and can't interfere in our affairs. Wang Liang said willfully.
"It's true that they live alone, but how can they not let their parents come to the door? They are now in good health and can take care of themselves, but their son's home is also their home, and it is normal to live occasionally for a small stay. Moreover, when they are old in the future, they do not depend on whom I depend. Jun Yan listened to Wang Liang's words, and felt a little unhappy in his heart.
"You're all adults, and your parents are still meddling in your life, so aren't you a mother's treasure?" Wang Liang retorted.
My parents are my family, and my marriage is not just my personal matter, of course my parents have the right to ask and give opinions. Jun Yan said with a dark face.
"It's me who will live with you in the future, not your parents, you can figure it out! If you can't tell the difference between them, I don't think we should delay each other. Wang Liang was also unhappy.
"Wang Liang, I'm not a mother's boy! But the girl I want to marry must be liked by my parents, and she must also respect my parents, respect the elderly, and honor the elderly. Of course, I would do the same to her parents. ”
"Because marriage is never a matter of two people, but a matter of two families, if there is no harmony between family members, why should I find someone to add to the blockage?
Wang Liang was furious because of Jun Yan's "cold words", "What are you like this, if you are not a mother? In your heart, will I never be able to compare to your parents? Your parents will always take the first place?"
"You are really unreasonable, parents are parents, husband and wife are husband and wife, they are all juxtaposed, you don't have to distinguish between high and low. In that case, this is the end of our relationship! Jun Yan left directly after speaking.
Later, Wang Liang asked Murong Junyan several times to get back together, but was rejected.
Zhiqing said:
Parents and husbands and wives are never hostile relationships, on the contrary, they are partners in each other's accomplishments.
Parents may have some outdated concepts, and some selfishness based on their own children, but they have to admit that their starting point is only for their own children, and only they are wholeheartedly for the sake of their children.
Find a partner that parents like, because they like, all have more tolerance and increase the chances of family harmony.
It is said that the earth can be turned without anyone, and only parents and children cannot be separated from this world, which is probably the power of blood.
Since it can't be stripped away, then blend into it and call it an integral part of it!