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In 2018, Gao Yunxiang cheated in marriage and got into a lawsuit, and he needed to pay hundreds of millions of compensation, as his wife Dong Xuan faced a dilemma, but in the end she made a decision that everyone couldn't understand.
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Dong Xuan, who was born as a dancer, was called the "New Four Little Flowers in the Mainland" in 2009 with Yang Mi, Tang Yan, and Bai Bing because of his outstanding performance in the later development of the entertainment industry.
Compared with the other three, Dong Xuan is undoubtedly a representative of the acting school.
Whether it is a policeman, a chivalrous woman, or a savage girlfriend who dares to love and hate, they are all portrayed by Dong Xuan very well.
What makes people talk about it even more is her attitude towards love.
When her career was on the rise, she chose to enter marriage, and when faced with her husband's betrayal, she chose to deal with difficulties first and then deal with feelings.
In 1979, Dong Xuan was born in Heilongjiang, she was very beautiful when she was a child, and she loved to dance, so her mother sent her to the training center to study, and she studied for more than 10 years.
As he grew older and for better development, Dong Xuan decided to change careers to become an actor.
So in 2000, she was admitted to Beijing Film Academy, and in her sophomore year, she was lucky to star in "Snow Goddess Dragon" as the heroine.
Dong Xuan, who just graduated from university, has not yet started working, so he has become popular all over the country and successfully entered the showbiz.
Film appointments and advertisements are falling like snowflakes, just when her career is thriving and her wealth is expanding, a marriage is cut off, and her career line has a bright future.
In 2009, Dong Xuan and Gao Yunxiang met at Jiangsu Satellite TV's Qixi Gala, and later the two performed on the same stage, had a good impression of each other, and then fell in love.
A year later, an incident happened between them that made Dong Xuan decide to marry him.
Once, both of them were drunk, and after Gao Yunxiang sent Dong Xuan downstairs, he left without going up.
makes Dong Xuan feel that this man is principled and doesn't mess around, maybe it is worth entrusting.
So in 2011, the two held a wedding in Beijing, and 5 years later gave birth to their lovely daughter Little Dimple.
After having children, Dong Xuan focused on her family, taught her husband and children at home, and sometimes posted sweet photos of a family of three on social platforms, attracting the support and love of the people who eat melons, and won the title of "Model Husband and Wife".
When everyone thought that they would be happy because of this, an incident that happened to Gao Yunxiang became the fuse for the divorce of the two people.
At the beginning of 2018, Gao Yunxiang, who was filming in Australia, was involved in a violation case, and with the overwhelming spread of public opinion and doubts, Dong Xuan expressed his high trust in Gao Xiang at the first time with "I believe in him".
then took the children and parents and embarked on the road of saving her husband across the country, but as the case was revealed little by little, Dong Xuan found out that Gao Yunxiang had indeed lived up to his trust.
What makes her even more chilling is that there is still a huge amount of economic pressure now.
During that time in Australia, it was the most difficult moment in her life, with tens of thousands of rents per month, tens of millions of high bails, and Tangde Film and Television's compensation of up to 60 million for Gao Yunxiang's prosecution, which overwhelmed Dong Xuan.
What made her even more sad was that the husband and wife's more than 60 million assets were also frozen at this juncture and could not be taken out for emergency.
At this time, Dong Xuan had one of the few film contracts and advertisements in her hand, but because of her husband's scandal, she was facing the termination of the contract, and even had a few films.
Because her husband couldn't broadcast it when she was in prison, she was burdened with sky-high liquidated damages.
In desperation, she can only accept some unpopular micro-business endorsements, sell her personal belongings on second-hand platforms, and even all kinds of small commercial performances.
At the same time, online fans are also worried about her, thinking that Gao Yunxiang is not worth her such a dedication, and at this time, she is old and young, and there is a job in the middle, the only one who can carry things is herself, and she can only bear everything alone due to the situation.
Netizens who didn't understand mourned her misfortune and were angry with her, and gave her the title of "Forgive the Sect Master".
This lawsuit lasted for more than 1 year, although he was acquitted, but cheating in marriage was an established fact, when everyone thought that Dong Xuan had finally come to an end.
Dong Xuan chose to divorce Gao Yunxiang peacefully after everything settled.
After the divorce, some reporters cautiously raised a question that many people wanted to ask but didn't dare to ask: Is it worth paying so much for Gao Yunxiang?
Unexpectedly, Dong Xuan was already relieved, and replied calmly: "To be able to help a person is to give others a chance, and also to give yourself a chance, after all, it used to be a family."
Dong Xuan has no regrets about his original choice.
Today, she lives alone with her daughter, her life is very comfortable, she concentrates on work when she is busy, accompanies her daughter in her spare time, and is surrounded by small fresh meat from time to time, and she is full of confidence in her future life.
Whether it is friendship or love, if you are together, you will get along, if you are not together, you will be separated, and when you are separated, you must also be decent, not to embarrass each other, and leave regrets.
It's like two trees, each trying to grow to the sky underground, admiring each other's pride, snuggling up to each other but not entangled.
When parting, they are well and wish each other well, as if they have never met, but they will always be remembered.
I hope that women who are mired in the fog of marriage can face the ups and downs of life with the most elegant attitude like Dong Xuan, leaving no regrets and living up to the encounters.
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Introduction: Zhang Ping, psychological counselor, marriage and family counselor, well-known emotional self-media person. I have wine, do you have a story?