My grandfather has been lying on the sickbed for four or five years, and he usually wears adult diapers to wet the bed, and when he eats, my grandmother has to tie his hands with strips of cloth to feed him, because he may overturn his rice bowl and cry wolf in the middle of the night, but I think my grandfather is pretending to be sick. Because I analyze the following reasons:
One, he knows me and can have a brief conversation with me
The aunt said that no one recognized the grandfather, and he was sick.
But every time I came to the bed, my grandfather's eyes instantly turned from cloudy to clear, called my name, and sometimes begged me for help, saying that my aunt and grandmother had abused him.
Because my aunt and grandmother have also taken care of my grandfather for four or five years, they have a, urine, emotional breakdown, yelling at him, or slapping him.
But my grandfather told me that my aunt and grandmother were going to kill him and told me to take him away.
But I'm sick, mentally ill, and it's good to be able to take care of myself, and I'm carrying a half-crazy grandfather, where can I go?
Grandpa only "confided in me" when I was alone, and it can be seen that he was not completely sick, but "pretending to be sick"
Second, the hospital diagnosis is fine
My aunt and grandmother took my grandfather to all over the place, went to many big hospitals, three and two first, and paid for all the inspections, but no problems were found.
The doctor also put himself in his shoes and gave advice to his aunt and grandmother to give more care to his grandfather.
Now my grandfather is lying in bed every day, and my aunt has bought a radio to play songs for him to listen to, for his pastime, because there are no symptoms, so there is no medicine to eat.
If you don't take medicine, it proves that your body is fine, so it proves that grandpa is not sick and is "pretending to be sick"
Three, he knows self-esteem and has a sense of shame
If you say that grandpa is in good health, then there is something wrong with your spirit, right?
But he doesn't have the "stupidity" of the mentally ill.
He also has a strong sense of self-esteem, and when he sees his grandmother casually dropping his military uniform, he will provoke a great reaction, until now, the military uniform is still neatly hung in front of his grandfather's hospital bed for him to admire, and grandpa also wants to see that military uniform so that he will not be noisy.
On the other hand, he has a sense of shame and does not eat and drink in public like other patients without privacy.
When he changes diapers, he needs his grandmother to close the doors and windows and not be around others, so he is willing to cooperate with the change.
My grandmother is 78 years old, and she can't serve him alone to finish the and urine, and if she asks my aunt to go in and help change it, my grandfather will be furious and reprimand my grandma.
So I said that my grandfather was pretending to be sick, and as for the reason why he was pretending to be sick, I think it was none other than him:
First, his grandfather raised seven children in his life, but in the end, no one disliked him for having no ability, and he couldn't get a dowry for marrying his daughter.
took his daughter-in-law to buy a house, he didn't help at all, it was all his in-laws who tried to find a way, which caused the sixth uncle and the seventh uncle to be very unable to hold their heads up in front of their father-in-law and mother-in-law.
Second, grandpa has been lazy all his life.
To tell the truth, grandma said that in the 70s, my grandfather had nothing to do with him except for getting food stamps and oil stamps from the public home.
He was too lazy to lie in the house and sleep for most of the day, feeding pigs, cooking, laundry, and taking care of children, all of which were grandma's work alone.
Grandpa probably felt that he had done nothing in his life, so he didn't want to face the facts, so he simply blew up his illness, won the pity of his children to satisfy his self-esteem, and spent the rest of his life.
Therefore, people must make achievements in this life, don't expect to rely on children and grandchildren, children and grandchildren will have their own children and grandchildren when they grow up, and children still mean to rely on their parents to shelter them!
See that you can still walk, do moving, save more money for yourself and your wife, and when there is no labor force in the future, you will know whether the thing you gave birth to is a human or a ghost.
