A high fever of the child changed the fate of the family, and the grandmother cried helplessly: she regretted having this grandson
"Baby grandson, run slowly, grandma's leg hurts, where can I catch up with you!" In a rehabilitation home in Zhenxiong, Yunnan Province, 68-year-old Lao Feng trembled and chased after his 7-year-old grandson Xiaofei, but before she took two steps, her leg was already painful and couldn't move away. Looking at his grandson's disobedient figure running around, Lao Feng was anxious and helpless. This is the third year that an old man and a young child have been treated in a rehabilitation home, and his grandson Xiaofei has recovered better, but he is still as disobedient as a three- or four-year-old child. Lao Feng said with a bitter face: "If it weren't for that fever, the child wouldn't be like this, and the daughter-in-law wouldn't have left home. ”
Although Xiaofei was born prematurely, Xiaofei's body was very healthy, white and fat, and he grew until he was three years old. However, a high fever changed Xiaofei's fate from then on, and also made the family into debt and fragmented. When Xiao Fei was three years old, he suddenly had a high fever and became unable to speak or listen to instructions, which made Lao Feng only anxious, wondering if his grandson's head was burned out. But the older generation in the village said that it was okay and that it would be fine after a while, but after several months, Xiaofei still didn't speak and was obedient, so serious that people didn't recognize it, so Lao Feng hurriedly took his grandson to Kunming Children's Hospital for examination.
Lao Feng said with a look of self-reproach: "It's me who is sorry for the child, and I still regret why I didn't take the child to the hospital for examination earlier, maybe the child can be cured." After the examination, Xiaofei was diagnosed with "cerebellar atrophy", and the doctor recommended rehabilitation treatment. This diagnosis made the family unacceptable, and Lao Feng's eyes were even darker. "The doctor said that the rehabilitation cost is 10,000 or 20,000 yuan a month, we are all farming in the countryside, where did we get so much money!" Lao Feng's son has high blood pressure and asthma, and he can't do heavy work, and the family's livelihood has been maintained by Lao Feng's farming, but Lao Feng had to carry his grandson home with his daughter-in-law.
"Later, my daughter-in-law and I asked the doctor everywhere, and we also went to other villages to find a local method to take medicine, but it didn't work, and my grandson couldn't even walk, and he stood up crookedly. My daughter-in-law and I decided to take the child for rehabilitation, and my daughter-in-law asked me to help take it, so I went to the hospital to accompany the child for treatment. Lao Feng was in the hospital with his grandson, while thinking about his family, so he often called home, but then his daughter-in-law's phone couldn't get through, and she changed her number. Lao Feng hurriedly carried his grandson home, only to learn that his daughter-in-law had left with two other healthy children.
Lao Feng said: "I don't blame my daughter-in-law, the family conditions are really not good, the child's treatment is too expensive, and more than 100,000 yuan was spent before and after." The big family still has to live, and the other two children have to go to school. I hope that one day if the child is well and my daughter-in-law can come to see her, I will still let my grandson be filial to her. After the daughter-in-law left, Lao Feng's son worked outside to subsidize the family, so Lao Feng took Xiaofei on the road of treatment alone, and came to Zhenxiong Rehabilitation Hospital. "It's close to home, and I heard that there are children who have been discharged from the hospital here, so I hope to make them better here. ”
The treatment items arranged by the rehabilitation doctor for Xiaofei include OT, PT, speech cognitive integration, silver needle, etc. Although Lao Feng couldn't understand it, Xiao Fei was able to walk after persisting for half a month, which surprised Lao Feng. "I don't want my child to be able to run and jump in the future, as long as he can take care of himself and grow up peacefully, it would be better if he could marry a daughter-in-law in the future. Having said that, Lao Feng knew that he was 68 years old, and it was very likely that he would not be able to wait for that day, not to mention that he still had a disease.
"I broke my arm more than 10 years ago, I didn't have the money to treat it at the time, and I didn't go to the hospital after that, and now I shiver when it rains on a cloudy day. "Lao Feng also has severe rheumatism and lumbar disc herniation, sometimes the pain is so bad that even the doctor can't stand it, poor Lao Feng has to take his grandson for treatment at such an old age, and often helps Lao Feng use acupuncture to relieve pain, Lao Feng is very grateful to the doctors. "Sometimes the child is disobedient and runs around, I chase after me, and when I walk two steps, it hurts, and the nurse helps me watch the child. They're all good. ”
In addition to these, the doctors will also give Lao Feng some of the vegetables they bought, and sometimes they will give Lao Feng and Xiaofei a piece of meat when they buy meat. In order for Xiaofei to keep up with the rapid recovery of nutrition, Lao Feng was reluctant to eat it himself, and often white rice and pickles were a meal. What makes Lao Feng most uncomfortable is that he has never bought snacks for his grandson. Lao Feng said: "It's not easy for my son to make money outside, I have high blood pressure and asthma and I have to take medicine, so we can save a little." "For more than two years, all the fruits that Xiaofei ate were given by the doctor, and Lao Feng himself was reluctant to eat one, so he left all of them to Xiaofei.
"The child is now seven years old and can't speak, but he can understand a little, which is getting better and better, and the doctor said that there is a lot of hope. My only wish now is that the child can take care of himself, be able to go to the toilet and eat by himself, and when he grows up, he will have a care for his father, and his relatives also know that our family is pitiful, and he doesn't always collect debts, and he doesn't know how to pay back hundreds of thousands, as well as future rehabilitation expenses. I'm a person who buries my neck, I don't know how many years I can live, sometimes I want to give up, but what to do if I give up my child, I really can't think of a way, take a step and see a step" Lao Feng said and said that he was already in tears.
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