Mother, and the fate of the child, closely linked, some people say that a good woman should be prosperous for three generations. The influence of the mother on the child here mostly refers to the influence and cultivation of the acquired, and today the mother talks about the influence of the mother relative to the child from the perspective of the genus.
Chinese have a long belief in the Chinese zodiac, which refers to the rat, ox, tiger, rabbit, dragon, snake, horse, sheep, monkey, rooster, dog and pig.
Everyone is born with their own zodiac sign, which will accompany us throughout our lives and have an important impact on our fate, marriage, etc.
It is a unique symbol in traditional Chinese culture, and each zodiac sign carries a deep legend and symbolism.
Behind this cultural symbol is the unique interpretation that people give it, and through careful study, we find that these traits play an important role in shaping a child's character and future development. For example, the following are the genera. Is this providence or coincidence?
Mom's zodiac is a tiger.
Most of them are strong, confident and have leadership qualities. They are good at accepting different opinions in life and work, they are thriving in their work, and the success of their careers can bring more financial support to their families and support their children's early education.
Tiger women are good at managing money, good at capturing investment opportunities, ensuring the stability of the family economy, they have a unique vision, have the ability to think quickly and make flexible decisions, excel in finance and investment, and are very bold in character, will not be afraid of hands, and will dare to face difficulties when encountered.
They are good at setting goals and choosing favorable methods to achieve them, and this kind of character of tiger mothers will be passed on to the next generation through the cumulative influence, and their career is not afraid of difficulties, and the courage to move forward also has a profound impact on the future development of children.
Their children tend to emulate their mothers in their studies and careers in the future, showing amazing talent, and the resilience and decisiveness of tiger mothers set an example for their children to stand out in a competitive society.
Mom's zodiac is a snake
They are very smart, good at strategy and planning, they usually have their own judgment, they have their own outstanding talents in the workplace, excellent management and leadership skills, and their own excellence makes them confident and calm.
And most of their children, most of them have superb language and intelligence, and most of their IQ follows their mothers when they are very young, and they are more confident and intelligent than children of the same age, and they are gifted when they grow up, and their performance in study and work is also very bright.
A mother's wisdom will be passed on to her children, and the mother's conduct and habits will also imperceptibly affect the children.
Mom's zodiac is a dragon
Such women often have wisdom and natural majesty, and their mothers themselves have a high emotional intelligence and IQ, which makes them able to handle their work well, and achieve great success in their careers.
At the same time, they are very kind and work harder to give their children a better life. Therefore, the mothers of this zodiac sign have excellent genes in their conduct, and their children are also naturally smart, whether it is IQ or EQ, they are first-class. This also means that they are destined to make great achievements in their studies and careers.
The mother is a monkey
This phase of the mother, born shrewd, their natal five elements belong to gold, and it is a feminine water life, water lord fortune, with the treasury zodiac, a lifetime of financial fortune.
Moreover, they are very witty, quick to respond and smart, and their traits will also be inherited by their children, and they will inherit their mother's intelligence and keen insight and intuition, and have unique insights and creativity.
This type of child is sociable. They often come to prominence in a variety of fields, earning applause for their innovation and leadership.
Of course, we know that the zodiac is a symbol that we give people, and the success and happiness of the child in the future are inseparable from the mother's own character and conduct, and it is themselves who really determine the future of the child, but we cannot ignore the role of the mother.
Through the above analogy analysis, I believe that many people can see that the influence of mothers on children is not only the influence of personality, but also the influence of habits, lifestyle, attitude, vision and pattern.
The mother herself is excellent, and most of the children will be excellent in the future. And the mothers of other zodiac signs do not mean that you are not excellent, your children are not excellent, but it means that some genetic points are not obvious, or some traits in the personality are not obvious.
There is a sentence written in "The Influence of Mother": "A family, even if it is surrounded by four walls, as long as there is an upright, hard-working, kind, and optimistic mother, such a family is the temple and source of spiritual growth." A mother's influence on her child is like a never-ending force that will last her child's life. ”
What are the specific aspects of mother's influence on children?
The influence of a mother's vision on a child
Visionary mothers, will not be blocked by the height of the roof of the children's vision, will not be trapped by the surrounding limitations of the child's imagination wings, although some mothers themselves have not seen the mountains and rivers, but she is willing to take the children to see the mountains and rivers.
I have seen many mothers who live in poverty but have a very wide vision, even if they have not read and are illiterate, they will use practical actions to tell their children that no matter what situation they are in, they will not be defeated by the difficulties in front of them, and they will not delay their children's future because of a little profit, but they have enough mind to make long-term choices for their children.
Visionary mothers are a light in the dark life of their children, and some mothers stand in front of the darkness to light the way ahead for their children and pave the way for them. And some mothers stand behind their children, stand on tiptoe, and raise a flashlight to light the way ahead for them, and there is no longer darkness and no light along the way, although the strength is very weak, but it will also bring light to the child's lost path.
The impact of a mother's emotions on a child
The formation of children's emotions and personalities in the early years is mostly influenced by their dependents, especially the influence of their mothers, and the American psychologist Harlow proposed an important concept of "attachment", which can be used to explain the emotional connection formed between children and their mothers.
If the child has a tantrum, has needs, and cries, the mother can sensitively perceive and respond gently, and the child will develop a secure attachment to the mother.
As he grows older, this secure attachment relationship can help the child develop an inner sense of security and worth, as opposed to if the mother is grumpy, moody, and often full of negative energy. She will lack the ability to sense and meet the child's emotions and needs.
We can observe that many children are impatient, short-tempered, crying, and clingy, which is mostly related to their parents' emotional instability, quarrels, and tantrums.
All in all, if we want our children to be excellent in the future, we need to constantly observe the advantages of our children, maximize them, and give correct guidance, companionship and love.