Qian Zhongshu once described marriage as a siege: those on the outside want to get in, and those on the inside want to come out.
The unmarried longed for the warmth and vows of marriage, but the trivialities after marriage made the married person tired. In this era of rampant fast love and weak moral values, a new group has emerged: cheaters.
They wander on the edge of marriage, dissatisfied with their marriage, and fantasized about the temptations outside. They may have been faithful partners, but for various reasons, they have embarked on the path of cheating.
Enjoying the stability and material things of a marriage while seeking new passions may seem to solve the problem of the siege, but in fact it harms others and oneself.
Some time ago, there was a derailment storm in Zhejiang, and a nurse cheated on a doctor. Under the anger of the husband, he sent a pennant to warn, and the four-character poem ridicule was all in it.
Netizens condemned the cheater, and also expressed their admiration for the courage of the man who sent the flag. The man chose to show the green hat to the crowd and reopen his past scars.
Of course, there are also some netizens who are skeptical about this matter. In order to prove that his words were true, the man released a 76-page PDF file, detailing the signs and ironclad evidence of his wife's cheating.
About two years ago, the man began to notice something unusual about his wife. For example, the wife suddenly shaved her intimate parts and bought some erotic underwear.
Another time, when they talked about cheating, the wife actually said: You don't know, do you? Now, all the truth has been revealed.
What's even more surprising is that the couple has not had sex for a long time, but in January 2022, the wife became pregnant and even had an abortion.
Even when there was no hard evidence, he relied on his intuition to investigate. A barrage of staggering photographs reveals the wife's intimate relationship with a mysterious man.
He also discovered a hidden secret in his wife's mobile phone. It turned out that she actually had a new number dedicated to contacting her lover, and her girlfriends and colleagues were helping her cover up.
Faced with thousands of screenshots and photos, the wife was embarrassed and unable to defend herself. If the woman is willing to admit her mistake and leave the house, maybe the matter will end there.
However, the woman not only cheated in marriage and did not bear any mortgage, but also accepted more than 500,000 yuan from the man's family. She also asked the man to give her another 300,000 yuan on the grounds that the house was the joint property after marriage.
It's really disgusting! It's really disgusting!
Adults have the ability to love and bear failure, but cheating is frequent in society, mainly because of greed. The law punishes cheating lightly, and the original partner cannot sue the cheater or let him leave the house.
In the face of derailment, do not compromise, do not tolerate, and do not tear your face. Clear attitude and reasonable rights protection. Obtaining the property you deserve with dignity and living better is the best blow to cheaters and third parties.
Entering into marriage means a contract and a commitment that represents each other's uniqueness, respect and responsibility. Fornication with others is shameful and can harm your spouse, children, family, and your reputation, your society, and your career.
Marriage is not static, but needs to be managed and maintained by both husband and wife.
Only mutual understanding, respect and tolerance can make the besieged city of marriage strong and warm.