The final score was out, there was an accident in mathematics, and my son's explanation made me cry and laugh 

Text | Mi Li's mother

posted an article on Monday, which brought Aunt Yun, who had a lot of rice grains, into tears.

I am feeling that "the so-called father-daughter-mother-son game, it just means that your fate with him is that in this life and this life, you are constantly watching his back drift away, and he uses his back to tell you that you don't have to chase" In the sad mood, reflect on whether I am too strict with rice grains, not tolerant enough to rice grains, and the moth is coming.

Last week, I went to the Rice Grains parent-teacher conference.

Without any suspense, I spent 45 minutes listening to a PPT on "How Schools Implement Quality Education".

The central idea is that there is no homework in school, less homework outside of school, and children are happy at school. As for the school, if you parents want to roll it when you go home, the school can't control it.

The focus of the PPT is on the last page: the mobile phone numbers of the principal and the director of education are announced, parents can find the person in charge of the school as soon as possible, and the home and school have achieved barrier-free communication, so there is no need to call 12345 or the hotline of the Education Bureau.....

The transcript of rice grains, put on the desk, there is no specific score, all are "excellent", I looked at the classmates who are all "excellent".

It is the rhythm of Haidian parents rejoicing in the New Year.

Mi Li's homeroom teacher understands parents very well, she told us that the specific score, you can ask her separately after the parent-teacher meeting, she can't help but want to say two points of instruction other than PPT.

These two short points, a shallow 5 minutes, basically condensed the essence of the entire parent-teacher conference.

First, be sure to keep your child's playtime under control.

At school, she found that some of her classmates were together to discuss their studies, while others were together to discuss games, and it was clear that the results of the two groups were very different.

Therefore, parents must control their children's playtime during the winter vacation, so that they have nothing to talk about.

She paused, and glanced at me: There are also a very few children, who are in business, and they are almost in the whole grade, and I am afraid of him, so I will work in a commissary.

I don't interfere with him, but I have told him not to affect his studies, and I hope that parents will also pay attention.

After the teacher finished speaking, everyone laughed, and I was like a man's back, and my old face was red, because who could this very small child be?!(gritted teeth!)

However, I keenly noticed that when the teacher mentioned rice grains, there was a little pampering in his tone, could it be that this child did well in the exam this time?

This bold idea slowly took root in my heart, and I couldn't stop being excited.

Then, the teacher came to the second point, which surprised me a little.

The second point: Now that the child is in adolescence, there is a situation where he secretly brings a mobile phone to school, and he has been chatting with other people, and the teacher has understood that the child is not familiar with and understands each other, but has a good feeling.

Some are even students from other schools, or students who have been promoted to junior high school.

Now that the child is in adolescence, it is inconvenient for the teacher to be too strong, and it is necessary for parents to understand the situation in this regard while protecting the privacy of their children.

Now that children are precocious, parents are more open, and we have heard a lot of stories of children falling in love, especially in junior high school, where classmates have a good impression of each other, and there are endless things.

In particular, the love story between the top students is eye-catching.

I've always been very neutral about the love that the teacher secretly mentioned.

It is normal for people to be happy and sympathetic to each other, but everything has a degree, and the children are still young, we must teach them to understand: what is a clear bottom line? What is never crossing the line?

Although the rice grain is not very enlightened at present, I have repeatedly mentioned that he has been ordered:

You must protect your likes at all times, whether it is the person you like, or the heart of someone else, there is no shame in liking yourself.

To give full respect and enough love to each other and oneself is the best trust to sincerity.

After the homeroom teacher finished talking about these two points, the parent-teacher meeting ended.

No one left, because the thrilling moment came, and everyone was asking for specific scores.

I waited in the outer circle for 5 minutes before I saw the teacher, and I was surprised and delighted by the two subjects.

Let's talk about the surprise first, Chinese, I can't believe it this time, 95 points.

