Wise women with good temperament never pursue gorgeous appearance, but insist on advocating deep hearts, and they are very "calm" in these three points.
1. Treat life: quiet and far-reaching
Most women with good temperament have a very quiet personality, and they get along with them like a spring breeze and are very relaxed.
You never seem to see them lose their temper, they are always meticulous and thoughtful, and to the point.
It doesn't feel unattainable or disturbed.
They treat their own lives and always pursue "tranquility and far-reaching", pay attention to seeing the world with their hearts, and observe people's hearts with their hearts, so as to gain the power of inner peace and become gentle and firm.
The better the temperament of the woman, the more energy in their hearts, they will absorb the positive energy of the surrounding world and environment through a calm mind, and automatically block the negative energy.
Let yourself live forever in a positive magnetic field through the "quiet" mind, so as to reach the distance of your heart.
2. Treat feelings: wait and see
Uncertain things in a relationship can happen at any time, maybe one second you will cry with joy, but the next second you will be grief-stricken.
A smart woman with a good temperament will always guard her heart and always wait and see how her feelings change.
As long as the mind is not disturbed, people will not be tired.
In the TV series "Do You Know If You Should Be Green, Fat, Red and Thin", Minglan had a sober speech, she said:
"When two people live a life, they can't pin all their hopes on their husbands, but they must be able to support themselves.
So that when he is good to you, you will be happy, and when he is not good to you, you will not be sad. ”
Smart women are always enthusiastic and sober when it comes to feelings, they can afford to let go, if you are good to me, I will be good to you, if you are not good to me, I will not resent it.
The feelings that can go on are called growing old together, and the feelings that can't go on are called being well.
3. Treat changes: calm down
If you calculate the things that are not satisfactory in life, they will happen every moment of every day.
You can't predict, you can't stop, you can only accept, you can change.
A wise woman with a good temperament never worries about why it happens, but accepts it calmly, and then takes immediate action to change.
They never let themselves live in internal friction and anxiety, but choose to live towards the sun.
What doesn't change is change, but what changes is choice.
The less you care about anything, the more it won't be able to enter your heart, and you won't think about it every day.
There is a saying:
"There is nothing in the world, and mediocrity disturbs itself. ”
When a woman sees through the impermanence of the world, she will let herself deal with the changes in life calmly.
Epilogue:
A woman's quiet temperament is an elegant taste, a firm mentality, and a pleasant mood.
The more calm women are, the more they have hidden wisdom, and they will always live like the sun, illuminating themselves and warming others.
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