#DocumentMyLife#When my father was alive, he told us many times about his past, as well as the setbacks and ridiculous mistakes he had made, trying to make us learn a lesson and prevent it from happening.
However, at that time, we sisters were still young and had no understanding of the dangers of the world, and we always felt that my father was telling boring stories, and we got bored with the many times we told them, so that when my father first began to tell these "clichés", we interrupted impatiently, and sometimes even left angrily, completely ignoring my father's expectations and sorrows.
As I grew older, while constantly being beaten by society, I gradually realized that my father's advice at that time was a good word, and even felt that my father was a great philosopher!
Taking advantage of the fine weather and good mood today, I sat in the warm sunshine, reorganized my thoughts, wrote down my father's advice, and warned myself from time to time!
Advice 1: Resolutely do not partner with relatives and friends to do business. My father and even our whole family have a deep understanding of this lesson.
About eighty-four years, my father planned to contract an orchard in our village, for a period of five years, after the contract arrived, my father hoped that at the same time a close relative uncle would contract together, and the uncle also agreed, after the two partnerships contracted for a year, the uncle's family found that the fruit trees were small and did not make money, so they planned to withdraw, and we also agreed, after two years of hard work in our family, the fruit trees began to make money, and the uncle's family saw that we made money, so they wanted to enter the garden to jointly contract, my father did not agree, so our two families began to turn against each other, and finally fought a lawsuit. I just remember that the lawsuit has been fought for a long time!
During that time, the house was full of books on pruning fruit trees and law, stacks of civil lawsuits in drawers, and during the two years of the lawsuit, the orchard was also deserted, and the piles of fruit were destroyed......
In the end, if you win the lawsuit, you lose the money! The lawsuit is won, but the other party has no money to pay you!
Every time an outsider mentions the orchard lawsuit, my father sighs: "Don't mention it again, it's so sad!" Since then, this sentence has also been summed up: Don't partner with relatives and friends to do business, in the face of money, family affection cannot stand the test!
Advice 2: Don't sacrifice your health for meaningless reputation! My father has been suffering from pneumoconiosis for many years, and although smoking has a certain effect, my father told me a stupid mistake he once made: One year, the production team held a lifting game, that is, a freshly harvested wheat pile, and used the wind to lift out the wheat husks, stalks and other debris inside.
His father said that he was young and vigorous at the time, and he was determined to get this honor, so he learned the spirit of the hero Wang Jie, did not wear a mask, worked hard, and strived for the top, and finally won the honorary title of "Yang Field Expert"!
However, it was then that my father felt that his lung function was severely impaired and that he was coughing! Father remorseled every time he talked about it! and told us that even the best honors are fleeting, and the body is always our own!
Advice 3: Do not touch the red line of the law in any of your actions! We are ordinary people, we have no background and no backers, and if we do something wrong, no one can protect you! Only by abiding by the law can we ensure that you have nothing to do in your life! This kind of thinking may make you mediocre in your life, but it is the foundation for the poor to save their lives!
There were many times when I had doubts about my father's third piece of advice, and I felt that my father's understanding was very backward! Because if you are honest and obedient, you will never get ahead, and you will be very poor and stable! But later, when I saw more and more corrupt officials fall from power, I understood the profound meaning of my father's advice!
People in the rivers and lakes often can't help themselves! Rather than glorifying their ancestors for a while, having a bad fate, and panicking all day long, it is better to spend a life in peace!
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