I asked the teacher for his test paper, and the essay was only deducted one point, which was better than ever.

Math made me a little sad, not past 95.

This kid is really good at balancing, and he will never make me unbridledly happy.

When I got home, I told him the math scores, and he himself was not surprised at all, and told me very calmly:

When he was taking the math test, he suddenly wanted to pull 💩, and he kept controlling himself not to fart easily, otherwise he might be ruined and he would not be able to be a man.

Therefore, in the whole exam, half of his mind was not on the paper, there were many questions, and he scribbled...

I asked him: Why don't you tell the teacher that you are going to go to the toilet?

He actually replied to me: The real strong person is the one who can get a high score in the test no matter what the situation, and I want to test whether I can do it or not.

But... The result is that you can't do it! You've never been strong in your studies! You really don't do well in exams...

He scratched his head: next time I will know, pull 💩 is very affected to play.

But this is the final exam, not the usual test.

If I hadn't heard it with my own ears, I wouldn't have believed that a Puwa would dare to play so much?!

I really don't know where he got his confidence!

I panicked when I made the mistake.

It's rare to do well in Chinese, but it's not so fragrant at the moment.

However, when I think of his essay in which he only deducted one point, I am a little excited.

Seeing that I didn't speak, Mi Li wanted to ask me how I did in the Chinese test?

Hehe, he's bottomless.

I remember that in the first week after the exam, he told his whole family that the essay he wrote at the end of the semester was really good. It's written about his mother's love for him, and it is estimated that when the teacher was reviewing the papers in the office, he was so moved that he secretly cried...

I asked him what story he had written, and he said, "I have pneumonia, and I take care of him."

I hesitated: You're not serious, and I don't take care of it.

He laughed: Can't I make it up?

At the moment, the whole family unanimously felt that this essay must have overturned.

When I went out, Grandma Mi Li pulled him and said: Go out, don't say that your composition makes the teacher cry, you haven't seen it, just think about these things by yourself, don't talk nonsense...

He himself, when he was about to get results, became more and more "modest": my composition, the teacher may not cry, and it is not so exciting...

Before the parent-teacher conference, I had already cheered myself up to face any terrible language scores.

Now, all of a sudden, it's so surprising.

Puwa's results make people ride a roller coaster.

I told him about the Chinese results, and he couldn't believe it, so he asked me: Did you hear it wrong, did the teacher read it wrong?

I told him the essay score, and he stayed where he was and asked me: Did you hear it wrong, did the teacher give the wrong grade?

After receiving my affirmative answer, Mi Li asked me triumphantly: Did the teacher see crying?

Then asked: Then can I go to Haikou to play football again this winter vacation?

I told him not to go too far and go downstairs and play for an hour.

When I got home, he told me: Upstairs school bully, I scored 99 points in Chinese, math and English are 100 points, what did this kind of person eat.

He was so lucky to get 95, how could anyone get 99 again???

He also knew that he burned high incense, and I thought he would use this to motivate himself.

Unexpectedly, the next sentence: Next time, I will strive to get 94 again.

No, why is it still low?

He looked at me: next time I write, I can't only deduct 1 point, and I can't get old and pneumonia... Deducting 2 points is my best effort.

- What about the other mistakes, can't you make up for them?

-That's not okay, it's only 4 points deducted, my ability is almost at its peak, what I have to do is to maintain, it's too difficult to improve...

This child, no matter at any time, the logic is always self-consistent, and the chicken blood is beaten to a certain extent, and it can never be entered again.

In his world, learning is never the most important thing, and life is too much fun.

I am so grateful for this Chinese test.

Then, let's not mention mathematics, let's have a good New Year.

Let's say it weakly, sincerely, where the kung fu and wallet are paid, the score will be where the Beijing Blizzard has a "small long vacation", and just one day after the resumption of class, the old mother will 👉🏻 emo......

Chinese is accumulation + more practice, primary school students really have time, come on~mothers~

Just the sauce.

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